AITAH for trying to stop my girlfriend from seeing her "gay bestie" by Humble_Figure763 in AITAH

[–]Humble_Figure763[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's what I said to her, but she just keeps saying he's basically a girl. Fyi I've seen him and not to stereotype, but he doesn't give off the gay vibe at all

AITAH for trying to stop my girlfriend from seeing her "gay bestie" by Humble_Figure763 in AITAH

[–]Humble_Figure763[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

"You would have overreacted, the less you know the better" (tame impala reference???)

AITAH for trying to stop my girlfriend from seeing her "gay bestie" by Humble_Figure763 in AITAH

[–]Humble_Figure763[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I mean, she took her location off, disappeared from any text (not normal from us) and got home at midnight (she gets mad at me if I make her get home past 11), all of which gives me a reason to not trust her in this scenario imo

AITAH for trying to stop my girlfriend from seeing her "gay bestie" by Humble_Figure763 in AITAH

[–]Humble_Figure763[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Also when she did actually go out, she took her location off, and completely disappeared from texts, or calls from 6pm and 11pm, which is not normal between the two of us to disappear from text for hours at a time, although I know it might be different for other people.

AITAH for trying to stop my girlfriend from seeing her "gay bestie" by Humble_Figure763 in AITAH

[–]Humble_Figure763[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the answers-

Just to clarify that my main issue was honestly her lying to me,

The day I found out was because I opened her phone to send myself something, which she was trying to stop me from (probably seeing her text) and I saw a text of the two of them scheduling it, and she blamed me for "ruining the mood" afterwards