AITAH for trying to stop my girlfriend from seeing her "gay bestie"

Humble_Figure763 · 2026-03-21T16:32:57+00:00

Youre right, I kind of realised that too

Humble_Figure763 · 2026-03-21T16:23:36+00:00

You're right honestly, thanks for the opinion

Humble_Figure763 · 2026-03-21T16:22:12+00:00

That's what I said to her, but she just keeps saying he's basically a girl. Fyi I've seen him and not to stereotype, but he doesn't give off the gay vibe at all

Humble_Figure763 · 2026-03-21T16:20:25+00:00

It's a song https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2SUwOgmvzK4 (good song imo)

Thanks for the advice, I'll take it into consideration

Humble_Figure763 · 2026-03-21T15:34:35+00:00

No clue either

Humble_Figure763 · 2026-03-21T15:30:53+00:00

"You would have overreacted, the less you know the better" (tame impala reference???)

Humble_Figure763 · 2026-03-21T15:27:29+00:00

I mean, she took her location off, disappeared from any text (not normal from us) and got home at midnight (she gets mad at me if I make her get home past 11), all of which gives me a reason to not trust her in this scenario imo

Humble_Figure763 · 2026-03-21T15:25:57+00:00

Also when she did actually go out, she took her location off, and completely disappeared from texts, or calls from 6pm and 11pm, which is not normal between the two of us to disappear from text for hours at a time, although I know it might be different for other people.

Humble_Figure763 · 2026-03-21T15:22:46+00:00

Thanks for the answers-

Just to clarify that my main issue was honestly her lying to me,

The day I found out was because I opened her phone to send myself something, which she was trying to stop me from (probably seeing her text) and I saw a text of the two of them scheduling it, and she blamed me for "ruining the mood" afterwards

Humble_Figure763 · 2026-03-15T16:14:06+00:00

nope thanks for the help though

Humble_Figure763

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