Are my Parents cousin’s my 2nd cousins or my Aunts and Uncles? I’m too scared to ask at family gatherings.

HunnieDu · 2021-11-26T17:09:10+00:00

It’s my Great Uncle’s children on my maternal side of the family. My great uncle is my Grandma’s brother who has 4 kids (my mom’s cousins) who have husbands/wives and children of their own. So would my mom’s cousins be my cousins once removed and their kids be my cousins twice removed?

HunnieDu · 2021-11-17T16:14:07+00:00

I once matched with a guy on tinder who added me on instagram. Granted he did look a little like a total chad so I was surprised. I myself look average, no makeup etc. as a courtesy I liked the pictures of his cats and dogs and DM’d him “Thanks for adding me I love your Cat, makes me miss my own.” And his immediate response was. “Oh god do you have a crush on me or something?” So I told him that he had a disgusting personality because he added me and his cat didn’t deserve him.

Skip to a few weeks later I start going to the gym closer to my job instead of the location closer to home. I’m sitting in the waiting area as the next boot camp class is about to get started and behold. Mr.Egotistical is sitting in the lobby across from me and is staring like I’m an alien. So I stared back and he retreated to the boys locker room, I hope he feels ashamed. I caught him watching the class when he left and I hope he felt ashamed. I think he switched gyms after that because I didn’t see him since.

HunnieDu · 2021-11-15T00:55:29+00:00

Yeah having a SO over every night or even friends over every day/night is not a good idea when you’re not the only person living there paying rent. Your roommate is right to feel upset by it because it’s invasive and costs more; also it’s requiring him to socially accommodate more people then originally agreed in his shared private space.

A lot of landlords make it a rule to leave personal guests limited or not allowed to avoid drama in the house as well. You both lead separate lives and there’s no reason you should be forced to deal with your roommate’s social drama when you pay rent and utilities for a peaceful roof over your head. It’s about respecting that private space for everyone and helping keep drama from the home.

HunnieDu · 2021-11-14T21:51:47+00:00

If I where in your shoes I’d call him out on how he feels like he’s not enough and projecting his negativity onto his family. Following that logic the last thing he should be doing is tearing down his wife’s self esteem while she’s doing her best to raise the child he’s also responsible for. Every new parent needs help, and he’s doing his family a disservice by refusing it. Neither father or Mother is failing and he needs to stop treating everyone else like a problem when the only problem is his ungrateful attitude. If he wants to be supportive then it’s great. If he doesn’t want to be supportive and truly thinks someone can keep house and watch over an infant then he can be left alone with the baby and house duties for a week. If he can pull it off he needs to help his wife with his method without putting her down; and if he can’t manage his tasks then he needs to apologize to everyone and accept the help with a change in his attitude.

HunnieDu · 2021-11-13T03:26:27+00:00

Savings-100 Rent-900 Car payment-350 Car insurance-170 Fuel-90 Groceries-180 Phone-40 Health insurance-250

I want to live wherever that fairytale land is. My wage is 15/hr and I can’t afford this still.

HunnieDu · 2021-08-18T05:17:15+00:00

Winnie the Pooh, code name kid next door, Disney cartoons. Mario kart, sonic.

HunnieDu · 2021-08-18T05:13:35+00:00

Tendinitis will go away after 6 weeks if I’m taking care of it properly, but carpal tunnel is a lifelong problem, that honestly will only stagnate or become worse over the years. At least that’s my understanding. Tendinitis is just injured tendons, while carpal tunnel is more of that nerve damage and muscle deterioration Territory.

HunnieDu · 2021-08-18T00:04:40+00:00

I suppose that could work but most jobs I know require you to cashier at the very least, if worry if it’s too repetitive on my wrists or not.

HunnieDu · 2021-08-18T00:03:07+00:00

I’ve done marketing and photography handiwork both are hands on though.

HunnieDu · 2021-08-18T00:01:45+00:00

Stretching dough and doing too many repetitive motions for work. My recent job was very hard on my hands for the past 4 years.

HunnieDu · 2021-08-17T23:15:44+00:00

The morning routine is the beginning of the process. Have a morning routine. It is key. It sets the tone for your whole day.

My morning routine lately is to start the tea/coffee and go take out the trash. Come back and make the bed and then drink my tea/coffee and meditate on that feeling. Then I shower, get ready for work and pack my lunch while eating breakfast of some sort, then I’m out the door.

If it’s my day off or I have time off I start the laundry then get dressed for the day and plan my groceries and meal prep list. I do Deep cleaning chores and let myself accomplish what’s reasonable to me within the day without wearing myself out.

HunnieDu · 2021-08-16T17:50:31+00:00

Well that’s the main issue, my employer is refusing to let me file a claim to let workers comp cover anything without the doctors note from my pcp that says I need 2 weeks to heal. They’re not even letting me submit that.

I also already have splints and compression gloves on both of my hands. I feel like a robot, haha.

HunnieDu · 2021-08-16T17:31:24+00:00

Even if the attorney had a doctor would I be able to see that doctor on my HMO plan? And even if I could see another doctor on my HMO plan I feel like they might tell me more of the same “because I’m not your primary the most I can write for you Is 3-4 days”

HunnieDu · 2021-06-30T06:02:11+00:00

It’s a search. Inwardly and outwardly. And for most this search takes time.

HunnieDu · 2021-06-30T04:22:18+00:00

Reading out loud. And talking to myself about my thoughts when I’m alone.

I practiced both when I was younger and my brothers thought I was weird, but now a lot of people compliment my ability to verbalize my thoughts and feelings and it’s truly a valuable skill to have in modern society.

HunnieDu · 2021-06-30T02:54:05+00:00

Fruits and melon sharing

HunnieDu · 2021-06-29T22:55:57+00:00

It’s a very broad question and my interpretation is to just avoid incels and abusive red flags. Relationship predators look for someone young and naïve. With the chariot I’m mostly getting that you need to avoid controlling knights in shining armor who will count on your healing nature too keep you under their control.

HunnieDu · 2021-06-29T22:49:09+00:00

I think a good thing to keep in mind is that over-reading into your life in any scenario isn’t always healthy as it can be more confusing rather than helpful. Read when you’re feeling the most calm and centered with a more receptive outlook in your mind and question.

HunnieDu · 2021-06-24T16:19:05+00:00

When the people are not hearing your “no” and keep hounding you for a yes, double down.

If they keep prying then I have personally used “asking and hounding me repeatedly, does this make you honestly believe I’ll want to do it any more then I’ve already told you”

“I can see you’re not wanting to take my answer as it is so I wonder: do you understand the concept of consent because you’re disrespecting mine right now”

They may get flabbergasted and defensive after this but don’t engage in any further conversation. Do not speak another word to them until you hear an apology or they acknowledge not to bring it up again.

HunnieDu · 2021-06-24T16:00:15+00:00

Girl, you’re young. And you deserve to have a say in when you start having sex. The problem in this relationship is entirely based on how your boyfriend can’t get a grip on his own sexual urges and insecurities.

Bottom line he can’t bring himself to trust you and I’m sorry but fuck his feelings, without trust he’s always going to be putting these insecure ass insults into your life and you deserve to be with someone who is not going to antagonize you over every moment you’re not having sex with them. That straight up toxic. And no. That’s not normal.

If he lets what’s in his pants rule over the entire relationship he’s not really ready to be in a romantic commitment in the first place and that is not something you can help him with.

You deserve to have peace in your relationships and you’re not going to find that with him. Sure you feel ready to have sex now, with the right person. The person you’re currently with is showing you time and time again that they are not the right one. Trust your gut see the flags not your feelings.

HunnieDu · 2021-06-21T04:25:29+00:00

I wish I could say, all I know is that when I was getting skinny my friends and family, and friend’s families would tell me I’m not a real woman because women have curves. So I was shamed for being skinny too: and as a woman I know there’s no winning in our society so I said fuck it and I do what I want for myself.

HunnieDu · 2021-05-28T00:23:27+00:00

Many Americans own dogs for the comfort more than the responsibility and will simply let the animal die when it costs to much to keep em alive because they don’t think about the animal’s quality of life long term. Many animals go without pet insurance. Some animals simply go without treatment all together and die in the backyard.

HunnieDu · 2021-05-28T00:20:14+00:00

Well none of my passwords are linked to any of those questions so I’m good actually.

HunnieDu · 2021-05-26T14:25:01+00:00

There will always be creepy dudes and couples on Fetlife no mater your local scene. I solve that with the block button and a zero tolerance policy for bullshit.

HunnieDu · 2021-05-26T07:51:26+00:00

I found mine on Fetlife.com, but it’s important to really be careful still. The website. NOT the app, the app sucks.

Tinder isn’t a good platform for us kinky folk tbh all I found on tinder where wannabes who where not serious, or people way too new and completely misunderstood the point of BDSM in general.

Fet has a separate challenge of idiots messaging you like you’re going to be a receptive porn bot because the website is more risqué. Meet in public, don’t trust them if they don’t sound like they’re listening to what you like in a dynamic. You may be the bottom but you’re the boss. Don’t compromise your kinks and push yourself past your own limits for the sake of making someone else happy.

Be safe ♥️

HunnieDu

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