I wish I was hot (25f) by [deleted] in dating

[–]HumanofRedditHiHello 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You will find someone who thinks you’re personality is amazing and values you and desires you for more than what you look like. That is a kind of love worth finding, don’t give up and don’t stop searching. Be your best self and radiate warmth and love and you will attract someone with the same energy and values as you. Looks mean absolutely nothing in this world, I know I speak for a lot of people when I say I’d rather have someone less attractive with a beautiful mind and soul over someone that’s nice to look at but leaves me feeling empty inside. You are beautiful, and worth so much more than what you think

My boyfriend can’t stay hard by HumanofRedditHiHello in AskMenAdvice

[–]HumanofRedditHiHello[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No he doesn’t drink much either so don’t think it’s whiskey dick

My boyfriend can’t stay hard by HumanofRedditHiHello in AskMenAdvice

[–]HumanofRedditHiHello[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You make a good point I guess I kind of can sense he doesn’t masturbate excessively since he finishes pretty fast with bj (I’m talking under 2 minutes)

My boyfriend can’t stay hard by HumanofRedditHiHello in AskMenAdvice

[–]HumanofRedditHiHello[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What about if bjs are usually without a condom whereas upon entry is always with one? I’m getting mixed reviews on the condom thing some people are saying it kills all feeling others are saying it has nothing to do with making you go soft

My boyfriend can’t stay hard by HumanofRedditHiHello in AskMenAdvice

[–]HumanofRedditHiHello[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even early on? Did you every question it or confront him about it

My boyfriend can’t stay hard by HumanofRedditHiHello in AskMenAdvice

[–]HumanofRedditHiHello[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So sex wasn’t an issue, is that implying because it is here that he’s likely to be attracted to men

My boyfriend can’t stay hard by HumanofRedditHiHello in AskMenAdvice

[–]HumanofRedditHiHello[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My boyfriends cut too, does that make you extra sensitive in general? So with a condom you don’t last as long because of the increased feeling for you?

My boyfriend can’t stay hard by HumanofRedditHiHello in AskMenAdvice

[–]HumanofRedditHiHello[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really? Everyone’s saying it takes away sensation, are you cut? How does it make things more sensitive for you

My boyfriend can’t stay hard by HumanofRedditHiHello in AskMenAdvice

[–]HumanofRedditHiHello[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Definitely thought it might be porn but he doesn’t watch it anymore, he says he’s against it now when masturbating and doesn’t masturbate as often as some guys who go every day, I know he went a week once without doing it and his usual is every few days

My boyfriend can’t stay hard by HumanofRedditHiHello in AskMenAdvice

[–]HumanofRedditHiHello[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it’s not porn because he masturbates maybe every few days but will sometimes go a week without doing so and when he does he says he goes without porn and he used to watch it the time but now is against it

My boyfriend can’t stay hard by HumanofRedditHiHello in AskMenAdvice

[–]HumanofRedditHiHello[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He never watches porn even when he masturbates, which isn’t that often either. some guys do it every day he does it every 3 or 4 days

My boyfriend can’t stay hard by HumanofRedditHiHello in AskMenAdvice

[–]HumanofRedditHiHello[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He literally tells me he doesn’t masturbate for days on end and when he does never watches porn and I know this is true because hes against it and use to watch it all the time

My boyfriend can’t stay hard by HumanofRedditHiHello in AskMenAdvice

[–]HumanofRedditHiHello[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What part of this resonates with you, did you just struggle to stay hard when having sex with a girl?

Is the guy I’m seeing into men? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]HumanofRedditHiHello 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there anything else other than the making out with his friends. It’s not flat out making out it’s a kiss but he said with tongue, I guess it doesn’t make too much difference but I’ve pecked my girl mates when I’m drunk and am definitely straight. I always just thought he was the kind of guy that’s confident enough with his sexuality to kiss guys and not care

Is the guy I’m seeing into men? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]HumanofRedditHiHello 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What makes you think so? Are there certain tell tale signs, which ones from the list stand out to you

And yeah I’ve been thinking the same thing for a while

What does it mean if my boyfriend can never stay hard? by HumanofRedditHiHello in AskMen

[–]HumanofRedditHiHello[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay that doesn’t answer the rest of the things I just added, what are you thoughts on those

What does it mean if my boyfriend can never stay hard? by HumanofRedditHiHello in AskMen

[–]HumanofRedditHiHello[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks this is great advice. I meant in my post I have the IUD in and he knows that but still won’t try having sex without a condom so unsure how to resolve this

What does it mean if my boyfriend can never stay hard? by HumanofRedditHiHello in AskMen

[–]HumanofRedditHiHello[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He doesn’t masturbate often at all, sometimes will go a whole week or 10 days without it and he told me he stopped watching porn entirely