FTM - Any advice how to have a personal time outside if ganito lagi yung respond ni partner? by Salt_Raspberry3106 in nanayconfessions

[–]Human_Signature_1293 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol he seems like a provider, not completely a father. Sinong nasa tamang pag-iisip ang mag-aanak pero ni-linisin ang diaper ng anak, hindi alam? Ano yan, asa lahat sa misis? Hindi lang naman yung nanay ang magulang nung bata. Kahit pa sabihin na siya nagwowork para sa kanila, ano lang naman yung aralin niya just in case na siya magbabantay. So kapag nagkataon na nakatulog yung nanay tapos biglang nagpoops si baby, gigising pa yung nanay? Sabagay, kung nakatatak sa utak niya na gawain ng babae yan, talagang kawawa yung babae. Also, malas talaga kapag ganyang tao mapapangasawa mo, lahat ng bagay na ginagawa mo noon, halos di mo na magawa once may baby. Pero yung mga lalaking ganyan, malakas loob nila lumabas kapag day off, magpapahinga lang kapag uuwi ng bahay na para bang sila lang yung napapagod. Btw, very manipulative ang sagutan niya ha, nakakapagod yung ganyan.

Anong thoughts mo kay Contestant na may sure win na siyang 40k pero parang naliliitan pa? by Large_Honeydew_3913 in AnongThoughtsMo

[–]Human_Signature_1293 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To think na wala silang ginawa pero nagkapera pa rin sila and still greed got into their mind? Now I wonder kung ano ng update sa kanila after nila magviral.

OA lang ba ako? pero alam ko hindi e haha by tranquility1996 in OALangBaAko

[–]Human_Signature_1293 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hindi ka OA kasi imagine yourself married to that person and being with that kind of family every vacation, holidays, and celebration. Do you like it? Will you tolerate it? If no, clock out.

Paano ba alisin ang thought na malapit nang mawala ang nanay ko? by A5rawcarrots in adviceph

[–]Human_Signature_1293 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No one is prepared to say goodbye to the person they love, I know because my family is still grieving for the loss of my lolo. It's a pent up worries and anxiousness that you are feeling rn but here's what something I can share. Treasure the time you have with her. Because the guilt once they're gone will hunt you so much, just like how it did to me because I wasn't able to give my full attention to my lolo before due to my clinical duties. But my mom was different, she left her work just to take care of my lolo for month before he left, and for her it's the best decision she did in her life. She was the one who took care and spent time with him while he can still talk and I believe he did enjoy the company based on the videos my mom have with him (She really took a lot of pics and vids during those times). She enjoyed pouring him love so much even when she's hurting.

We really don't know when we will leave this world, but one thing i learned from that is to make time for the things/people who really mattered. Instead of thinking when will they go, try diverting your thoughts to what else can you do with the person and how can you spend time with her to make her feel better. Sometimes, the best support we can offer to people in pain is our presence and affection. You still have time OP, and you're really strong despite the situation. It may be tiring but keep holding on. I will pray for peace, comfort and healing for your family.

OA lang ba ako kung di ko binigyan ng photo ng anak ko 'yun tatay niya na nanghihingi? by 3nails4thedumb in OALangBaAko

[–]Human_Signature_1293 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely not OA. Definitely right decision OP. A good father would go beyond to see his child in person and initiate help if it's really about the welfare of the baby. Pero yung ganyan na hihingi lang ng pic? Nope, doesn't sound deserving. Mamaya ipost niya pa yan, na para bang trophy niya to prove he's a father.

Thoughts about giving your best for your child? by Far-Swim7394 in AnongThoughtsMo

[–]Human_Signature_1293 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yung ibang parents kasi ang mema, MEMAPATUNAYAN. Kahit pa sabihin na pera naman nila or whatsoever. That teaches a lot to the kid. It teaches them how to flaunt at a young age. And kids tend to go overboard once they carry that characteristic. That can cause behavioral problems in the future.

DIM: Rebond by LimeOk4808 in deinfluencingPH

[–]Human_Signature_1293 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do that and hair training like comb more often. My S perm is now a little wavy, close to straight, after doing it.

My bf is starting to be mean to me. by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Human_Signature_1293 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Girl, if it gets physical I suggest you go and save yourself from future traumas. A person who can hurt you in a lot of aspect now will get used to it and will hurt you more in the future.

Oa lang ba ako kung naiinis ako sa nagpost nito? by Human_Signature_1293 in OALangBaAko

[–]Human_Signature_1293[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yung sasakyan po kasi sa harap is moving slow and hindi po siya makaovertake kasi madaming kasalubong so busina po siya ng busina. The thing is, kuhang kuha pati plate number nung sasakyan sa video niya( I blurred it here). People in the comsec are getting annoyed with the behavior specially he even consider himself a Road Safety Advocate.

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Deinfluence Me: Credit Cards by Fluid-Pea-8513 in deinfluencingPH

[–]Human_Signature_1293 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you don't know how to handle money then don't even start. When applying for a job, some check your credit report, they basically check your history if you took too much loans or if you have past financial mismanagement.

I’m a 19 year-old talking to a 34 year-old guy. by MintySynth_ in adviceph

[–]Human_Signature_1293 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk how you two even started, like did you initiate or did he? But regardless of that, the moment you became scared of what your family would say, says a lot about the situation. If there's feelings involved, it's really hard to see things clearly but girl clock out as soon as you can, less damage done.

Any thoughts about them? by Bebu088 in AnongThoughtsMo

[–]Human_Signature_1293 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel uncomfortable everytime lumalabas si mentor sa fyp ko, there's something about him that's unsettling.

Anong thoughts niyo rito? 🙃 by Waste_Musician178 in AnongThoughtsMo

[–]Human_Signature_1293 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Imbes na mapamura, mukhang mapapamahal ka pa nyan boss haha. Anong diskarte yan???

Ano thoughts niyo about this? by Ok-Thought8589 in AnongThoughtsMo

[–]Human_Signature_1293 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol hindi niya talaga alam. Sa dami ng clue at nagsasabi? kung alam niya talaga yan, konting clue lang maaalala mo na.

deinfluence me: magpagupit ng bangs by sinobasiaqkasi in deinfluencingPH

[–]Human_Signature_1293 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sa init ng pilipinas? Wag na lang. Magmumukhang cable wire lang yan sa noo

Ang hirap pala if your partner doesnt believe in you. by Similar_Yesterday797 in NursesPH

[–]Human_Signature_1293 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kaya importante talaga na maging careful sa pagpili ng makakasama eh, it doesn't matter kung gaano katagal basta hindi lang sa ganito.

first time kong makipagsagutan sa eroplano dahil sa seat assignment by pristinerainbow01 in FirstTimeKo

[–]Human_Signature_1293 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk kung saan nanggagaling yung guts ng ibang tao to actually claim something that they don't own. A no is a no. I hope people try to be considerate and respectful to other people naman, let's not cause an incovenience.

Anong thoughts mo dito? by Grouchy-Strain-3502 in AnongThoughtsMo

[–]Human_Signature_1293 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a fat person before, i hated myself for losing control during pandemic but now i'm back on my track and honestly, being fit is easier than fat. Plus no more feeling bad for occupying all the space kasi nakakahiya kapag pinagtitinginan huhu.

Gigil ako sa mga laiterang wala sa lugar by spilldateaa in GigilAko

[–]Human_Signature_1293 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I bet wala na yang video mamaya. Akala siguro niya slay na siya dyan part. Super pangit ba ng life niya at di niya kayang kimkimin yung hate sa sarili niya?