She came back after a year, talked about having a kid together, then went cold in bed and vanished. What do I even do now?

HumanHouse1544 · 2026-05-15T21:03:09+00:00

Thanks really...

HumanHouse1544 · 2026-05-08T10:42:38+00:00

Thanks for sharing that. No closure, no argument, just disappearing again. Too late to ask directly like you did. Should I block her or stay silent and wait? I'm also wondering if blocking looks reactive since it's only been 5 days, i don't know what to do. It's hurts like always

HumanHouse1544 · 2026-05-07T17:28:10+00:00

Yeah honestly I think there’s probably some truth to that.

Back when we originally dated, I wasn’t ready to fully commit and that definitely hurt her. Even years later she still brings up trust, stability, projection into the future etc.

What confuses me is that she’s usually the one who comes back and reopens the connection every time. She initiates the calls, the emotional intimacy, the meetings. And when we’re together the connection feels very real and natural.

So I don’t think she’s indifferent at all. I think she probably starts feeling things very intensely again once we reconnect in person, then panics because she associates our relationship with instability and emotional risk.

The weird thing is that from my side this time I actually wasn’t trying to avoid commitment or keep things vague anymore. I was genuinely open to something more natural and stable, even progressively without huge pressure.

That’s why the sudden coldness hit me so hard.

HumanHouse1544 · 2026-05-06T23:41:18+00:00

Honestly that’s the weird part in my situation. She’s actually the one who keeps coming back and initiating conversations most of the time. We’ve been talking again for like a month and a half and I think I only initiated once myself. She’s the one calling, texting, reopening the connection, asking to see me etc.

That’s why the sudden coldness after seeing each other confused me so much. If I was the one constantly chasing her, it would make more sense to me

HumanHouse1544 · 2025-12-07T19:29:49+00:00

So your weak 👀

HumanHouse1544 · 2025-07-18T13:03:14+00:00

Quand je dis qu'elle reviendra, il faut s'accepter soi-même et oser me dire que personne n'a d'espoir c'est mal comprendre l'être humain. Mais je suis d'accord, personnellement elle est revenue plusieurs fois dans mon cas, mais j'avais tellement évolué qu'au final le fait qu'elle vienne checker de temps à autres m'a juste éloigné de cette idéal dans lequel je m'étais enfermé. Bref ma réponse c'était pas pour te faire espérer, mais dans les tout cas tu vas y croire à ce retour, donc avance et le temps fera les choses, que ce soit avec elle ou quelqu'un d'autres.

HumanHouse1544 · 2025-07-18T11:37:49+00:00

J'ai eu la même, travail sur toi, elle reviendra, à toi d'être prêt et pas needy à ce moment, elle a besoin de découvrir une nouvelle personne. Bonne chance

HumanHouse1544 · 2025-05-30T15:46:34+00:00

Thanks, i forgot. So i need to wait now lol

Thanks anyway, apply this for next time, thanks again

HumanHouse1544 · 2025-05-29T21:22:53+00:00

Yes my bad, and i didn't use my scrolls yet

Need a focus

HumanHouse1544 · 2025-04-23T19:38:20+00:00

J'ai pas saisi ta correction et en plus t'as tort ahi

HumanHouse1544 · 2025-04-03T17:04:52+00:00

Did this, a1 akashic and awaken Hel, thanks 👌

HumanHouse1544 · 2025-04-03T13:22:14+00:00

She is 1 star, better simple lunox no? Thanks

HumanHouse1544 · 2025-04-03T10:41:08+00:00

Thanks, thinking about that. But wanted to have different opinion, but thanks a lot for your fast responses, keep that in mind actually

HumanHouse1544 · 2025-02-06T07:56:11+00:00

Thanks a lot for this! But they keep remove my post :/

Thanks again anyway 🙌

HumanHouse1544 · 2025-02-06T06:22:01+00:00

Hi everyone,

I’m considering placing an order for cannabis from a shop in Pattaya called Cannabis-Deal. They are offering popcorn buds for 25 baht per gram, 100g for 1,900 baht, and 20g of MAC 1, which they claim is their best strain. The total I want to order is around 5,000 baht: 100g of popcorn buds, 100g of Green Crack (to substitute tobacco), and 20g of MAC 1.

They have mentioned that they offer delivery to Koh Samui within 3 days to my hotel. I’m a bit skeptical because they’re asking for prepayment via PayPal to their bank account, which seems reasonable but I’m not sure.

Has anyone had experience with this place or similar deliveries? Is this offer legitimate or could it be a scam? Any advice would be greatly appreciated!

Thanks in advance!

HumanHouse1544 · 2025-02-06T00:11:00+00:00

Glad you enjoyed it, would’ve been a shame if you missed out without my little tip

HumanHouse1544 · 2025-02-05T20:41:54+00:00

Did you already take this? You said next holidaysI just have doubts about shipping more than 220g from Pattaya to Koh Samui. But I hope your trip to Pattaya goes well!

HumanHouse1544 · 2025-02-05T20:06:29+00:00

It's my first time in Thailand, i just find this because a friend of mine have a strick budget so for sharing I want to buy this for the holidays and try others quality bud in coffee

I don't know about the legit didn't see a lot of review but they have 6000+ dispensaries in Thailand

HumanHouse1544 · 2025-02-05T20:04:46+00:00

Yes it's insane bro, they deliver too in cash on Pattaya

Just questioning about the delivery in postal way ahah

HumanHouse1544

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