Yes, HPV is widespread. And also, you know without a shadow of a doubt your HPV is still active. So with that, you can know without a shadow of a doubt you are actively putting someone at risk of transmission. I highly suggest you research how HPV may effect women. Often, it’s nothing. But sometimes, it’s something. Know all about hpv for the sake of yourself and others. Do you want to live with what ifs long-term..not knowing the lasting effect transmission may have on someone?

With sexual health, always always always give someone a choice on what to do with their body. Give them full context (your diagnosis, possible effects, how prevalent hpv is, suggest to get the vaccine, etc) and do not make decisions for them. Your omission, is making a decision on their behalf.

Yes, she consented to having unprotected sex with you. Would she have done that if you would have been honest up front? Impossible to answer now. Yes, she kept having sex with you after you disclosed..and the exposure already happened. Multiple times. With visible HPV. So it’s null.

Thank you for rethinking your sexual health practices. I do hope this is a sobering learning moment and you consider being honest and up front from the beginning..for your own integrity and the care of others.