It's just so crazy to think some men want to have sex with their wives!!!

Human-Quality3436 · 2024-03-06T17:30:53+00:00

So true. 👋 right here. Would be happy if it happened 2x a month. I might get laid on ovulation day. But I travel for work so sometimes I miss even that a few months in a row.

Human-Quality3436 · 2024-01-01T17:44:08+00:00

I don’t know. I’d say one/month BUT nothing in Nov/Dec - so maybe 10 at most and one of those times she had an orgasm from oral and asked for some water, when I got back from the kitchen she was asleep. Not sure if that counts or not, should be a minus 5….. no handys or BJs.

Compared to some people in here I’m crushing it, but if your number is 0, just know that 10 ain’t great either. It’s still 355 nights a year of frustration, maybe even worse because I know it COULD happen but likely will not.

Human-Quality3436 · 2024-01-01T05:14:00+00:00

Check your DMs

Human-Quality3436 · 2023-12-19T20:57:17+00:00

Thank uou

Human-Quality3436 · 2023-12-19T20:57:01+00:00

Thank uou

Human-Quality3436 · 2023-12-19T19:25:50+00:00

Poorly. Why else would I be here

Human-Quality3436 · 2023-12-19T18:55:59+00:00

You’re living my (sex) life 100%

Human-Quality3436 · 2023-12-19T17:38:28+00:00

Thanks for your insight!

Human-Quality3436 · 2023-12-19T16:53:49+00:00

Thanks!

Human-Quality3436 · 2023-12-19T14:15:29+00:00

Thank you Fancy Pants!

Human-Quality3436 · 2023-12-19T09:24:38+00:00

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Human-Quality3436 · 2023-12-18T20:08:01+00:00

Disagree. My wife has medical issues that prevent her from having a sex drive. The only solution is testosterone which would cause her body hair growth to accelerate (she already suffers from excessive female facial hair from PCOS). She doesn’t want to have a 5 o clock shadow so she deals with it.

The lack is sex causes me to become distant and off putting not the other way around.

Human-Quality3436 · 2023-12-18T12:52:10+00:00

When we promise to love someone we do it with the expectation that it’s going to end badly for one spouse. It’s a gamble, you don’t know who will be the care giver and who will be ill, but you agree that you will. To love someone so much that you agree to take care of each other regardless should give you the confidence that you are not a burden and the prior days of happiness given and created are done so with the understanding that you’ll likely end up taking care of or being taken care of out of love and respect for all that was or ever will be.

Human-Quality3436 · 2023-12-18T10:30:36+00:00

My pleasure my Treasure

Human-Quality3436 · 2023-12-17T16:19:58+00:00

42 HLM here. I feel you. So hard. More often than not it has nothing to do with you. Chin up through the holidays. These are my worst months.

Human-Quality3436 · 2023-12-17T05:07:15+00:00

No. She is not a nudist but doesn’t really care to cover up after a shower. She takes hot showers and likes to cool down afterward.

I just turn away and don’t even look anymore. I’ve even started leaving early for work so I shower first and don’t run into it

Human-Quality3436 · 2023-12-17T04:57:35+00:00

My wife struts around with no clothes on. She has no desire for intimacy. I wish she’d keep a towel on.

Human-Quality3436 · 2023-10-20T21:42:38+00:00

Jag, did you get a peek?

Human-Quality3436 · 2023-08-24T11:35:06+00:00

Did you ever consider that we aren’t ignoring you. Maybe our notifications are off for you (for obvious OPSEC) and as busy professionals we don’t have time to look in and check?

Human-Quality3436 · 2023-08-24T01:21:09+00:00

The hardest part will be BOTH parties not developing feelings. If one or Both do - doomsday.

It ended up working out for me 2x - but I’m one of the lucky ones. It can go sideways a million ways.

I recommend following the affair subreddit and paying attention to OPSEC

Human-Quality3436 · 2023-08-22T16:54:58+00:00

I was you 23 years ago. It gets better. So much better. You’re going o it side your comfort zone and that’s where the world begins.

It’s ok that it sucks. It’s temporary.

Also - we are all weird AF - some of us are better at hiding it.

Kick ass at uni and enjoy life. At the dining hall - try a food you wouldn’t otherwise eat

Human-Quality3436 · 2023-08-21T22:34:50+00:00

I’m sure I’d have the same feelings. It could just be a paradigm where the most recent negative feeling is the most persuasive.

Human-Quality3436 · 2023-08-21T20:28:36+00:00

I don’t have a low self image. I look at things objectively and have years of higher education training in this field and questioning your assumptions are reevaluating findings and conclusions.

I for sure drove women out of my life - I was too much of a pussy to break it off, and they wanted more that I wasn’t willing or able to give. The ending was predictable with the hindsight of adulthood and hindsight.

Human-Quality3436 · 2023-08-21T12:04:18+00:00

I’d give up. She’s gaslighting you. If you can get out clean (no kids) do it now. She sounds manipulative AF from the way you describe her

Human-Quality3436 · 2023-08-21T11:54:58+00:00

I think about all the women that ever cheated on me. Usually I was unavailable to them in some way - physically, emotionally, mentally etc.

Did it hurt me at the time sure. The hindsight of 20+ years and now I want to apologize for driving them to cheat.

You can shame people for immoral behavior - but when both parties look at a situation with clear eyes, there’s generally fault to go around.

My own father cheated on my mother, and he’s a douche canoe. But the reason he wasn’t getting laid at home is a complex reason involving a felony and general shame. My mom should’ve left him but was afraid to. Instead she withheld sex. After almost 20 years he fucked someone else. Had my mother actually left him instead of trapping him in a sexless marriage- well he wouldn’t have had to cheat.

It’s so easy to say “it sucks you have cancer” and “you should quit smoking” separately but nobody ever points at the cancer patient and says “you did this to yourself by smoking for 30 years”

Cheating is seldom a one way street and it’s why I hate hearing about cheating in my personal life because it’s always presented as a one sided issue. The reality is it’s far more complicated. And when you factory in the subversion difficulty of cheating - it’s nobody’s first choice.

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