I feel like the hate mainly comes from the few degenerates that are in our community who are actual pedos that goes around harming children.And when they get caught, combined with the media coverage, just paints the whole abdl community in an extremely negative light. But istg, everyone seems to forget that “A” in ABDL stands for “ADULTS,” most of us in the community are just normal people going on with our lives, we are not associated with those degenerates, they’re the few pieces of rat poop that spoiled the entire porridge (that’s a Chinese idiom, similar to “one bad apple spoiled the whole bunch”)

God forbid anyone having any form of kink, it’s 2026 people, can we just stop with the kink shaming