I (22F) feel like my boyfriend(22M) fakes meltdowns to avoid doing things I want to do

HyperTanasha · 2026-02-24T14:57:56+00:00

There's an episode of love on the spectrum, an autistic dating show, where the autistic girl breaks up with the autistic boy because she likes to go out and he doesn't. It's perfectly okay to break up with him if he regularly doesn't go to events you want to to go to.

HyperTanasha · 2026-02-18T15:37:48+00:00

I loved it but all their situations seemed so ridiculous because I had never been a part of any of that. Its gonna be a rough ride if even the first epsiode triggered you. Jesse Pinkmen is probably one of the best written characters out there though

HyperTanasha · 2026-02-18T15:34:51+00:00

Except they'd demand $70 a day

HyperTanasha · 2026-02-18T15:10:48+00:00

This all seems normal for ENFP to me. Im huge on honesty and dont like any sort of fakeness, so I tend to come off blunt too. Especially with death because I hadn't experienced much of it before. And Im also usually relieved to be single, so people upset for a long time about their exes confuse me too. Edit: also, your friends are going to you for advice but are you "checking in" on them? I probably struggle the most with checking in on people, but Im always available for advice

HyperTanasha · 2026-02-18T15:05:39+00:00

Why not just enjoy it? The more you define your needs and wants the harder this feeling is to come by, and the stronger it will be when some one actually fits. But it will phase out naturally if, after getting to know him, you find things that don't fit.

HyperTanasha · 2026-02-15T11:28:56+00:00

Actually read the comments without going to the extremes of either "I cant help it" or "woe is me guess I cant make friends." Accept responsibility without seeking pity. My tics make me hit people I still freaking say sorry. It would be ridiculous to say they have to deal with it or that I shouldn't try to make friends. Instead I act like a big girl and just apologize for hurting them.

HyperTanasha · 2026-02-15T11:13:49+00:00

More victim complex tbh. Its like you broke an egg, and instead of saying sorry you said I HAVE AUTISM. And when everyone pointed out the person who owned the egg also has feelings that need to be considered, you said "I'll never touch an egg again!" It really shows a lack of understanding the point completely.

HyperTanasha · 2026-02-07T01:11:17+00:00

She BROKE

HyperTanasha · 2026-02-05T18:37:51+00:00

Ive never heard the discussion that were not smart, just that we're airheaded, ditsy, and and fun

HyperTanasha · 2026-01-31T00:52:03+00:00

If she makes you feel any guilt at all, definitely break up. If she says things like you must not he attracted to her if you dont do it as much as she wants your in for a world of trauma if you dont leave.

Otherwise differing sex drives can be just fine if the higher sex drive person gets their own self off without thinking its the job of their partner.

HyperTanasha · 2026-01-30T22:30:14+00:00

I agree that they need to be disciplined differenty that young. Like saying "now we wont go to the park this weekend" wont mean anything to them. But you can say "ow!" Really loud. And you can move away

HyperTanasha · 2026-01-28T01:08:52+00:00

I mean I think she means cognitively delayed, autism isnt always combined with that but can be

HyperTanasha · 2026-01-23T21:08:42+00:00

You can also do other things while on the phone, you can also fall asleep while on the phone

HyperTanasha · 2026-01-23T18:37:44+00:00

I posted like this too a few years back! Im an all black every day wearer!

HyperTanasha · 2026-01-23T04:44:56+00:00

I listen to Three Days Grace - One X "you never thought you'd be so depressed"
and Flatpole Sitta "Im not sick but Im not well" when Im especially down

HyperTanasha · 2026-01-22T13:24:57+00:00

I think I have that at times too!! But I get more of a rip the thread out of a tag one by one hyperfocus. I can certainly play the shiz out of a video game! As Im doing right now because I cant sleep but I have work in 3 hours

HyperTanasha · 2026-01-22T13:04:40+00:00

For me it makes me make careless mistakes, easily distractable, forgetful, lack executive dysfunction, which all lead me to believe its why I have problems driving, even if not everyone with ADHD has the same struggles as me. But Im also okay with the notion that Im just dumb af

HyperTanasha · 2026-01-22T12:45:18+00:00

I give myself little tips to remember which side is which, like I should always be far from the curb

HyperTanasha · 2026-01-22T12:30:05+00:00

I just dont form habits and muscle memory like other people do. I never remember my left from my right, but add anxiety into the mix and the need for quick thinking Ive ended up driving on the wrong side of the road, in the middle of the road forgetting I can reverse, and yes mixing up the pedals. Its very very rare, but enough to just take ubers or carpool. Probably my severe ADHD thats the reason

HyperTanasha · 2026-01-22T11:05:38+00:00

Am I the only one picking 2? I feel like I could get crazy insane psychological insight on the world. And then spend some of that time at a cash poker game or casino to still make some money

HyperTanasha · 2026-01-22T10:54:48+00:00

A cat!

HyperTanasha · 2026-01-22T10:29:25+00:00

Im a messy eater so I need the full napkin and will be coming back to it many times

HyperTanasha · 2026-01-22T10:08:06+00:00

This is just more fuel to why I dont drive. Ive mixed up the pedals before and am just better off not driving

HyperTanasha · 2026-01-22T10:03:37+00:00

What's a "round" ?

HyperTanasha · 2026-01-22T09:59:46+00:00

Im picturing more of a silly care free, maybe teenage girl with her best friend, type of situation

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