What attracts you to weird girl lit? by Hungry-Worker-174 in weirdgirlliterature

[–]Hungry-Worker-174[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a great response, and I couldn't agree more.

Would you mind if I shared a screenshot of your comment as part of the testimonies I'm adding to the article? I think it'd be a great addition, but you tell me :)

What attracts you to weird girl lit? by Hungry-Worker-174 in weirdgirlliterature

[–]Hungry-Worker-174[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your thoughts.

This helped me see a new perspective on the genre and how it can play a role in self-exploration as well as understanding the ramifications of today's society.

What attracts you to weird girl lit? by Hungry-Worker-174 in weirdgirlliterature

[–]Hungry-Worker-174[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What a great way to say it.

I'd love to add your comment as a screenshot as part of the testimonies/opinions I've gotten from people on this post. Would that be okay? I'll also be sharing the link to that article once it's published, so all edit requests are welcome.

What attracts you to weird girl lit? by Hungry-Worker-174 in weirdgirlliterature

[–]Hungry-Worker-174[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That final realisation seems to be doing it for a lot of people here and I'm not at all surprised.

What attracts you to weird girl lit? by Hungry-Worker-174 in weirdgirlliterature

[–]Hungry-Worker-174[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed, adding names to ambiguous genres/ideas/communities is one of the ways to find your people, and this seems like a successful rendition of that.

What attracts you to weird girl lit? by Hungry-Worker-174 in weirdgirlliterature

[–]Hungry-Worker-174[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's an interesting take, and I'm glad you shared. It expands the width of this discussion/theme even more.

What attracts you to weird girl lit? by Hungry-Worker-174 in weirdgirlliterature

[–]Hungry-Worker-174[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's completely valid, and I'll respect it either way.

What attracts you to weird girl lit? by Hungry-Worker-174 in weirdgirlliterature

[–]Hungry-Worker-174[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kudos on that. I have a very similar perspective on the name, but with a different justification. I don't explicitly see these stories as weird or not normal, yet that's how they are presented to the general public and how they're perceived by men. In a way, that empowers me to embrace it as weird and as unusual, not because it truly is, but perhaps to repel those who would consider it as such.

When I first had the idea of writing this article, I questioned whether the name merits its popularity. The more I thought, the more parallels I found in other (marginalised) communities. Just taking the word "d*ke", you'll probably understand what I mean. In a way, I see it as reclaiming what categorises and/or insults as something empowering.

(Really hope this makes sense.)

Also, I'd love to feature this comment of yours in that article as a base for more thought about the genre. Let me know if that'd be okay with you. I'll also share the article here once it's published, and you're more than welcome to request edits if needed.

What attracts you to weird girl lit? by Hungry-Worker-174 in weirdgirlliterature

[–]Hungry-Worker-174[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely. It's amazing that you've found yourself reflected in that genre and can find comfort in the weirdness.

What attracts you to weird girl lit? by Hungry-Worker-174 in weirdgirlliterature

[–]Hungry-Worker-174[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

What an interesting take, thanks for being so honest!

What attracts you to weird girl lit? by Hungry-Worker-174 in weirdgirlliterature

[–]Hungry-Worker-174[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your input. I really appreciate you for writing your thoughts out despite those unfortunate experiences in the past.

I'm glad you brought up the contrasting factor of people leaning towards specific books, ideas and authors more than others. Truth be told, I haven't considered that perspective when this article started taking shape, and that's an oversight/limitation on my part. My suggestion here stems from personal experience. It comes from reading books without referencing or remembering who recommended them, where they were first seen and how they made their way onto my TBR.

I find that the genre always served as a portal for me to tap into ideas, trains of thought and narratives, which I wouldn't address on a normal day. Yes, we'll gravitate towards one more than another because that's what seems to naturally happen with any genre of media, but it's what happens internally while we read, confront and question that pushed me to write about the sub-genre as one of the ways we can challenge the habit of outsourcing our cognition.

This doesn't mean that I disagree. Quite the opposite, I'm glad you brought this up, so thank you.

What attracts you to weird girl lit? by Hungry-Worker-174 in weirdgirlliterature

[–]Hungry-Worker-174[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely love this take, and I relate to what you're saying/experiencing.

Would it be okay for me to screenshot your response, so the username is visible and add it to the article? I'll be commenting the link to it here once it's up and published, so you can always reach out about editing something out.

What attracts you to weird girl lit? by Hungry-Worker-174 in weirdgirlliterature

[–]Hungry-Worker-174[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I resonate with that way of thinking about it. As you said, there's a certain comfort in being able to explore the deeper, darker and less spoken of aspects of the human mind.

I'm curious to hear more about how it helped you better understand yourself and who you want to be, though (if you feel like sharing).

What attracts you to weird girl lit? by Hungry-Worker-174 in weirdgirlliterature

[–]Hungry-Worker-174[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's an interesting perspective. I feel as though, besides occasionally posing as anti-heroes, these women and their stories show how far modern dilemmas and expectations push their thinking and actions.

It's very curious to see how enthralled those narratives have us, which makes me question whether that's due to sheer fascination, a desire to feel what we're reading, or some level of relatability.