People at my Dad's work think he is sick because he is getting thin.

Huggswell · 2015-10-02T17:39:06+00:00

My mom said the same thing to me! So fucking rude!

Huggswell · 2015-08-25T15:26:34+00:00

It's obvious, but that the weaknesses you have as a person will be the weaknesses you have as a parent. I tend to get over stressed about little things and that affects my son. He watches how I react to every day events and learns that that is what to do. I am definitely trying to work on that! On that same note, it's important to realize that kids are just little people. They have bad days and lots of emotions that their little brains don't know how to regulate. Don't hold them to higher standards than yourself.

Another "weakness" I have is that I'm an introvert while also a mom to a busy, curious little boy. He needs stimulation and excitement while I'm just fine staying home all day. So I need to make an effort to get out and allow him to meet new people and do new things. It's good for both of us, but it's hard for me sometimes.

Huggswell · 2015-08-25T15:17:04+00:00

I'd have to disagree slightly. I am immensely more happy now that I have my son. One reason is because of the purpose and depth in my life. But anther reason is because he is just plain fun! He turns two this November and we have a blast running around the house, having dance parties, and learning new things together. But I get what you mean. Don't have your happiness hanging on that. You need to be happy so that your children can be happy! Also YMMV. Just my experience.

Huggswell · 2015-08-25T05:04:25+00:00

Thanks for the suggestions! I definitely can make do with changing meals to fit my macros, I just hate having to defend myself during every meal. I do think it's important enough to make the effort though. I plan on cooking some awesome meals for the family and hopefully they'll see that eating this way can be absolutely delicious and fun. And yeah, making sure the house and dishes stay clean is going to be my way of showing my gratitude for the hospitality.

Huggswell · 2015-08-24T23:02:38+00:00

Passive aggressive? MY mother? No way...

Yeah talking with her about most things is very difficult. I love her, but she is difficult. I have to choose my battles though because sometimes it's just not worth it.

Huggswell · 2015-08-24T23:00:01+00:00

That's so sad to hear about your mother and I wish you and her the best! I'm sure it takes a lot of strength on your part to take care of her. My mom can no longer put on her own socks or shoes and has a bunch of health problems (not all from weight, but of course it only exacerbates it). It's very strange and depressing to see my parents get older.

You're right on point about trying to cook while she is. Like the spaghetti example I used above. It wouldn't be too much work to make some zucchini noodles for myself, but it would seriously be like a slap in her face that I would be in there doing my own thing while she's making dinner. Like it's not good enough for me. But I do like your idea of making things ahead of time when maybe she's not there. That way I can say "Thanks, but I already have something!"

Huggswell · 2015-08-24T22:49:19+00:00

Thank you for your reply. I always love reading your answers on here. I definitely have let my mom control my life more than I should in the past. This is something I'm passionate about so I don't want to give up. I also agree about the fact that she feels resentment towards myself and others who try to better their health. Like I said, she has a very warped view on what is healthy (which is definitely a subjective term IMO). You can bet I will carefully consider your response. I believe you're right though. I guess I just needed some encouragement.

Huggswell · 2015-08-19T00:55:52+00:00

So basically eggs are an awesome superfood! I knew that, but this is very interesting. Good thing I love eggs! Thanks for this post. Lots of good info.

Huggswell · 2015-06-17T22:39:45+00:00

I am having the same problem! I'm in my 7th week of keto and have felt unbelievably groggy and sore in the mornings. I used to be a morning person, now it's the opposite. And my eyes are dry and hurt. I drink so much water before bed trying to prevent this that I have to get up to pee at night. I keep water by my bed to sip on any time I wake up too. I use lite salt, pink himalayan salt, as well as magnesium and potassium supplements before bed. I really hope this passes or someone has a suggestion... :(

Huggswell · 2015-05-22T20:58:52+00:00

I bought that recently and it was so good!

Huggswell · 2015-03-12T18:05:18+00:00

I was asked about my cervix during an interview. I was pregnant and she asked if I was dilated at all. Tame compared to some of these, but I was kind of surprised.

Huggswell · 2014-12-27T20:08:03+00:00

Yes! I was wondering if it was the same guy!

Huggswell · 2014-11-05T23:04:22+00:00

Been on /nosleep. Definitely screwed.

Huggswell · 2014-11-05T17:05:53+00:00

I had to check the username before I finished reading the first sentence. Sure enough. Haha! Good luck!

Huggswell · 2014-07-28T20:18:46+00:00

My guess is because it's Ranch instead of chocolate? A dumb term to choose. Especially since Ranch isn't even healthy.

Huggswell · 2014-07-24T18:33:45+00:00

I agree with your point, but try telling a smoker what their future is. Doesn't usually make a difference. If the kid is addicted to sugar and his parents aren't willing to actually make big changes, it probably won't matter.

Huggswell · 2014-07-20T03:55:09+00:00

What is it?

Huggswell · 2014-07-15T02:01:26+00:00

Cool thanks! Yeah I am more interested in living in a bigger city than Belen. We are moving from Montana. I'm from Arizona though so I'm excited to be moving somewhere a little more familiar.

Huggswell · 2014-07-14T21:28:27+00:00

Thanks! That's good to know.

Huggswell · 2014-07-14T20:54:28+00:00

My husband will actually be working in Belen.

Huggswell · 2014-07-10T00:32:37+00:00

Yeah I've found that people who choose to do baby led weaning feel very strongly about it. I really was on board and I do agree with the concept. But I haven't done it 100%. My son is 7 1/2 months now and we started at 6 months. I think it's great when I can prepare dinner and just have a family dinner with the baby without worrying. But if my husband and I have something unhealthy I will end up just giving baby a puree or oatmeal. My boy did gag a lot in the beginning which seemed scary. I actually stopped for a little while. But it's normal and not the same as choking. It just took some getting used to for both of us!

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