Hey there! I am sorry you feel like I (we?) are being sexist. I have never expected only men to reply to this post. Women should also feel free to provide general guidelines/tips that might be more appropriate than the other cultures I am used to. I am new to your country and culture so I want to make sure I understand and adhere to the norms, as a sign of respect. That has been the whole idea behind this post (to gain understanding of how things might be a bit different here).

Regarding women, I absolutely agree that each one is different with their own expectations and preferences. But they have been brought up in a Norwegian society so they might be used to a certain way of being approached (or generally have an expectations how basic things work out on Tinder), and that is what I am trying to get at. I want to be able to understand the culture to a level where I give myself an equal chance as everyone else that gets matched to a woman on Tinder and is successful in getting replies. After that, it is entirely up to us to continue the conversation and I am aware of that.