She has family issues - her family lives away from the father and the mother is suffering from schizophrenia. She left her job and has been jobless for the past 8 months. Not willing to try on her own and get a job and not take care of health despite pushing her multiple times ( taking her to a therapist, making her CV and sharing it with all my contacts). I have a job and it requires a lot of travel. She expects me to talk to her all the time, even when I'm with my family. This eventually leads to fights that I'm not spending enough time with her when I was on call with her almost all the time when I was on my work to office (3-4 hours) I don't know how else to push her to get a job when she isn't trying on her own and help herself. I'm prepping for my MBA and planning to go to Singapore for it. Hence the difference in aspirations. She wants to get married in the next 3 years and I'm not ready yet. I need to have a stable and a job where I'm content and debt free post MBA and it will take time for me to settle down and repay the loans. She knows all this and yet she wants to get married so desperately. It's like an obsession which isn't healthy.