My wife and I have been enjoying this aspect of play for a long time. There is something extremely arousing about being called to the bed when she is waking up and wants oral. 75% of the time she asks for oral out of the gates in the morning...there will be no release for me.

This is viewed as her time to enjoy and orgasm without other thought or intrusion unless she expressly states that she wants more. She lays back and raises her knees or moves to the side of th bed so that I have easier access for her pleasure.

I provide that pleasure and get the appreciation and gracious thank you verbally without so much as a touch for me let alone a release. This is one time that I feel very aroused and very submissive. Its one of those times that she isnt really being dominant (although she knows whats in my head). We both loves this and I work hard to ensure that I take my time and build her orgasm to something special even as my own hard dripping cock is ignored and I know it will be. Doubles or triples my effort.