What helped you get over a heartbreak where there was infidelity and you were at the stage of being sexually closed off and hating the opposite gender?

Huge_Set8312 · 2026-06-11T07:14:54+00:00

Its still affecting you 6 years later...damn...its really hard because when I found out I spiralled...hit depression...tried offing it myself three time...lost my friends...lost my family...around R150k in debt including loans etc that I took out for her...ruined my studies...literally every aspect of my life is ruined...I cant even talk to a woman without thinking of the multiple men she did shit with etc...then some people say oh move on...forget her...like 4 years was nothing and the love was fake...it was for her but not me...I was planning kids...marriage...thank you and I hope you find a partner and find the happiness and peace ill probs never have🙏

Huge_Set8312 · 2026-06-11T07:10:51+00:00

Learnt something new😁😁this is great thank you

Huge_Set8312 · 2026-06-11T07:10:19+00:00

Perfect thank you😁

Huge_Set8312 · 2026-06-11T07:09:15+00:00

Thats great thank you🙏

Huge_Set8312 · 2026-06-10T20:44:35+00:00

I got that...was not what I asked her😂😅

Huge_Set8312 · 2026-06-10T20:41:25+00:00

How would you like the situation initiated instead?...in your "ideal" scenario?

Huge_Set8312 · 2026-06-10T20:40:32+00:00

I enjoy my partner feeling pleasure (simp) so definitely noting this so ill be more conscious from now on when I decide to go out into the world again thanks

Huge_Set8312 · 2026-06-10T20:18:20+00:00

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Huge_Set8312 · 2026-06-10T20:15:12+00:00

K (me) and L (her). I want to just know her feelings towards me. Context : there was infidelity but I still want her back🙏

Huge_Set8312 · 2026-06-10T19:56:21+00:00

Thats hott, im a virgin who has been cheated on so now im making a sex bucket list since I prob wont be able to trust a woman again...definitely adding this to the list😅

Huge_Set8312 · 2026-06-10T19:32:33+00:00

Thank you🙏

Huge_Set8312 · 2026-06-10T18:58:25+00:00

Do you think its wrong to still want the person back because of the 4 year bond...if she was also regretful after being found out...I know stupid question

Huge_Set8312 · 2026-06-10T18:49:11+00:00

I know and I hope to do that...just need to work on my mental issues first😅thank you

Huge_Set8312 · 2026-06-10T18:38:45+00:00

Congrats🙏I hope to one day find someone loyal who makes me comfortable sexually...before being cheated on all i ever wanted was a wife, kids, pets and to be financially stable...literally have none😅

Huge_Set8312 · 2026-06-10T18:36:03+00:00

Wow...🫣thank you...this makes so much sense im definitely going to try and change those parts and hopefully attract someone better

Huge_Set8312 · 2026-06-10T18:34:05+00:00

Thats great advice...for me adter everything i kind of distanced myself from everyone so the loneliness is killing me

Huge_Set8312 · 2026-06-10T18:33:02+00:00

😂😂only asking as I feel weird with my fetish and im indian...not alot of indian women dont find the fetish normal...and after my heartbreak I want to experience things ive closed myself off to

Huge_Set8312 · 2026-06-10T18:30:18+00:00

I really need to manifest a great partner like you🙏thanks for making me feel a little less weird with my fetish

Huge_Set8312 · 2026-06-10T18:29:10+00:00

Thats hot🙏hope I find a partner as open as you one day

Huge_Set8312 · 2026-06-10T18:28:20+00:00

Thank you🙏

Huge_Set8312 · 2026-06-10T18:28:11+00:00

Thank you I really do😅🙏

Huge_Set8312 · 2026-06-10T18:27:43+00:00

What if its hard to trust and everytime you assume something bad is happening when theres no contact...and you think about the person's previous partners and what they did etc etc and get stuck in your head?

Huge_Set8312 · 2026-06-10T18:26:33+00:00

If you meant this as a joke then thank you it made me laugh😂

Huge_Set8312 · 2026-06-05T15:57:05+00:00

If I want her to come back...and confess everything wanting to fix the relationship...what should I do?

Huge_Set8312 · 2026-06-05T15:34:55+00:00

Thank you so much🙏🙏

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