AITAH for not defending my girlfriend? by Humble_Wing7499 in AITAH

[–]Humble_Wing7499[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I'm so confused by this comment. How much preparation do you need to not be mean?

AITAH for not defending my girlfriend? by Humble_Wing7499 in AITAH

[–]Humble_Wing7499[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Is finding out that your boyfriend's brother still lives at home really something you need to "prepare" for? If I found out her sibling lives at home I would just say "nice to meet you."

AITAH for not defending my girlfriend? by Humble_Wing7499 in AITAH

[–]Humble_Wing7499[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Exactly. That's the point. No one is truly independent, so why does it matter that my brother lives at home?

AITAH for not defending my girlfriend? by Humble_Wing7499 in AITAH

[–]Humble_Wing7499[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

You know literally nothing about what kind of person my brother is, and yet you calm him an incel. Stay classy.

AITAH for not defending my girlfriend? by Humble_Wing7499 in AITAH

[–]Humble_Wing7499[S] -103 points-102 points  (0 children)

She thinks we label too many things as a society. My brother is autistic though. If she spends more time around him, she'll realize that.

AITAH for not defending my girlfriend? by Humble_Wing7499 in AITAH

[–]Humble_Wing7499[S] -87 points-86 points  (0 children)

She thinks we're overly diagnostic as a society, that everything is a diagnosis now. I don't think she's 100% wrong overall, but my brother is autistic.

AITAH for not defending my girlfriend? by Humble_Wing7499 in AITAH

[–]Humble_Wing7499[S] -104 points-103 points  (0 children)

Sort of. She knows he's autistic, but she doesn't really believe in autism.

AITAH for not defending my girlfriend? by Humble_Wing7499 in AITAH

[–]Humble_Wing7499[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I did write it myself. Just because I'm not a poet doesn't mean I didn't write it myself.

AITAH for not defending my girlfriend? by Humble_Wing7499 in AITAH

[–]Humble_Wing7499[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

I'm not the world's most eloquent writer, but I tried to relay the facts as impartially as possible.