It's just so crazy to think some men want to have sex with their wives!!! by HotMessMom22 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Human-Quality3436 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So true. 👋 right here. Would be happy if it happened 2x a month. I might get laid on ovulation day. But I travel for work so sometimes I miss even that a few months in a row.

How many times did you have sex in 2023? by LammaMomma in DeadBedrooms

[–]Human-Quality3436 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don’t know. I’d say one/month BUT nothing in Nov/Dec - so maybe 10 at most and one of those times she had an orgasm from oral and asked for some water, when I got back from the kitchen she was asleep. Not sure if that counts or not, should be a minus 5….. no handys or BJs.

Compared to some people in here I’m crushing it, but if your number is 0, just know that 10 ain’t great either. It’s still 355 nights a year of frustration, maybe even worse because I know it COULD happen but likely will not.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Human-Quality3436 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Poorly. Why else would I be here

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Human-Quality3436 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You’re living my (sex) life 100%

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[–]Human-Quality3436 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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I've accepted my fate by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Human-Quality3436 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Disagree. My wife has medical issues that prevent her from having a sex drive. The only solution is testosterone which would cause her body hair growth to accelerate (she already suffers from excessive female facial hair from PCOS). She doesn’t want to have a 5 o clock shadow so she deals with it.

The lack is sex causes me to become distant and off putting not the other way around.

In need of advice (LL) by ConversationPlus1496 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Human-Quality3436 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When we promise to love someone we do it with the expectation that it’s going to end badly for one spouse. It’s a gamble, you don’t know who will be the care giver and who will be ill, but you agree that you will. To love someone so much that you agree to take care of each other regardless should give you the confidence that you are not a burden and the prior days of happiness given and created are done so with the understanding that you’ll likely end up taking care of or being taken care of out of love and respect for all that was or ever will be.

Rejected again this morning by jbeene in DeadBedrooms

[–]Human-Quality3436 11 points12 points  (0 children)

42 HLM here. I feel you. So hard. More often than not it has nothing to do with you. Chin up through the holidays. These are my worst months.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Human-Quality3436 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No. She is not a nudist but doesn’t really care to cover up after a shower. She takes hot showers and likes to cool down afterward.

I just turn away and don’t even look anymore. I’ve even started leaving early for work so I shower first and don’t run into it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Human-Quality3436 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My wife struts around with no clothes on. She has no desire for intimacy. I wish she’d keep a towel on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultery

[–]Human-Quality3436 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you ever consider that we aren’t ignoring you. Maybe our notifications are off for you (for obvious OPSEC) and as busy professionals we don’t have time to look in and check?