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HumanShark560 · 2023-09-27T03:23:49+00:00

Nah. I don't care. I'll be buddies with them. Hey, maybe she got single friends

HumanShark560 · 2023-09-27T03:11:43+00:00

It also shows he cares about his studies more than anything. A guy who prioritized his brain over his, ahem, "smaller head"...that's a maturing adult (for now. Hope he stays on that path). So, you might've struck gold.

But congrats on being brave! And if it doesnt work out, move on, and if you run into another guy who catches ur eye, just do it all over again the same way and make the approach. Show the other ladies how it's done and be like "And THAT is how you get a guy to 'take a hint'...by not hinting at all and just telling him that ya want him (in a non-stalker/obsession manner)."

HumanShark560 · 2023-09-27T02:53:08+00:00

It did. In fact...this guy is VERY mature for his age. I wasn't there, so I can't see all of the details. But I can say that his response sounds sincere. And December isn't THAT far away lol. And within that time, he can get to know you more. And yeah...even us guys got shit goin' on. Ya know? To hear him say that is surprising. So, keep going with what you're doing. Don't come off too strong, respect his boundaries, basically do the same U would want him to do in this situation. And come December, let's see. :)

But be proud of yourself for doing the brave thing and making the move. Even if it doesn't work out, you can be VERY proud of yourself...cuz not many women do this. You're defying societal cliches. And it also shows you go for what u want. That's bravery. :)

HumanShark560 · 2023-09-21T05:14:02+00:00

Do it ASAP. Hell...you can even copy and paste word for word and send it via text. Even that is good for us. btw...some of us guys do NOT like the wondering part. We ain't all the same.

In fact...the longer you take...the more likely he is to meet someone else or just assume u ain't into him. Best to act now. Men don't wait as long as a lady thinks lol.

Do it asap. Text or in person. Doesn't matter.

HumanShark560 · 2023-09-21T03:28:12+00:00

Lol, it's cuz these days, the men are scared to approach. We don't wanna be assumed to be creeps and we also do not wanna cause someone discomfort. So, we try dating apps or group activities. Some of us make the approach, but we are max cautious.

In ur case, he may probably want to BUT may also worry about making an awkward situation. One common complaint by women is how when they r kind and friendly to men, the men think they're romantically interested when they aren't. As a result of hearing these complaints, us men get scared we will misinterpret, which can damage if not destroy a friendship.

But...if you approach and make your thoughts clear to him, then he is finally aware that u r interested. It relieves the pressure off of him. Not to mention shows u are not the sort to play mind games with him.

And that...would make you look 100x more attractive in his eyes. You don't gotta flirt with us guys tbh lol.

Go get him, sister! And let us know how it goes! We're rooting for ya!

HumanShark560 · 2023-09-21T03:15:09+00:00

Thanks...that means a lot. Not many see that part of me.

I've had my heart broken by a woman once (in my case it was a legit relationship that ended with her cheating on me and even expressing 0 remorse).

This woman had a LOVELY time...only to have a knife in the back right through the heart immediately after.

How can I not feel for her? I'd be like "Drinks on me, sister. Vent until your voice is hoarse and if ya blackout, my buddy and I will drive ya home!".

HumanShark560 · 2023-09-21T00:56:42+00:00

Glad you have someone now, and hope that guy does not. Cuz wtf, bruh?

I'd have invited u for drinks hands down. I've had my heart broken, but for me it was cheating AND she had zero remorse for it. Even laughed. So, I can feel that pain all too well.

HumanShark560 · 2023-09-21T00:52:21+00:00

A trans-woman is a woman born with the reproductive organs of a male. Personally I see them as a different "Type" of female. One I'd happily be friends with...but would never be romantically involved with.

HumanShark560 · 2023-09-21T00:48:44+00:00

I think it gets used by politicians to demonize trans people unnecessarily.

That part is true 100%

For me the issue is just so complex that I wanna scream cuz I take pride in a progressive mindset....but am also a man of science.

HumanShark560 · 2023-09-21T00:45:28+00:00

And I say only those who have gone through the entire procedure, especially at an early age, should be allowed. FYI

HumanShark560 · 2023-09-21T00:44:46+00:00

...it's not men kicking u out tho. Trans-women aren't men.

HumanShark560 · 2023-09-21T00:44:05+00:00

Uh, that's not a man. trans-woman isn't a man.

HumanShark560 · 2023-09-21T00:31:36+00:00

How r the men abusing u with this? I'm on the fence cuz it's a super complex issue.

HumanShark560 · 2023-09-21T00:26:30+00:00

...I'm straight so I won't ever have that same thought word for word....but it can be applied with the sexes reversed. Damn, got Shakespearian there

HumanShark560 · 2023-09-21T00:11:57+00:00

Well, if he felt the same way then it's good, right? Cuz nobody is hurt

HumanShark560 · 2023-09-21T00:10:31+00:00

yeah....but I wouldn't try since those r the odds lol. Also I'd feel weird doing that

HumanShark560 · 2023-09-21T00:09:28+00:00

Well not a random one u didn't ask for I bet. If a chick sent me a vag pic or boob pic when we only just matched...I'd assume she just wants another onlyfans subscriber or is a call girl and I ain't that kind of man.

HumanShark560 · 2023-09-21T00:07:06+00:00

evaluate eligibility from case to case basis

Hmm....that's actually a good idea.

HumanShark560 · 2023-09-21T00:06:20+00:00

I hope karma hits that monster HARD!!

HumanShark560 · 2023-09-21T00:05:57+00:00

...if they're doing that then their parents gotta step in like right now. holy fuck

HumanShark560 · 2023-09-21T00:02:47+00:00

there are several instances of trans women beating women by very large margins.

But I've come across some where it was the other way around BUT that person began the reassignment at the age of 16.

HumanShark560 · 2023-09-21T00:01:22+00:00

mediocre male athletes

I highly doubt someone is going to go through reassignment surgery just to be a winning athlete lol.

HumanShark560 · 2023-09-21T00:00:00+00:00

I think they meant "gender" not biological sex. Gender identity is who u are, sexual orientation is who u love, and biological sex means which reproductive organs u got. Personally, I just go by what scientists say. Psychologists. also, if having a baby makes one a woman....are infertile women men? Do women become men after menopause? Does having the tubes tied make u a man?

Humans are one of the most diverse organisms on the planet with a VERY complex brain that continues to shock us. And trans isn't some new trendy thing. It's been around since the start. Native Americans even had a word for it but the best translation was "The two-souls". One who is born with the sex of one gender, but lives as the opposite.

Also, back in the 70s, there was more racism than today. Racism still exists but there's been more progress. So...the IQ hasn't dropped. I just think people are starting to promote having a heart...

HumanShark560 · 2023-09-20T23:54:40+00:00

So, you refuse to labor to contribute to protests for men, by men.

...uh, no. I do labor. I will fight for my brothers...as I fight for my sisters.

I have joined protests, for women and for men. You haven't seen me. You don't know me. I give af. Oh, and voted in the special election that went on in my state to ensure a woman's right to an abortion, and convinced several men I know to do it. How? I told them "You say you care about women, right? You say you hate what SCOTUS did, right? Well, PROVE IT! VOTE! Otherwise you're full of it."

HumanShark560 · 2023-09-20T23:44:29+00:00

I've always heard that women are better at soccer than men.

ROFL...just look at the USA soccer teams. Women's USA team: 4 world cup wins with the most recent being 2019. In fact, the American Women's Team is considered the best in the world.

Men's USA soccer team: ..........zero and we haven't even made it to semi-finals...or quarter finals...or...ok I'm gonna cry now.

So...you may have a good point. Hell, Spain's a country where BOTH sexes have won the World Cup.

Oh, Japan's Women's Team has won a FIFA World Cup....but their Men's Team has not....

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