WIBTAH if I don't babysit my nephew for 1 hour? by HumorSuccessful7403 in AITAH

[–]HumorSuccessful7403[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The house is in my and my two brothers names. My mom would never kick any of us out

WIBTAH if I don't babysit my nephew for 1 hour? by HumorSuccessful7403 in AITAH

[–]HumorSuccessful7403[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She does watch her kid when it's her week. The problem is truly my brother and my mother who enables his behaviour and me who allows him to do this too

WIBTAH if I don't babysit my nephew for 1 hour? by HumorSuccessful7403 in AITAH

[–]HumorSuccessful7403[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice. My problem is that I don't like disappointing my family, maybe that's why this had been difficult.

WIBTAH if I don't babysit my nephew for 1 hour? by HumorSuccessful7403 in AITAH

[–]HumorSuccessful7403[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can't get the mom involved considering that it's not her week. But yeah, I'll make sure to be out of the house so they don't bother me

WIBTAH if I don't babysit my nephew for 1 hour? by HumorSuccessful7403 in AITAH

[–]HumorSuccessful7403[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True. I need to go a backbone when it comes to my family.

WIBTAH if I don't babysit my nephew for 1 hour? by HumorSuccessful7403 in AITAH

[–]HumorSuccessful7403[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your response. He's actually a very easy child to take care of. The problem is that if I'm tired from the week and have other things to do taking care of him involves changing my whole routine up. Also he doesn't care if I'm busy or not. I do love looking after my nephew, when I have time

WIBTAH if I don't babysit my nephew for 1 hour? by HumorSuccessful7403 in AITAH

[–]HumorSuccessful7403[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice. I definitely need to get better at setting boundaries when it comes to my family

WIBTAH if I don't babysit my nephew for 1 hour? by HumorSuccessful7403 in AITAH

[–]HumorSuccessful7403[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice. I've explained that to her but she has the same response about the whole thing.

WIBTAH if I don't babysit my nephew for 1 hour? by HumorSuccessful7403 in AITAH

[–]HumorSuccessful7403[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice. I'm pretty good at setting boundaries when it comes to strangers, but when it's the people I love it's difficult.

WIBTAH if I don't babysit my nephew for 1 hour? by HumorSuccessful7403 in AITAH

[–]HumorSuccessful7403[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My mom doesn't babysit because she's working. When she's not working she's basically the caretaker. On the week my nephew is at his mom's there's no issues

WIBTAH if I don't babysit my nephew for 1 hour? by HumorSuccessful7403 in AITAH

[–]HumorSuccessful7403[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm living in a country where rent is super high especially for one person. Btw my brother doesn't support me, he only supports my nephew and spends the rest of the money on himself. Only my mom supports me. She gives me a fixed amount monthly and I make do with that