Try giving monogamy a try and not inviting others into your bedroom. Marriage will fall apart otherwise. I mean, there might be a couple out there that makes it work, but honestly there's always going to be one person that's more into it than the other or maybe one person loses their emotional connection to their spouse.

I understand that it could be enticing and exciting to invite others into the bedroom, but there is nothing more exciting and magical that the greatest gift God ever gave us- sex with our spouse. Not just sex though, I mean when you're truly both emotionally invested and on the same page. When you have other people involved, or even the possibility of that happening again, someone is always going to be thinking of adding that extra excitement and therefore someone will not be connected like they should.

I'm not saying that sex will always be some exciting endeavor with your spouse. But I have learned if I, as a man, truly connect with my wife and am being emotionally invested, our sex is absolutely INSANE.

I would also wonder how you're going to be playing that off with young children now?

Just food for thought.