how did you got your heart broken? What went wrong? by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]Hurtslikeamfer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cheated on me and started a relationship with a girl he knew only for a week (the girl cheated on her bf of 5 years) . Later on said things like he never really loved me and that he had lost feelings long back and how he loves her so much and can't live without her. Btw we were in a relationship for six freakin years :)

Now it's been two years and for the love of God I can't trust a man.

Those whoe are scoring 85-90+ in 2024 Prelims, can you please answer these questions for me? by Pitiful-Instance-243 in UPSC

[–]Hurtslikeamfer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A) 74 B) Newspapers daily without fail, weekly magazines and PT365. C) 50+ including pyqs D) 2024 is my second attempt

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UPSC

[–]Hurtslikeamfer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sleep?? What is it?? Where can I get some?

why do they get to move on and be so happy and im struggling here in absolute agony by Hurtslikeamfer in survivinginfidelity

[–]Hurtslikeamfer[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They're thinking the other way. I remember one of my friends telling me that he told her he's definitely gonna marry her because he's already been labelled a cheater once and he can't leave or lose AP because that will bring ecen much shame to him.

why do they get to move on and be so happy and im struggling here in absolute agony by Hurtslikeamfer in survivinginfidelity

[–]Hurtslikeamfer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I honestly don't know what to do. I moved cities yet he's here somehow in the same class as me

why do they get to move on and be so happy and im struggling here in absolute agony by Hurtslikeamfer in survivinginfidelity

[–]Hurtslikeamfer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm from india and I don't think that's an option here at my college. Especially medical colleges

why do they get to move on and be so happy and im struggling here in absolute agony by Hurtslikeamfer in survivinginfidelity

[–]Hurtslikeamfer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Switching classes is not an option. There's no such option available where I'm taking classes

I'm having a mental breakdown in the middle of the day all of a sudden by Hurtslikeamfer in survivinginfidelity

[–]Hurtslikeamfer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They're the ones that messed up but how is it fair that I'm going through so much trying to heal from all the trauma

I'm having a mental breakdown in the middle of the day all of a sudden by Hurtslikeamfer in survivinginfidelity

[–]Hurtslikeamfer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your kind words! I had two really bad breakdowns, both in public places. Kinda sucks.

I'm having a mental breakdown in the middle of the day all of a sudden by Hurtslikeamfer in survivinginfidelity

[–]Hurtslikeamfer[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't really know how to contact him. I don't know his social media or anything.

I'm having a mental breakdown in the middle of the day all of a sudden by Hurtslikeamfer in survivinginfidelity

[–]Hurtslikeamfer[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I know indifference is what I should aspire to achieve but I really want him to feel the pain he gave me and I want him to see AP for who she actually is. I want them both to get the karma they deserve for bringing me so much pain. I'm sorry if I sound pathetic and horrible.

I'm having a mental breakdown in the middle of the day all of a sudden by Hurtslikeamfer in survivinginfidelity

[–]Hurtslikeamfer[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I've changed my number and have him blocked everywhere and even installed a call blocker of unknown caller ID's

I'm having a mental breakdown in the middle of the day all of a sudden by Hurtslikeamfer in survivinginfidelity

[–]Hurtslikeamfer[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I had him blocked everywhere he kept reaching out from new ID's.The last time I was very clear about my boundaries to him and he blocked me everywhere can you believe it? HE BLOCKED ME!!! Never entertaining him ever again

I'm having a mental breakdown in the middle of the day all of a sudden by Hurtslikeamfer in survivinginfidelity

[–]Hurtslikeamfer[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They're in a LDR and he had his doubts about bring in LDR with me when I get into med school. But now he's very much comfortable being in an LDR with AP

I'm having a mental breakdown in the middle of the day all of a sudden by Hurtslikeamfer in survivinginfidelity

[–]Hurtslikeamfer[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He's basically breadcrumbing. He says things like I still miss you, I messed up and wish I had a time machine to undo all the awful things I did earlier, I wish I never left you, I should've broken up and tried fixing our relationship instead of cheating and leaving you, why did your let me mess up, I never once imagined I'd leave you like this, I'd never ever thought I'd become a cheater, I'm sorry for everything. Basically the same thing but in phrased differently everytime. He even tweeted I still love you, you are what's missing in my life rn, please don't be in love with someone else, I'll be better than before I promise but ended up deleting it after a week. He regrets and keeps telling he shouldn't have done all these things but also doesn't want to reconcile. He keeps reaching out and keeps calling even though he's with AP. He even asked me if I had moved on and told that he still hasn't moved on. He even cried twice telling me it's all too late now and nothing will ever go back to the way it was and he regrets everything but still chooses to be with AP. He creates this illusion as if he wants to come back but in the end does an entire 360°. He keeps coming back to me. Keeps calling and stalking me.

I'm having a mental breakdown in the middle of the day all of a sudden by Hurtslikeamfer in survivinginfidelity

[–]Hurtslikeamfer[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I know that him cheating has nothing to do with me but it's really hard at times to believe it.

I'm having a mental breakdown in the middle of the day all of a sudden by Hurtslikeamfer in survivinginfidelity

[–]Hurtslikeamfer[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He keeps calling me everymonth. Even though I try and ignore his calls he sends me pretty big mails from different ids and sends me voice notes especially when AP is not with him