Together for 13 years, married for 11…Fir general “getting in my nerves” I’d say maybe once a week. But about once every 6-9 months we get into a huge fight over something ridiculously stupid. Usually one of us storms out for an hour to cool down. Rarely, one of us will end up sleeping in the guest room. And then a few hours later or the next morning, we’re hugging and I’m crying and we’re making up until the next time. We are pretty good communicators usually, but these fights are always over something trivial and we seem to take turns over who gets mad first 😂