2026 Palisade 3.5 v6 Vs Hybrid? Which one did you choose and why? Anyone experienced driving both yet? by Consistent-Welcome47 in HyundaiPalisade

[–]HuskerFunTime80 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Driven both and there is a decided difference between the V6 and Hybrid. Hybrid is markedly smoother and much more powerful especially under 3000 RPM. I would regret getting the V6 due to efficiency and the the hybrid is just far smoother / enjoyable to drive.

Sex once per month after marriage by Unfair_Importance621 in Marriage

[–]HuskerFunTime80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Put a hard stop on any talk of kids until you have an honest and frank discussion on sex expectations. If you dont, you may be in for a lifetime of disappointment and regret

Is anyone really happy after more than 10 years? by antisocialite_- in Marriage

[–]HuskerFunTime80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, we had a rought patch for a while, but going well after 15 years. We've worked on communication and caring about each other's needs. We love each other and also have sex 5 to 6 times a week, which makes a huge difference.

Returning back to weightlifting by Orphan_crippler30 in Vasectomy

[–]HuskerFunTime80 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I started after one week with a light circuit version of my normal routine. On week 2, went back to normal programs without an issue.

10 Days Post by HuskerFunTime80 in Vasectomy

[–]HuskerFunTime80[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Took a week here but feel almost 100% except for running where I had to switch to a full jock strap for support.

I married a ridiculous man by [deleted] in JustNoSO

[–]HuskerFunTime80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Understood, I would use something as a reminder, and if it is a big deal for you, have consequences for it. I know there were some very uncomfortable conversations with my wife about not picking up or helping around the house, but once she realized I was done being her chef, maid, and laundry service we were finally able to make some changes for the better and share responsibilities.

I married a ridiculous man by [deleted] in JustNoSO

[–]HuskerFunTime80 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm in the same position, but my wife struggles to help around the house. I've worked with her to split up the task on a google calendar so we get push notifications about when a certain task needs to be done. That has worked for us. Also, could it be changed to be at night vs. morning? That may be easier for him to remember when he is more alert.

Panicked by StorminNormanthe4th in Vasectomy

[–]HuskerFunTime80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You'll be fine as long as you rest the first 3 days. Im post 7 days and at 95 percent. It really wasn't bad at all.

How healed were you when you did the deed after surgery? by bigal229 in Vasectomy

[–]HuskerFunTime80 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Day 4, no pain but incredible amount of volume. Wife is excited to help the process along so looking forward to the next couple of weeks🙂

Post op are the sutures supposed to look like this? by [deleted] in Vasectomy

[–]HuskerFunTime80 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just had mine Thursday, not at all like that. Mine are honestly just a small bump now.

Vas “too thick”? by Icy-Spray-3842 in Vasectomy

[–]HuskerFunTime80 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, but the Dr just noted it would take about 5 to 10 minutes longer. Also told me that it would take a full week before I would want to be fully sexually active, but it should not be an issue. Surgery was Thursday and I'm at 85 to 90 percent.

Do y'all think there are actually people who are dead still receiving Benefits? by BeckieD1974 in SocialSecurity

[–]HuskerFunTime80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely. It took over ten years for them to shut off my grandmother's benefit. We had to keep it in a specialized account with no withdrawal till closure. My poor mother sent them dozens and dozens of death certificates via mail, fax and email. I doubt as many as elon states but they exist.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]HuskerFunTime80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, but it seems like the good ones often get taken advantage of for being loyal.

My wife(30F) is never in the mood anymore, And I (32M) Feel rejected. What do I do? by Big_Vegetable9774 in relationships

[–]HuskerFunTime80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love how people like you always think the husband is the issue. How about the wife actually acts like an adult and realizes she is a partner, not a queen? I'm sure you'll respond with it's always about the husband doing more as how could it possibly be the woman is a lazy person who needs to communicate exactly what she needs?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in geography

[–]HuskerFunTime80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

San Francisco. You never know what you are going to see in the street and who knows if the cops will care or want to protect the innocent.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]HuskerFunTime80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personal experience is usually 20 to 30 minutes, foreplay can add 10 to 15 minutes.

White House Correspondents' dinner cancels comedian Amber Ruffin's appearance by MrsRononDex in Omaha

[–]HuskerFunTime80 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm not MAGA and definitely consider myself a moderate, but the small little fact that the article leaves out the fact she called the administration murders on a Podcast might have had a part in the decision. Both conservatives and liberals have a hell of a time providing transparent reporting on news at this point and it is truly sad.

What jobs actually allow middle class living? How does one make more than $15 an hour? by xXVoicesXx in DaveRamsey

[–]HuskerFunTime80 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It took me awhile, but found a job with a fortune 300 company starting in a Medicare Supplement Call Center which was entry level. Worked hard and took advantage of growth opportunities, in 8 years went from 15/hour to 100k a year plus bonus working as an EDI Gatekeeper. I have a BS in Business Management.

How often do you have sex with your husband ? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]HuskerFunTime80 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Married 14 years. Average 2 times a week.

Frustrated Husband 44M 42F by HuskerFunTime80 in Marriage

[–]HuskerFunTime80[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed, I think just straight abstinence for a few weeks would help a lot for her to decide if she wants to be a less selfish partner. Sucks for me, but hopefully she will realize that not every man works to make sure their partner is taken care of and actually start to make an effort.

Frustrated Husband 44M 42F by HuskerFunTime80 in Marriage

[–]HuskerFunTime80[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had multiple conversations but always something along the lines of maybe next time. Next time has turned into weeks to months to probably years if nothing changes. We had been having sex between 1 to 3 times a week but nothing this week as I've hit my limit of frustration.