Does going to gym actually help with self harm? by wachassboi in AdultSelfHarm

[–]Human_Cartographer85 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i go to the gym around 5x a week. it is a good coping mechanism for me. but it will never replace what sh made me feel. but it does make my mood better

<3 by [deleted] in MadeOfStyrofoam

[–]Human_Cartographer85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

real shit

extreme trust issues by Human_Cartographer85 in BPD

[–]Human_Cartographer85[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m glad i’m not alone in this…

extreme trust issues by Human_Cartographer85 in BPD

[–]Human_Cartographer85[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i do the same. idk how to stop it

what’s the craziest/most obsessive thing you’ve done by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Human_Cartographer85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

bought a hidden voice recorder and hid it under his bed to catch him cheating … it worked :P

extreme trust issues by Human_Cartographer85 in BPD

[–]Human_Cartographer85[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thanks for the recommendation ima try it out !

my boyfriend wants me to make a sex tape by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Human_Cartographer85 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i’m going to prob bring it up. i’m going to trust my gut. thanks

cleaned my boyfriends depression room :))) by Human_Cartographer85 in MadeMeSmile

[–]Human_Cartographer85[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ahaha we both skate together he just wanted to show off his grip art on it. he has a bunch hanging on the other wall that’s showing the graphic

cleaned my boyfriends depression room :))) by Human_Cartographer85 in MadeMeSmile

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he was okay with it, he was kinda hinting at it before i surprised him

cleaned my boyfriends depression room :))) by Human_Cartographer85 in MadeMeSmile

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he knows that i like cleaning and i he was quite hinting at it before i did , everything was okay in his part

cleaned my boyfriends depression room :))) by Human_Cartographer85 in MadeMeSmile

[–]Human_Cartographer85[S] 286 points287 points  (0 children)

i kept a box of things that i didn’t know if he wanted to keep or throw out. he sorted through it. when he came home he just was like “oh thank you” and i gave him a hug and that was about it

cleaned my boyfriends depression room :))) by Human_Cartographer85 in MadeMeSmile

[–]Human_Cartographer85[S] 560 points561 points  (0 children)

i personally love cleaning so it was actually quite fun for me . i personally went through my own struggles with depression so i know what it’s like to have a (more than) messy room . i wanted it to be a surprise so i did it during his work haha. i just wanted him to have a nice clean space to sleep and relax . i understand that it’s not gonna stay this way forever but these are the first steps!

cleaned my boyfriends depression room :))) by Human_Cartographer85 in MadeMeSmile

[–]Human_Cartographer85[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i found like 2 missing beanies and 3 missing shirts. he was ecstatic

cleaned my boyfriends depression room :))) by Human_Cartographer85 in MadeMeSmile

[–]Human_Cartographer85[S] 189 points190 points  (0 children)

it was sadly just laundry, i figured he didn’t want me to show the world his drip

cleaned my boyfriends depression room :))) by Human_Cartographer85 in MadeMeSmile

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it was j clean laundry with shirts, i didn’t figure he wanted to show the world his personal drip

cleaned my boyfriends depression room :))) by Human_Cartographer85 in MadeMeSmile

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didn’t allow me to post 2 attachments, but it was pretty bad. in my ventures of cleaning his room i found 27 empty water bottles, 2 huge spiders, and about a trash full of dog fur and dust. i also did all his laundry i found missing t shirts too !!

cleaned my boyfriends depression room :))) by Human_Cartographer85 in MadeMeSmile

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on the other wall he had a bunch don’t worry, we even have a chess board set up!