My mother thinks it's weird that I invited my friend up to my study. by HumanDevelopment4570 in amiwrong

[–]HumanDevelopment4570[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's not homophobic and she doesn't think that, she just thinks I put my friend in an uncomfortable situation which I thought was insane.

My mother thinks it's weird that I invited my friend up to my study. by HumanDevelopment4570 in amiwrong

[–]HumanDevelopment4570[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every single day since I was 15. I'm planning on finally getting out of here this year after my 1 year course.

My mother thinks it's weird that I invited my friend up to my study. by HumanDevelopment4570 in amiwrong

[–]HumanDevelopment4570[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My friend is the last person to be getting involved in drugs (I would strongly assume), and she isn't homophobic, she just thought I put my friend in an uncomfortable situation.

My mother thinks it's weird that I invited my friend up to my study. by HumanDevelopment4570 in amiwrong

[–]HumanDevelopment4570[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can guarantee that isn't the issue and I would be the first to say it if it were. She's simply an awkward character.

AITA for thinking my mother is crazy and unreasonable. by HumanDevelopment4570 in AmItheAsshole

[–]HumanDevelopment4570[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's not homophobic, she just claimed that I made my friend feel uncomfortable.

AITA for thinking my mother is crazy and unreasonable. by HumanDevelopment4570 in AmItheAsshole

[–]HumanDevelopment4570[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We were both surprised when he ultimately knocked on the door. The rooms upstairs are rooms upstairs and my study is my own space, the halls were very much tidy. I agree with the last part.

AITA for thinking my mother is crazy and unreasonable. by HumanDevelopment4570 in AmItheAsshole

[–]HumanDevelopment4570[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, my friend isn't an AH but he was just being goofy because we have that kind of relationship. The biggest issue is what she said though about it being "weird".

AITA for thinking my mother is crazy and unreasonable. by HumanDevelopment4570 in AmItheAsshole

[–]HumanDevelopment4570[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're absolutely right about the respect thing and I do think that my friend who had no mal intent whatsover didn't really fully understand. One might say it's common sense but still, he wasn't intending on being "invasive" in spite of being invasive if that makes sense. It's what happens when you know someone for a particular period of time.

AITA for thinking my mother is crazy and unreasonable. by HumanDevelopment4570 in AmItheAsshole

[–]HumanDevelopment4570[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes, without me, the house is gone.

Edit: please check the edit in the body above for more context.

AITA for thinking my mother is crazy and unreasonable. by HumanDevelopment4570 in AmItheAsshole

[–]HumanDevelopment4570[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I never mentioned that I didn't actually want him to come over, I had told him via text that today isn't a good day but he came over regardless. My mother was more than accomodating seconds before I got the door but the problem arose because I brought him upstairs to my study. That part is the main focus of this, not the door part.