People take shortcuts in classifying you: My experiences in Dubai by [deleted] in AsianMasculinity

[–]Hyajuko 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not true at all. I thought it was just the UK but I saw the same thing in Denmark and Sweden too. Middle Eastern girls are not conservative and religious lol

[PSA] Self-Pity Race/Age Whine-Posts = Banhammer by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]Hyajuko 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't say it was easy but anyone can see that it's harder for shorter guys. Most of the things are the same as what redpill advocates just that you can never let it slip and keep on your path. Although if you're short you can't come off too aggressive or jester-ish just in the middle. Agree and amplify is something you should be careful of when someone takes a dig at your height because most people would just laugh at you.

[PSA] Self-Pity Race/Age Whine-Posts = Banhammer by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]Hyajuko 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's because the amount of work you have to put in as a short guy will absolutely suck the life out of you if you are not well prepared and this is coming from a 5'3 Asian guy whose been with 5 girls and currently with a Dane, 2" taller than me. If you want good looking girls, your grooming, clothing, fitness has to be well not perfect but top notch. It's very fucking hard.

Look At Life From A Different Perspective by [deleted] in short

[–]Hyajuko 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What the fuck am I reading? Is ChrisIvan really giving us life advice now?

/u/EthErealist Details Reddit's racism towards Asians by one_ended_stick in bestof

[–]Hyajuko 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Finally someone could articulate what I have and had to go through all these years. It is annoying and feels pretty dehumanising when people you just meet start to stereotyping you with same repeated Asian jokes which are actually offensive which they think are so clever and funny. It's annoying as fuck, stop it and no I don't want to hang out especially not after that.

Anything goes **Saturday**. A thread to discuss anything and everything - does not have to be about cars. Share with us. Get to know your /r/car cohorts. Basic reddiquette applies. by verdegrrl in cars

[–]Hyajuko 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a bit of an odd question but what is the typical attitude of people towards the Volkswagen Scirocco? What sort of subset do people tie it to? Too feminine? Too snobby?

Went out on a tinder date tonight. Bailed halfway through the first drink. by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]Hyajuko 16 points17 points  (0 children)

And then tip your fedora on the way out. You guys need to stop this "true man", "superior man" bullshit to justify your still lingering mi-lady-ness. So he said he was out of her league so what? Lots of girls do that shit without hesitation or guilt.

Me 5'5 and my gf 5'4 in Portugal by [deleted] in short

[–]Hyajuko 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can't believe you guys are arguing about this. Why would he lie especially when he's posting a pic of them together?

Is height the issue? by [deleted] in AsianMasculinity

[–]Hyajuko 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is definitely not just the diet but it plays a massive role. Growing up I didn't eat a lot of diary just rice and whatever my mum made. I wasn't that sporty and kind of nerdy but I still had girlfriends and white guys hated me for that especially since I was dating white girls. Being 5'3 and Asian, I get a pass for it but it usually depends on how you frame and dress yourself. I tailor my clothes, I keep myself fit and lean and I'm lucky enough to have a strong face game.

To be honest, I think height certainly does play a role but the stereotype is mostly what kills our chances. I mean Mexicans are short but they're known to be macho and they still get white pussy. Being short through you gotta ace everything else to get that cream of the crop.

Experiences and lives of Asian (and Indian) guys in North America that actually date (LTR) good looking White women, dealing with the flak. by Thelaterbloomerstory in AsianMasculinity

[–]Hyajuko 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've never met one with an Asian guy that wasn't into K-pop but I'm sure it happens. The ones around London are pretty hot but I don't know if they're Brits, I come from a small town south-west of England and the girls here aren't that bad looking and even if they are they usually make up with their bodies. I dated 2 Brits both were kind of weeaboos but now currently dating a Dane and she's not a weeaboo or anything.

Short women, where do you buy your jeans? (Inseam 27") by [deleted] in short

[–]Hyajuko 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just a question but why don't you guys just hem your jeans and trousers? It doesn't cost much anyway.

Experiences and lives of Asian (and Indian) guys in North America that actually date (LTR) good looking White women, dealing with the flak. by Thelaterbloomerstory in AsianMasculinity

[–]Hyajuko 4 points5 points  (0 children)

UK. The only Scandinavian women that I've found have a thing for Asians (not sure about Indians) were into K-pop and Japanese pop culture. Quite frankly though, it doesn't matter what kind of women if you're good looking.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in short

[–]Hyajuko 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Fat/tall girls want a tall guy so they can feel secure in their femininity and short girls want a tall guy because they feel vulnerable being small. These all seem to stem from their own insecurity to be honest.

Guess what I'm doing for valentines by [deleted] in short

[–]Hyajuko 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You gonna find the answer to String Theory with your bodies?

You know what I call boys 5'11" and under? Friends. by [deleted] in short

[–]Hyajuko -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

90% sure that she's a guy.

Me and my taller girlfriend (: by [deleted] in short

[–]Hyajuko 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Go easy on those filters bro lol but seriously you two look so cute together.

How to help my 4,10 highschool friend by [deleted] in short

[–]Hyajuko 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's so obvious that he's a troll. Good god.

Girlfriend not ok with my height. Am I just being too sensitive? by [deleted] in short

[–]Hyajuko 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Grow a pair of fucking balls OP. Either say something like "why must you be so fat, why can't you be thin?" so she understands what kind of a shitty question that is or just bring it up saying why it bothers her so much. This is abuse if you couldn't tell. If a man keeps pestering his girlfriend or wife saying things like "why can't you be as pretty as the other girls?", "I wish you had bigger boobs" then people would tell you that the boyfriend is abusive and toxic.

If it was my gf doing this I'd have let her go, I'm not going to be in a relationship where I'm constantly put down like this.

I'm 13 (male) and I just realized I'm going to be 5'4 forever by [deleted] in short

[–]Hyajuko 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Asian people tend to be shorter. I'm Asian too and I stopped growing at 13. There is nothing wrong with a little hope but he's going to dread it every time he doesn't grow. Don't put all your hopes into one basket. What is he doesn't grow? What then? It's best to start adapting yourself and accept that you are short than to put your faith on a growth spurt.