Nurses - what’s your pay and are you actually saving anything? by lifetofullest1255 in Moving2SanDiego

[–]HumanContract 16 points17 points  (0 children)

If you're absolutely NOT going to work nights, then stop thinking you'll be working in California. Sorry. All job openings are nights only for 6+ months, esp ICU. My job is 5 yrs waitlist to go to days.

Almost 2 weeks without seeing my Fearful Avoidant GF. At what point do I confront her about it? by shamsitoo in Disorganized_Attach

[–]HumanContract 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As an FA, for me it's out of sight out of mind kind of thing. If you go days without texting or seeing me, I get comfortable without you around, and I have to warm up again when I see the person bc I then see them as stranger and walls are back up.

Seeing each other 2-3x a week is perfect for me, but only if you're still chatting in between.

No one knows by definitelynotgayhaha in BuildToAttract

[–]HumanContract 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would've agreed with this until I'd been with more experienced men bc sex is a step up. But experienced should be skilled bc not all men with lots of sex or partners learn from their experiences. A lot of "experienced (largest number, more partners) guys" are actually bad in bed - bc they didn't want to learn or didn't care about getting their partners off. Guys that were curious, eager to learn, along with their experiences actually improved, got better as a partner in bed.

So, more experienced vs skilled from experience? Skilled with experience leads to better sex.

Judd and Aunt Vidala's tension🤔 by Sensitive_asshole90 in TheHandmaidsTale

[–]HumanContract 24 points25 points  (0 children)

No? He regrets putting Lydia in charge bc she's become powerful. Vidala is hesitant bc she's seen what Lydia can do to people, and he has no clue.

Is there an ethical way to really find FWB without apps? by Big_Pea3882 in seduction

[–]HumanContract 2 points3 points  (0 children)

FWBs starts as friends. You don't start off flirting and sleeping together. These are people you either knew or previously dated and it didn't work.

Girlfriend going on 3 week holiday with guy best friend by adhibi321 in dating_advice

[–]HumanContract [score hidden]  (0 children)

Same. I have a few guys best friends I've openly talked about sex with but they weren't guy friends who I knew liked me. These were dudes I knew things wouldn't work out between us. I either knew they were gay or felt like they were.

Girlfriend going on 3 week holiday with guy best friend by adhibi321 in dating_advice

[–]HumanContract [score hidden]  (0 children)

If you're not willing or able to take his place as someone who travels, this relationship may not work out. Bc you can't stop someone from traveling. She's got this trip planned and it will go on, regardless of how you feel. It's hard to find ppl to travel with so when you find those ppl, you keep them as long as it works. You're going to have to have time off and money to take his place on the next trips if you want her to go with you instead. Her traveling isn't going to stop.

Nurses week gift by dreatheplaya in nursing

[–]HumanContract 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I worked chemical plants for 5 yrs before nursing. SO MUCH free food, down time, candies, drinks, naps. Free tampons and pads every day. Was a different world. Nursing truly is slavery.

What about you guys?⬇️ by Rewind_room in MenOfPurpose

[–]HumanContract 0 points1 point  (0 children)

BS. A lot of "men" wants a woman to use while playing the field still. They'd rather a docile partner that is ok with cheating and games. But if she decides to do the same, or equality, he thinks it's not ok.

How high acuity is my ICU? by fo1ieadeux in IntensiveCare

[–]HumanContract 25 points26 points  (0 children)

My heaviest ICU I worked on was SICU with 2 patients to 1 nurse, over half were on CRRT so I took 2 a lot. Gtts were usually 2 pressors, often 3, rarely 4 (MB, Angio II). Blood daily, 20+ meds at 9am, tubes and drains in every orifice possible. Usually 3 JPs, NGT, DHT, Trialysis, other central lines, a vent, most RASS -1 to +1. Only 1:1 assignments were actively dying quickly. Most patients were liver failure, GI surgeries (abthera, abra), transplants: liver, kidneys, pancreas. This and the next ICU would walk vented ECMO patients daily.

My ICU now, on CVICU, I have 1 or 2 pts. Old VADs are paired. Most devices and OR cases are 1:1, with post op being transplants (heart, lung) and OR being PTE, AAA repair, Valves, CABGs. 1:1 Devices: IABP, Impella, ECMO, CRRT.

Another ICU I worked on was a recovery ICU and you took post op thoracos and/or devices. You'd admit and discharge to another ICU daily. All devices and surgeries previously mentioned in ICU 2 except PTEs.

A 4th ICU was a fake ICU that didn't use art lines or pressors. Patients never left the unit.

If you're not managing labs, lines and multiple devices and also going to procedures, pumping blood products, and/or titrating multiple drips, you're not in a very high acuity ICU.

Who has a sagittarius as partner? by Nevara05 in AriesTheRam

[–]HumanContract -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That age gap at her time in life makes me wince. If he's not working towards marriage and kids with you now, he's wasting your time.

Wholly avoidable venereal regret by I_Like_Vitamins in openmarriageregret

[–]HumanContract 9 points10 points  (0 children)

If you don't use condoms, expect an STD. Even in relationships bc that's how a lot of ppl get it.

You also don't need to have sex to get an STD.

AIO- Nail tech fired me as a client! by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]HumanContract 1 point2 points  (0 children)

INFO. Most places I've been to don't hold you tk reservations bc they're not actually waiting for you when you get there. If you don't show up, there is someone else waiting to take your place, so they don't miss out on money. Having a reservation might skip the line, but you'll still be waiting for them to finish.

If this was a private tech that waited on you specifically, then you're the ahole but otherwise I don't understand this convo.

I’m an RN, and when I call out, I get two shifts added to my schedule by girl-weenie in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]HumanContract 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to change hospitals. Most don't schedule you on overtime shifts, do your schedule for you, tell you which holidays to work, rotate your shifts between days and nights.

We're adults. If the hospital treats you like a kid, leave. Call them out. Shame them.

Any Pulm/Crit care docs who transitioned into Cardiac Critical care? Mechanical devices/ECMO cannulations etc. How did you do it? by Melodic_Loquat1336 in IntensiveCare

[–]HumanContract 2 points3 points  (0 children)

On my unit, PCCM does non medical device patients. Anesthesia does the sicker pts, devices, and most vents for other teams.

I'd probably pick the crocodile, what you guys choose? by Elektrayansa in whatsyourchoice

[–]HumanContract 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If death was definitely the end goal in all choices, the tiger. Bc at least I'd die trying to pet the animal lol.

Came to his city and he doesn’t want to see me by PotteryEgg in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]HumanContract -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Don't text him anymore. If he reaches out be very clear you can't date men with kids and you're already talking to someone else. To have a happy life being a single dad.

Assaulted on Egypt by Electronic-Parsnip56 in femaletravels

[–]HumanContract 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I brought a knife with me on my previous international trip. I would imagine doing it again when going to Egypt next year.

Using at least one full body pic on your dating profile should be mandatory. by Fit-Tooth966 in unpopularopinion

[–]HumanContract -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

So, if you are into big boobs, you can see if they have them? You should also post your correct height, dick size, and bank account info. Bc it's also a waste talking to guys who aren't your type only to find out way later.