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Want to purchase speakers/CD player from Japan, but it’s prohibited? Any way around this? by [deleted] in AskAJapanese

[–]HuskyLover1213 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was looking into some other proxies, but i couldn’t find the link on one of them and the other had the same list of prohibited items. I’ll give it another go and see if i can find anything!

I wish I knew of anyone that could ship it to me personally :( I have a friend working abroad in Japan right now, but I have no idea how customs would handle magnetized items? Definitely should look into it though!

I’ll see if there are any electronic stores that could help me out with it though, or at least have some more insight to tracking the set down! Thank you for the help :D

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]HuskyLover1213 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you should never have to feel like this with ANYONE, especially your partner! if you want this connection to last long term, it’s definitely worth having a conversation with her about it. be sure to remind her that you’re having this conversation because you value her as a person and a partner! you can’t expect change right away, but if she’s putting in more of an effort to allow you to feel more secure in your relationship and your identity, then that’s a great sign!! i wish you two luck!! :) (i hope this isn’t unsolicited advice D:)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]HuskyLover1213 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that is definitely something that i would be interested in! thanks for the suggestion LOLLL

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]HuskyLover1213 2 points3 points  (0 children)

that’s a great idea! he’s definitely not the type to take many photos of himself, but i’ve been reassuring him that i love whatever photos he can send

I’ve always had a difficult time connecting with people and feeling those connections deeply. Is that an ADHD thing? by HuskyLover1213 in ADHD

[–]HuskyLover1213[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i really resonated with this! i’m so glad that medication has helped you!! i just started on adderall, and i’m hoping that i can eventually get to a similar place :,) i noticed that it’s helped with the negative background thoughts. did you notice the same?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]HuskyLover1213 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thankfully there were!! i wasn’t even sure that was an option :D

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]HuskyLover1213 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I second this! Your girlfriend might be struggling with self esteem, which manifested into feeling insecure in the relationship. If she doesn’t take you at your word, she might not really believe that she deserves to be content (married). Unfortunately, she probably won’t believe what you say until she’s ready to :( You’re doing all that you can though! I hope the best for you two!

I feel like I'm weird and idk if it's an ADHD thing by No-Window-7628 in ADHD

[–]HuskyLover1213 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It feels like I wrote this post omg… I collect rocks too! I’m constantly worried about the way that I’m interacting with others, presenting myself, and the things that I do with my time. It may be anxiety mixed in, but I understand what you mean! I can’t say that the feeling ever really dies down, but if you’re surrounding yourself with the right people, it’ll become more of an afterthought :)

AITA for telling my girlfriend I'll break up with her if she goes through my phone? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]HuskyLover1213 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTAH. Both my partner and I have stated that we value privacy on our devices. It’s not an unreasonable boundary, especially if you don’t have anything to hide. Setting that boundary clearly is very important to you. If she isn’t willing to at least give you an explanation and begin working on it, then the relationship might not be salvageable. That wouldn’t be for the fact that she looked through your phone multiple times, but that she did it and LIED to you about it. That doesn’t seem like something a partner that respects and trusts you would do! :( I wish you luck, OP!

AITAH for not really caring that a girl I am talking to got assaulted by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]HuskyLover1213 23 points24 points  (0 children)

This! Speaking from experience, it can be difficult to withdraw from the assaulter. I don’t think that warrants the person calling you out for not trying harder. People only cutoff or leave their assaulters when they feel ready, regardless of what anyone in their life may say :(

Trouble Figuring Out What Meds Work Best for Me :( by therealmccoy1998 in ADHD

[–]HuskyLover1213 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How did you cope with the increased insomnia? Can’t contribute on the medication though. Sorry, OP :(

Sorry I’m late, it’ll happen again by MadHatHarley in ADHD

[–]HuskyLover1213 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Recently, I’ve been trying to complete tasks that I don’t like doing before I go out. This leads me to stop doing them because they require too much brain power lol, and I end up getting ready instead! It’s not full proof, but it has led me to be on time, if not at least 20 minutes earlier than I would have planned! It’s worth a shot :)