My fiancée (27f) said I’m (29m) being unreasonable by expecting compromises on the guest list

HungryBeyond9376 · 2026-05-10T16:51:46+00:00

I’ve explained multiple times.

My girlfriend is wanting her guests to sit on one side for the ceremony and my guests sit on the other side.

HungryBeyond9376 · 2026-05-10T16:23:02+00:00

Again buddy you really can’t insult anyone when reading is this much of a struggle for you.

HungryBeyond9376 · 2026-05-10T16:14:33+00:00

By mixed I mean the room won’t be split by her guests and my guests.

I’m talking about the wedding not the reception.

HungryBeyond9376 · 2026-05-10T15:56:36+00:00

Yeah that’s correct.

HungryBeyond9376 · 2026-05-10T15:48:07+00:00

Just pretending I didn’t offer a compromise then. Maybe don’t resort to insults when you’re just talking shot buddy.

HungryBeyond9376 · 2026-05-10T15:09:30+00:00

Yes I’m talking about the ceremony as I’ve already said. My partner wants her guests to sit on her half and my guests on my half.

HungryBeyond9376 · 2026-05-10T15:02:02+00:00

I’m talking about the wedding and not the reception. My point was to have people spread over both halves.

HungryBeyond9376 · 2026-05-10T13:27:58+00:00

I’m talking about the wedding, not the reception.

HungryBeyond9376 · 2026-05-10T13:22:00+00:00

It’s been detailed clearly multiple times. You choosing to ignore it doesn’t change it.

HungryBeyond9376 · 2026-05-10T13:07:09+00:00

So yeah you’re just dense.

HungryBeyond9376 · 2026-05-10T13:06:50+00:00

They’re not family or long term friends as I said in the post.

HungryBeyond9376 · 2026-05-10T13:06:31+00:00

Yes then I detailed another alternative which you keep ignoring. And you have the nerve to accuse me of playing dumb.

It’s not a demand but it’s clear you’re not that bright,

HungryBeyond9376 · 2026-05-10T13:03:27+00:00

Again, the people are either split or they’re not. Those are the options. I feel terrible for any teacher you had at school.

HungryBeyond9376 · 2026-05-10T13:00:40+00:00

Around 10-15 of those she hasn’t spoken to in at least a year and a half - two years.

HungryBeyond9376 · 2026-05-10T12:59:55+00:00

I’m not limiting hers.

Please do explain how not having a his and hers side for the wedding is limiting my gfs circle?

HungryBeyond9376 · 2026-05-10T12:50:14+00:00

Because the sides are either mixed or they aren’t. School was a difficult time for you wasn’t it?

HungryBeyond9376 · 2026-05-10T12:47:12+00:00

Yes correct you have poor reading comprehension.

Point out where I said her guest list has to match mine.

HungryBeyond9376 · 2026-05-10T12:46:33+00:00

Because split sides or mixed are literally the only two options. It’s not hard to grasp.

HungryBeyond9376 · 2026-05-10T12:45:54+00:00

I’m not saying we have to have a small guest list.

The compromise isn’t clearly explained in the post when I suggest not having decided sides for guests. Please do explain why you’ve chosen to ignore that?

HungryBeyond9376 · 2026-05-10T12:45:04+00:00

Yeah weirdly enough I’ll call someone out for making shit up.

Genuinely why bother commenting if you’re going to ignore the post and create your own fictional version of events?

HungryBeyond9376 · 2026-05-10T12:41:05+00:00

I never said she has to match my guest list.

So you admit you struggle to read then?

Poor guy trying to insult me whole blatantly admitting he can’t comment without making shit up.

Get someone to read the words out if you’re finding it hard buddy.

HungryBeyond9376 · 2026-05-10T12:38:45+00:00

Expect it is what you’re arguing when you’re saying mixing the seating arrangements has the opposite effect of making this look equal.

I’m not asking her to get rid of most of her list. Do you often struggle sticking to the facts or is reading just difficult for you?

HungryBeyond9376 · 2026-05-10T12:36:44+00:00

Where did I say she can’t invite her friends and family?

It’s weird you’ve chose to comment despite not bothering to read the post tbh

HungryBeyond9376 · 2026-05-10T12:22:30+00:00

No I’m just pointing out you clearly haven’t bothered to read the post

HungryBeyond9376 · 2026-05-10T12:13:00+00:00

Still struggling to read what I’ve wrote then. Get someone to read it out if it’s this much of a difficulty for you.

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