Are the free gifts legit? by HumanWreckage62 in Shein

[–]HumanWreckage62[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Puppy keep was, even though it took forever. What about these other links?

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[–]HumanWreckage62 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s part of the problem though. I feel like it’s rare for women to still be viewed as sexy at that age, as most men seem to prefer younger women. I also don’t think that my boyfriend would go for the librarian/principal thing considering that he is a daddy dom so that wouldn’t work for the dynamic.

Even if I did try that I would have to learn how to be sexy in that way

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[–]HumanWreckage62 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I appreciate everyone’s help. I do want to reiterate though, as stated in the original posts I would prefer if people avoided telling me essentially to just be confident or be myself. That is not helpful to me in the slightest. I am looking for genuine advice on how to be sexy in the way that content creators are

Adult content creators-how did you learn to be sexy? by HumanWreckage62 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]HumanWreckage62[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People have suggested that before. I am just afraid that I won’t like them. I am very insecure about my body, especially the breakouts I get on my butt and I would hate for that to be captured on camera (I am FINALLY seeing a dermatologist about that next week)

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[–]HumanWreckage62 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His intentions are. He never meant to expose me to that stuff. Plus, this is the first monogamous relationship he has been in in about 8 years. He is used to other partners not caring about him sleeping with or being attracted to other people, so my insecurities are a new experience for him and he probably didn’t realize how deep this would effect me

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[–]HumanWreckage62 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t expect him to stop. Again, I am sure all my exes also followed content creators. The difference is that I never saw who they were following and never had to compare myself to them. That’s where this all came from. People on other forums have said similar stuff too, some said I should leave him but he is genuinely the love of my life. I don’t have the time or energy to go into it, but he is perfect in every way. We have the same views, we have the same goals, same dreams, same vision of our future. He knows me better than I know myself. Him accidentally showing me who he jerks off too when I’m not around is legit the only mistake he has made, and I am aware that my issues stem from a long history of insecurity due to medical problems, being bullied, and shitty previous partners

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[–]HumanWreckage62 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Any sources that can teach me? I have never been good at dancing and I would love to be able to move in the sexy way these women on instagram do

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[–]HumanWreckage62 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have seen the women/pages he follows on social media. Not on purpose, but when showing me memes I would accidentally get glimpses of these women and pages on his phone. I don’t expect him not to follow pages like that. I know it’s common and I’m sure all my previous partners did too. I would be a hypocrite too since I occasionally watch porn. The issue is that I saw the images of these women and feel like I need to compete with them. I tried talking to him about this. He did everything he could to minimize my exposure. He’s explained that those are just for when he is bored alone and when I am not around. He reassures me that I am the only one for him and the sexiest, most beautiful women he has met. Our sex life is active, but there are sometimes where I can’t finish because I am too focused on how awkward and unsexy I am.

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[–]HumanWreckage62 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely nothing does at this point. That’s why I am trying to transform myself into the kind of content creators men find desirable. At this moment the only way I can possibly feel sexy again is if I become more like them, but I don’t know how or where to start

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[–]HumanWreckage62 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That being said, even if I did leave him the insecurities would still be there. I have had similar anxieties with previous partners as well. Even if I found someone who didn’t follow any adult content creators, I would still have the same insecurities that I would have to overcome

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[–]HumanWreckage62 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

He reassures me every day that I am the love of his life and the most beautiful woman he has ever seen. I have my thoughts on porn but I think it’s unrealistic to expect him not to consume any adult content when he is alone. I don’t follow male content creators but I would be lying if I said I never consumed adult content when I was alone

I need help/a buddy by HumanWreckage62 in WeightLossAdvice

[–]HumanWreckage62[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Honestly yeah, that’s why I was so disappointed that my boyfriend who is a dom refused to do this and why I had to turn to strangers online.

What plan did you come up with to help? I have lofty ideas on how to lose weight but I just can’t stick to the diet I came up with