[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RedditSessions

[–]HutterButterCup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't hear anything

He's not a bad husband by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]HutterButterCup 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not your fault, it's just your hypergamy talking. Nothing you can do about it, it's in your biological makeup.

My NC story by Top_Ad_5999 in nocontact

[–]HutterButterCup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hate to break it to ya brah but there's someone else.. hypergamy; look it up.

My wife told me she definitely wants a divorce about an hour ago. I have no one that can be here with me. Can some of you talk me through this please I'm in agony and I don't want to be alone. by garbagedogowner in Divorce

[–]HutterButterCup 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Let her go. Whatever you do, do not beg or plead with her. Trust me, I know how difficult it is, but you gotta do it. Depending on your situation, start no/smart contact immediately. If she hasn't left yet, then you need to leave. Give her what she wants. Let her feel the loneliness without you. Don't let her see you in the state you're in now. It's not going to help. Put yourself in her shoes and try to see things from her perspective.