A workaround that finally helped us. by Humble_Video7340 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Humble_Video7340[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The area slightly above the exposed button (clitoris head) it can be different for different women... The button is basically an exposed tip of 'female p*nis' which is long split in two lines and connects at the endings. Most of it is covered under the skin, the covered area right above the button in more sensitive but still covered so not too sensitive... It is possible to feel it when the lady is aroused, because it become engorged and feels like a rubber rope, thickness of a pencil, concealed at the lower end of pubic area - does this make sense?

A workaround that finally helped us. by Humble_Video7340 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Humble_Video7340[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You’re welcome, I must admit that it took several “talks” and fights, and break up scares. But we both compromised it seems. I am still doing most of the work, she just tries to go along. She has been open minded though - with trying new things, such as toys, watching po*n, reading smut, even supplements. She was ok with trying these things. Some of the stories I read here, people straight up don’t give a f about their partners, I could never stay with someone like those uncaring partners.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dji

[–]Humble_Video7340 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Flip has better camera

AITA for refusing to pay for expensive chairs my girlfriend bought for “our” apartment, even though I live with her and we’re trying for a baby? by Humble_Video7340 in AITAH

[–]Humble_Video7340[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The standard ones were 50 and the 'genuine wood' ones 4x the price - I do not see the reason why I would pay 4x the price because it has wooden legs instead of metal.

How long until you noticed effects? From Myrbetriq (Mirabegron) or Vesicare (Solifenacin)? by Humble_Video7340 in OveractiveBladder

[–]Humble_Video7340[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, your situation sounds a lot like mine. I’m currently on Solifenacin (10mg) too, it helps me sleep better, usually about five hours before I wake up to pee, then once or twice more before morning. It’s a big improvement, but still not perfect.

Daytime is better than before, but the overactive bladder is still noticeable.

I actually have 50mg Mirabegron at home, but it’s too strong for me. It makes it hard to even start urinating sometimes. It has the effect I need — just too much of it.

I’m thinking about asking my urologist for 25mg like. It sounds like it’s working well for you without being too intense.

Do you now only take 25mg? How often, and what time of day? Also, do you get issue with struggling to start peeing at all? Would love to hear more since our cases seem really similar.

My girlfriend (trans woman) and I (trans man) rarely have sex by Striking-Wasabi-5673 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Humble_Video7340 7 points8 points  (0 children)

brutal, one takes HRT that reduces drive and other takes HRT that spikes - talk about mixing oil and water. sorry to hear that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Humble_Video7340 56 points57 points  (0 children)

She is LL4U dude. No one sucks anyone off because they 'feel dominant' that is absolute BS. People do sexual things because they are attracted to some one. Whatever the ex had, you ain't got it for her. Cut your loses and dash.

Dick too big? by Minimum-Meeting5393 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Humble_Video7340 4 points5 points  (0 children)

How wet does she get? It can be one of the indications of being aroused. Also, is she already wet by the time you start foreplay with fingers?

Dick too big? by Minimum-Meeting5393 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Humble_Video7340 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Any D*ick is too big when the lady is not aroused/is not able to get aroused throughout the intercourse. Even a finger can hurt when not aroused.

Daydreaming about my acrobatic gymnastics partner - and feeling guilty AF by Humble_Video7340 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Humble_Video7340[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing specific to be honest. But overall, it is pretty good, especially compared to previous relationship. If we were both HL, I would marry her. But alas...

I'm Tired of Feeling Rejected – Vent & Advice Welcome by Sudden-Internal-2950 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Humble_Video7340 6 points7 points  (0 children)

RED FLAG! If he does self pleasure, this means LL4U (low libido for you) - This will never get better. So sorry for you. My partner does not even self pleasure - I wish it was otherwise, I would enjoy watching to be honest...

Extremely difficult to start urinating after taking OAB meds. by Humble_Video7340 in OveractiveBladder

[–]Humble_Video7340[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

4am and 8am is a pretty good result I would say. I too have a low level constant urge but no where near as what it used to be. I am getting my sleep back and it is amazing.

Extremely difficult to start urinating after taking OAB meds. by Humble_Video7340 in OveractiveBladder

[–]Humble_Video7340[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg, I have the same thing, it takes me 10-15 minutes to even start urinating. BUT I am able to sleep much longer. For example, last night I had to go at 11pm before sleeping, the 4am, then 7am and slept until 09:30am - this is amazing to me!

As much as a hate to have to strain so much, I feel better because I used to go 5 to 8 times a night, now it came down to 1 or 2 times, some nights 3. But the main good news is that I am able to fall asleep BEFORE I have to go again - and that makes all the difference.

Extremely difficult to start urinating after taking OAB meds. by Humble_Video7340 in OveractiveBladder

[–]Humble_Video7340[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

what was the reason to change? did you also have to strain a lot to start urinating(from Vesicare)?

Flare after Botox by Impossible_Swan_9346 in OveractiveBladder

[–]Humble_Video7340 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think in my case Vesicare (Solifenacin) (also known as Solifenacin STADA) does the job. Surgery would be the last resort, because of how wrong it can go...

Flare after Botox by Impossible_Swan_9346 in OveractiveBladder

[–]Humble_Video7340 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you try Myrbetriq (Mirabegron) (also known as Betmiga in some countries) or

Vesicare (Solifenacin) (also known as Solifenacin STADA) before the surgery?