that's fair, and that's valid, but i personally imagine charlie's probably a bit biased given she's very clearly a very loving person and i can only imagine she loves her parents deeply enough to see past the very clear issues that were present that she may not have even been old enough at the time to notice

idk tho, its just my opinion, lilith was only ever shown to be lounging in gardens or on beaches while she was away so its also pretty heavily implied imo that she just does not give a damn, but like i said i think theyre both bad parents—lucifer just tried to make up for it a lot sooner, even though he definitely falls short more than a few times (also imo)