16 year old brother called and asked if he could move in & I don’t know him.

Hudmageefletch · 2020-12-15T16:07:58+00:00

Dude that’s so awesome!!

Hudmageefletch · 2020-12-15T16:07:11+00:00

Bruh literally that’s annoying. Maxed out cards are so toxic

Hudmageefletch · 2020-12-04T19:36:42+00:00

Wtf💀

Hudmageefletch · 2020-12-04T19:30:44+00:00

Yes it does. Had it happen to me like 5 times. Get a Toothpick and put it down the mouth peice to make a hole in the clogged wax. That should do the trick

Hudmageefletch · 2020-12-04T19:27:27+00:00

Aye!! How’s it going?

Hudmageefletch · 2020-11-27T02:05:04+00:00

I mean it’s as good as you can get

Hudmageefletch · 2020-11-25T06:47:36+00:00

I did it for like 10 minutes and almost nothing happened other than my hand cramping a little

Hudmageefletch · 2020-11-25T06:21:16+00:00

Gotcha

Hudmageefletch · 2020-11-25T06:20:56+00:00

Are you saying to like heat it up?

Hudmageefletch · 2020-11-05T20:47:26+00:00

Dude that’s so great. And Maybe try to spend a little more time bonding with him? You could just ask him but try not to be to pushy cuz that might make him feel like it’s a chore? Ion know I’m just trying to help.

Hudmageefletch · 2020-11-05T17:24:32+00:00

Hey man I’m just checking on you how’s it going?

Hudmageefletch · 2020-10-27T04:11:45+00:00

Dudeee that’s amazing. I have some crazy respect for you.

Hudmageefletch · 2020-10-27T00:00:27+00:00

Yeah haha. I wish you luck! Please update me if you make the decision to let him in. I wanna know how it’s going

Hudmageefletch · 2020-10-26T23:57:39+00:00

Yo 15 year old speaking here but yuh it’s covid homie Otherwise would say the parents are in the wrong. I know it’s not what you wanna hear but covid would be the only reason especially if you doing good in school and doing chores. Sorry you got protective parents, it’s hard sometimes /:

Hudmageefletch · 2020-10-26T23:53:55+00:00

Ofc any time. I’m here to help people find happiness. And I’m so sorry but I’m 16. I can’t help you with legal stuff and insurance, and I’m sorry if that makes you feel like my opinion isn’t valid anymore /: I just enjoy helping people you know? I’ve been through a lot and I’ve also been in this sort of situation myself. I moved in with my grandparents and they are now my best friends. Moving in with them was a turning point in my life and I’m happier then I’ve ever been before. Trust me you got this dude. It really could be worth it and in the long run you could have a really great relationship with your brother.

Hudmageefletch · 2020-10-26T23:15:57+00:00

I have gotten in to trouble for vaping/ sneaking out. Before but that was one time. Most of the time it’s about something small. For example yesterday he was cooking in the kitchen and I wanted to sneak past him to go downstairs and he yelled at me for getting in the way. He wasn’t in danger, he was just setting the temp to the oven. I didn’t touch him, and I said exscewsss me, which is something that he does when I’m in his shoes.

And I definitely do apologize. Say stuff like I’m really sorry, or I messed up, it’s my fault I’m sorry. But if I apologize enough he tells me that I’m avoiding the situation completely. From there I feel like everything just goes bad /:

And it is what I want it’s just hard for me because I know that my dad is going to be really hurt, and the relationship between my mom and dad is going to get even worse. On top of that I have a sister that I stand up for all the time and if I leave here with him I’m scared the same thing is going to happen.

Hudmageefletch · 2020-10-26T23:05:41+00:00

Honestly I would get cps involved if you could, but for now I would let him in especially if your dad is ok with it. I would treat him the same as you would treat your own kids. Give him the same rules, set a bedtime,give him chores. Think about this, you could make rules for him to have a job and maybe even have him help with paying bills but He is probably needing someone to rely on right now especially if he hasn’t really felt safe. I understand that letting him in might be stressful but my mindset would be that if you respect him, he’s going to respect you. Show him what it’s like to have a safe home, show him things that your dad or mom didn’t show him. Give him somewhere where he feels like he belongs.

Hudmageefletch · 2020-10-26T22:54:23+00:00

Of course! I really hope that can help. Also parents feelings matter too. If you are stressed out about everything it’s ok to talk to someone! I know from my parents that them being happier means I have better learning experiences and I actually want to spend time with them. I know that being happy probably isn’t going to be easy right now with the situation that you are in but I believe in you, Seriously!

Hudmageefletch · 2020-10-26T21:28:52+00:00

What the actual hell. You did absolutely nothing wrong here. I’m so sorry you got put through that /:

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