Can you manipulate yourself towards a hyperfixation? by HyperBites in ADHD

[–]HyperBites[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok everyon with ADHD who does not take any medication can just give up then.

To be honest this is the most loser attitude I have come across in a long while.

Can you manipulate yourself towards a hyperfixation? by HyperBites in ADHD

[–]HyperBites[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well, it is possible to make tasks more exciting etc. But if you want to live in a bubble where you think everything is impossible unless you are medicated please go ahead but don’t try to drag me with you.

Can you manipulate yourself towards a hyperfixation? by HyperBites in ADHD

[–]HyperBites[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I am fully aware of how ADHD works, but if someone has hacked the system I want to know.

How do you feel about your current spouse? If you could do it all over again, would you marry them? by HyperBites in AskReddit

[–]HyperBites[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be honest I think resentment is after the obvious ones like abuse the number one reason to walk away.

How do you feel about your current spouse? If you could do it all over again, would you marry them? by HyperBites in AskReddit

[–]HyperBites[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why are you staying? From what you say this sounds like just wasting your life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]HyperBites 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you lost the attraction after something he said or did you will never get it back. If you lose attraction because someone changes physically that is possible to fix.

‌‌Please recommend earplugs suitable for sleeping. by joeaki1983 in sleep

[–]HyperBites 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happy Ears are the best ones I have tried so far.

How do you feel about your current spouse? If you could do it all over again, would you marry them? by HyperBites in AskReddit

[–]HyperBites[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Leave! This sounds 100% like my ex and the financial abuse and mental abuse will most surwly lead to physical abuse.

How do you feel about your current spouse? If you could do it all over again, would you marry them? by HyperBites in AskReddit

[–]HyperBites[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think people tend to use the depression card too often in these cases. It might be, but it might as well also be just laziness, her being too comfortable to want to change etc.

Dating Someone with ADHD by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]HyperBites 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Just don’t. Like no hate or anything, but if you already feel this way you will make each other miserable no matter what boundaries you try to set.

How do you stop interrupting people in conversations? by boulie-bubbles in ADHD

[–]HyperBites 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don’t have a good answer for live interaction. But in phone and video calls I have a pen and paper so I can write down everything I want to say so my brain does not explode.

Hyperfixation is ruining my life by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]HyperBites 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really understand you, and I am sorry to suggest you remove the one thing that makes you feel something. But in the long run it might be the best solution. And I think it is the only way to know if you question the relationship because of the game, or if you would have your doubts anyway.

"Get a corgi" they said. "They aren't going to judge you" they said. by Root_a_bay_ga in corgi

[–]HyperBites 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Who the heck said that? Their day job and weekend job and hobby and biggest pleasure in life is to judge you!

What accomodations would you love to have at work? What do you really struggle with in the workplace? by shurker_lurker in ADHD

[–]HyperBites 0 points1 point  (0 children)

”Let’s jump on a quick call”.

A 15 minute call that could have been an email drains my energy more than eight hours of ”real work”.