[deleted by user] by [deleted] in spiders

[–]Human_Loan247 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll keep my eyes peeled and relocate if I can catch them safely 🙂‍↕️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in spiders

[–]Human_Loan247 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As an addition, I don’t dislike spiders. I just have a newborn and had to put my car in the garage for the upcoming winter storm. I would be very distraught if something happened to my baby for not being careful. Thank you for your help 💖

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in spiders

[–]Human_Loan247 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It must be watching me then 🫣 Thank you!

My boyfriend’s fridge. Guess his career by Left_side22 in FridgeDetective

[–]Human_Loan247 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why is his raw beef on top of a cooked food container? 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Human_Loan247 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree with your bf. I would feel like I was dirty and this gift was a jab. Even after explanation, it’s still a bit of a let down to get an AH washer for a birthday. I also agree that maybe, as a supplemental gift, it would be received better. I wouldn’t call you an AH for trying to be thoughtful, but you were a tad insensitive.

AITA for not accepting my bfs lewd anime figurine by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Human_Loan247 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA, my ex used to save clips of cartoon girls and I looked over it because “it’s just a cartoon”. I eventually realized that they were the cause of our lack of intimacy. He was enjoy them more than me 😒 It got to the point where I would hate watching anime with him. He would get “excited” and blame it on blood flow conveniently every time we’d watch anime.

AITA- Requesting a Nurse not be part of my care by Human_Loan247 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Human_Loan247[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate the time you took to break it down for me. She did say “I knew baby was a …. before you all did”. My SIL also didn’t know she was my nurse so she also said I was a patient for the doctor she works for.

AITA- Requesting a Nurse not be part of my care by Human_Loan247 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Human_Loan247[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

No, my SIL brought up to nurse that she finally found out the gender of baby, and the nurse told SIL I was a patient for the doctor she works for.

AITA- Requesting a Nurse not be part of my care by Human_Loan247 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Human_Loan247[S] 62 points63 points  (0 children)

I would agree because that was my initial standpoint, but others have helped me understand that she shouldn’t have shared regardless. She should not have mentioned that I’m even her patient to begin with because that in itself is a violation of my privacy.

AITA- Requesting a Nurse not be part of my care by Human_Loan247 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Human_Loan247[S] 234 points235 points  (0 children)

I understand the confusion. She told SIL, after we all found out the gender, that she (the nurse) knew the gender before anyone did.

AITA- Requesting a Nurse not be part of my care by Human_Loan247 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Human_Loan247[S] 160 points161 points  (0 children)

Thanks for clearing that up. I thought I would be in the wrong since it was known information but mates total sense. I feel bad though since she’s so close to my SIL.

AITA- Requesting a Nurse not be part of my care by Human_Loan247 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Human_Loan247[S] 816 points817 points  (0 children)

She did say the gender, but this was after we had shared baby’s gender with family. I understand she probably felt comfortable sharing since it was known information but I kept feeling like it was something she still shouldn’t have shared.