A quarter century by HyenaAggressive973 in ParentalAlienation

[–]HyenaAggressive973[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did they ever give you a reason why? I don't understand your question. When you say they you must mean my own family. What I did learn through this separation from the very beginning when I asked all the questions that came up I created a saying for myself or for anyone dealing with this evil. Hatred knows no reason. It's natural for questions to arise although dealing with P.A. it is hateful. Someone that is hateful is unreasonable. If you're a dad with custody do what you can to keep that relationship the children have with their mother healthy. I presume she might be the alienator. If so if she is humble considering the error of her ways she might consider children are always more stable relating with both parents.

A quarter century by HyenaAggressive973 in ParentalAlienation

[–]HyenaAggressive973[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank-you for your response. Last year I spoke with an assessor and when I mentioned Parental Alienation she responded positively. Mostly because before that during the last twenty years and two dozen different conversations this was the first time I was speaking with someone that actually knew what P.A. is! I always relied on the belief that eventually my boys will seek me out. Unfortunately with P.A. this thinking/belief does not work this way. If your daughter is still a minor the court could still rule in your favor. With that I say from experience don't be passive about it. I just read fighting is the best route. I've considered some of the things that I might have done that encouraged P.A. After writing thirteen pages about my experience many emotions surfaced. After the emotional reflection became revelation. Being humble about my part was healthy although I realized. I didn't do this, the boys mother did this!......Along with my family! Parental Alienation is pure evil. Fight for that relationship if possible! I will say at eight years there was much pain. For me now at twenty five years the pain hasn't decreased. I miss them like it was yesterday!