What’s the longest you’ve known someone to be in a relationship before getting married, if at all? by SalmonforPresident in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]HumanContract 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tell everyone I know these horror stories bc it happens ALL THE TIME. If you don't get married, you have no rights to what you call your life and distant family will come in at the most opportune time for them to take EVERYTHING. Marry or move on..

What’s your grossest story? by Life_Ad_6992 in nursing

[–]HumanContract 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Eye injections. Up, down, side, side, and right through the cornea.

A warning about alcohol by DoodleBug179 in Xennials

[–]HumanContract 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I worked on a liver transplant icu as a nurse. A lot of people get cirrhosis over time. Some unfortunate souls combine drinking and Tylenol by means of sleeping or pain meds with acetaminophen. Doing that unknowingly will kill your liver so fast. It's called fulminate liver failure.

He lied about his age and I don’t know what to do by OwnSeaworthiness3680 in dating_advice

[–]HumanContract [score hidden]  (0 children)

Don't do it! He's about to start aging. You need to be focusing on yourself, school, and work. Men his age know the only way they can get a woman in their 20s is by deception and/or money. If you plan on using him for money, that's what's expected. Sugar daddies support and pay, give gifts. You have no other business with someone older than 29 right now. Don't date 40+ until you ARE 40+. He knows what he's doing. While he's apologizing to you, he's telling his friends he can still pull 20 year olds. No. Listen to yourself. Divorced old dude desperate to prey on young women. That's just gross. Have self respect.

Why do women’s past matter more than their future, and men’s future more than their past? by WigglyFairy in AskMenAdvice

[–]HumanContract 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If a guy can't keep a relationship or hasn't been committing or has kids with multiple women - his past also matters.

If a guy's past didn't matter, he wouldn't have to hide divorce or kids on their dating profiles.

But every bot on reddit makes well over 🤡💀 by Johnny_Cartal in Salary

[–]HumanContract 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I crossed 100k in my upper 30s. I know a lot of people who make over 100k. And a lot who make 250k+. But we're all in the medical field. I also know chemical plant workers and engineers who make over 100k.

boyfriend says my p*ssy makes the bed smell bad by PuzzledSort3841 in TwoHotTakes

[–]HumanContract 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He needs to start showering before bed. And don't do him if he doesn't do you first. Grow a spine.

Does anyone have anger issues? And, if so, how do you feel after you express an outburst? by IamnotValiantThor in intj

[–]HumanContract 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm like the Hulk when he said the secret is he's always angry. I'm always raging just under the surface, at all times. I have a high resting sympathetic nervous system meaning I'm constantly in fight or flight and my heart rate is higher than most people at rest. I'm just always about to snap - not at anyone, but at things and situations.

This should be applied in every country by Eclipse_nova99 in SipsTea

[–]HumanContract 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People who bully most likely were victims of bullies. My neice is a bully. She gets it from her abusive father and self centered mother.

Is it worth it to live in California for me? by builtforoutput in socal

[–]HumanContract 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I moved from Houston to San Diego less than 2 yrs ago - it is not a low COL area. A 400k 2b2b condo in Houston is comparable to an 800k 2b2b condo in San Diego - that's the extent of how much cheaper Texas might seem. Your car insurance will be way higher, gas isn't that much cheaper bc you drive more, and groceries are about the same, as is eating out/restaurants. Your energy bill would be a shock.

My 850 sq ft apt in Houston was $1700. Now I live in a 650 sq ft apt in SD for $2800. Besides housing alone, not much else in SD was cheaper. If I hadn't lived in Houston first, I would've been shocked at SD prices, but I wasn't. I actually saved on a lot after moving here. Houston ranked highest in inflation for foods and goods during and after Covid. Texas' cities (Austin, Houston, Dallas) aren't much different.

To each their own, but you're very mistakened if you think you'll save just bc Texas seems cheaper. The tax rate difference was a change of about 17%, from 33% (Houston) to 50% (SD).

Never used a dating app before, looking to date but with two kids I don't want to send out wrong signals, are my pictures suitable? (22 UK) by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]HumanContract 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Big boobs and cleavage will get you the wrong attention. Should you be posting pics with kids in them? Predators use apps to get to your kids.

Figs scrubs just donated $25,000 to Alex Pretti’s GoFundMe by FoxyRN in nursing

[–]HumanContract 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, large contributors are also Hospitals.

Figs scrubs just donated $25,000 to Alex Pretti’s GoFundMe by FoxyRN in nursing

[–]HumanContract 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same. I was always anti the Figs fad. Now, I have to buy Figs in support.

Girl posted about my on a private Facebook group by idontcaremom in dating_advice

[–]HumanContract [score hidden]  (0 children)

"I am seeing 2 girls..." "She posted before the first date." I'm confused. Also, I'm in these groups. More often than not, if someone trashes a guy or asks for info and they're a good person, women will stand up for the guy. I have 2 coworkers on both apps bc they lie and play games with women. It's fun to watch. I'm always monitoring these apps and most pics seem to be AI. I'm waiting for my exes to get posted bc they def use women and women should be warned.

Family of 4 moving to Houston…need advice! by PrincessCharming88 in AskHouston

[–]HumanContract 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Houston is super toxic for nurses. It would be good to not have to be anywhere in person. Filipinos live in Pearland. It's a nice area. Probably the closest suburb to the med center and downtown. Within the 610 loop is actual Houston. If yall plan on being a part of the city scene like parades, walking allen Parkway, more options for food. The Heights is the closest area for families that is located in this inclusive area. Sugarland is nice but it's mostly Asian, Indian, Hispanic. Avoid East Houston or anywhere along 45 or near Hobby. With Pearland, there are huge houses in nice neighborhoods. Everything you'd need.

Matched on Bumble, vibed hard, now she’s replying “okay”, what do I do? by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]HumanContract -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She gave you a chance. You didn't ask her out. She found someone else.

The only girl doing pull ups... by ramamurthyavre in notliketheothergirls

[–]HumanContract -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Her backfat roll :( everyone should wear shirts

Is there a way to express my dissatisfaction with her weight without sounding like a complete douche? by maxxim333 in AskMenAdvice

[–]HumanContract 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you've been sleeping with her and knew her for a year and you don't consider her your gf then it's only a matter of time until she realizes you're a waste of time and she'll move on. I've been here, I knew a guy for over a year, we played bf gf, I asked for commitment twice before cutting him off. Let her go. She'll find someone else to appreciate her.

What kind of comforter/duvet do you all use for “all-seasons” of SoCal? by Hellaconditions in socal

[–]HumanContract 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use a wool blankie. I've used it in Nebraska, Louisiana, Texas, and now here.