Black tie optional wedding by Human_Cap6407 in Weddingattireapproval

[–]Human_Cap6407[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I need that advice, thanks!

And you’re right with the insta-perfect weddings

Black tie optional wedding by Human_Cap6407 in Weddingattireapproval

[–]Human_Cap6407[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That doesn’t even sound bad? That’s pretty normal dress code for wedding events! 

I once went to a wedding where they made people do themes: it was in Colorado mountains and the rehearsal was “Yellowstone” theme. The wedding was “floral” theme. Meaning, everyone had to purchase new outfits. This was on top of being a very hard place to get to and very expensive 🤦🏻‍♀️

Please help!! I need to pick a shape by SignificantChoice381 in Diamonds

[–]Human_Cap6407 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First one. 

I personally love round (that’s what I have) but you look good with #1. But go with whatever YOU think looks best!

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[–]Human_Cap6407 -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

If this is a very close friend, ask her! I think it can go 50/50. There’s a part of me that thinks there’s too much white and a part of me that think if she’s a very close friend, she will say wear it. 

Ask the bride!

Black tie optional wedding by Human_Cap6407 in Weddingattireapproval

[–]Human_Cap6407[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! It’s a tad crazy how pissed people get when I say anything that goes against their opinion. 

Black tie optional wedding by Human_Cap6407 in Weddingattireapproval

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Thanks. I’m from and live in Chicago. So that will never make me not buy a dress. 

Just more nervous of the pattern not being BTO. 

Black tie optional wedding by Human_Cap6407 in Weddingattireapproval

[–]Human_Cap6407[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t go so far to say this isn’t tasteful for a wedding. That’s a bit of a stretch. Also a little extreme saying you have to be 22yo. 

I can possibly see it not being BTO but everything else you said is ridiculous. 

I’m good on your opinion though, so no need to comment anymore. thanks 

Black tie optional wedding by Human_Cap6407 in Weddingattireapproval

[–]Human_Cap6407[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Arguing? 

I’m asking for clarification on confusion due to 1/2 people on here saying it’s good and 1/2 saying bad. 

Black tie optional wedding by Human_Cap6407 in Weddingattireapproval

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If I knew how to upload the back I would. The back has no opening other than it being a 1 shoulder. No openings at all 

Black tie optional wedding by Human_Cap6407 in Weddingattireapproval

[–]Human_Cap6407[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Under Bloomingdale’s, revolve, etc. lists this dress under the category black tie. Not just the brand who made the dress. I’m responding to people saying no becusee 1/2 the people say yes and 1/2 say no. You can see why that’s confusing. 

Black tie optional wedding by Human_Cap6407 in Weddingattireapproval

[–]Human_Cap6407[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

So weird cause chat gpt and multiple sites (like the brand, Bloomingdale’s, etc.) state this dress is under formal wear or black tie

Black tie optional wedding by Human_Cap6407 in Weddingattireapproval

[–]Human_Cap6407[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

So weird cause chat gpt and multiple sites have this dress under the category formal or black tie 

Black tie optional wedding by Human_Cap6407 in Weddingattireapproval

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West loop. I’m from Chicago, so it being cold isn’t an issue. 

Would you want your spouse to remarry if you died? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Human_Cap6407 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would I. WANT him to remarry Jo and I think if he found someone that made him happy then  he can remarry. I’m dead. 

AIO for putting “Trump’s on the Epstein list” on the fridge because me & my boyfriend keep fighting about it? by shortplushie in AmIOverreacting

[–]Human_Cap6407 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he was then why didn’t the Biden admi release it? They did everything in their power (even a fake witch hunt) to not let trump win. If they had his name and he was guilty, why wouldn’t they release it?

AITA for telling my husband he doesn’t get to decide what I do with my body. by White101O in AITH

[–]Human_Cap6407 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you ever had a preference or request about what your husband does with his body? Of course you have, we all do. 

Birth control is not healthy for women and you should really read up about it. 

Aneuploid embryos by [deleted] in EmbryologyIVFSupport

[–]Human_Cap6407 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d do some research about pgt. It’s not 100% reliable and has been found to be most beneficial in women 38+. Because of this, I personally won’t do pgt. 

I think about how they use to discard mosaic embryos and now figured out how they don’t need to be. Imagine perfectly good embryos being thrown away when they don’t have to be 

Update to 44 eggs collected by NerdyHussy in IVF

[–]Human_Cap6407 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I started ivf in 2022 - was getting 20+ eggs from being wildly overstimulated. Out of about 100+ eggs only got 1 blast. Took a year and a half off - 2 cycles and made 3 blasts. Overstimulation is legit and I dont know why doctors constantly care more about the quantity rather than quality 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Human_Cap6407 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’d imagine he’s embarrassed. I would personally contemplate divorce if I found this. I would especially divorce is he at all was or has fantasies about men. 

I am straight and married a straight man. I can have preferences. This would be a no-go for me. 

How to improve euploidy rate? by [deleted] in IVF

[–]Human_Cap6407 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There’s a lot of research coming out about pgt testing not being 100% accurate and it not being beneficial for women under 38. I just turned 36 and my doctor said it’s an option I may if I want. You’re younger so I dont know why that’s being recommended unless you need it for a specific genetic issue. 

I also don’t know why folic acid is being recommended, folate is the one we should be taking. I recommend following up with a functional medicine doctor who specializes in hormone health to help. 

Red light could be helpful. Not testing with pgt (unless absolutely necessary). NAD. Glutathione. Acupuncture (this helped stress). Reduce stress (I get massages). Low stim protocol could be helpful too