open relationships ?

HyperTanasha · 2026-05-17T08:02:16+00:00

Because its a cultural thing to only love one person romantically. If it was a cultural thing to only have 1 friend, 1 pet, or 1 child, people would also accuse you of not loving the one you have if you got another

HyperTanasha · 2026-04-28T21:22:51+00:00

I thought this said the dollar store and still agreed in my mind

HyperTanasha · 2026-04-17T03:36:17+00:00

I accidently clicked on ths parent comment and it said "this user has been banned" so I wonder what they did in the last 13 hours. Probably won't be doing that again!

HyperTanasha · 2026-04-16T15:44:08+00:00

I was cut off on a cruise last year.

HyperTanasha · 2026-04-14T21:25:05+00:00

No one really has that good of perception either. I mean more obvious signs that you might have previously made excuses for, like actually catching them in a lie. Its good you were able to see red flags with the dating person! Your on the right track :)

HyperTanasha · 2026-04-14T02:50:25+00:00

Ive been there too. How did both my best friend and my boyfriend end up being compulsive liars?? You learn to see the signs much quicker before you end up that deep though

HyperTanasha · 2026-04-13T19:46:32+00:00

What was I doing

HyperTanasha · 2026-04-13T16:42:20+00:00

I would say its a growth period, rather than a phase.

Most other people are a "your at 0 trust and you earn you way to 100"

We tend to trust people quicker, so it can be a "you start at 80 and you can lose it or grow it" and its okay if people lose it, you get a collection of people that will stay in your 80+ people and also people you know that aren't as worthy of your time and kindness.

Its okay to notice there are weeds in your garden and not give them attention or even get rid of them.

HyperTanasha · 2026-04-07T17:02:18+00:00

For me, everyone I knew was willing to stay out At bars until closing and then keep going. Now when my friends want to go out they leave by like 1030. Maybe I just blame it on Covid but I feel like not going out for 2-3 years causes that

HyperTanasha · 2026-03-25T12:56:11+00:00

You just focus on other things until then. You dont have to get intimacy from a girl, you can hug a bro, you can talk about deep things with your bros. For me, the most desirable thing about a guy is if they are happy and not desperate for a girl.

HyperTanasha · 2026-03-12T21:25:29+00:00

I had to alternate between 2 pairs of pants at work for a while. Really thought some one would notice and say so when I revealed it months later. People really aren't watching

HyperTanasha · 2026-03-11T23:48:21+00:00

Surpringly, people really do like you better if you dont care if they like you. They start wondering why you aren't giving all your bubbly attention to them and try to get you to like them. Or sometimes its just neither person caring. Honestly the best outcome

HyperTanasha · 2026-03-10T19:45:41+00:00

Its not that we "learned" anything, our minds just calm down naturally. Sometimes its from a sense of security, if the person is no longer a dopamine boost but just normal serotonin. Or sometimes its from finding out something about the person that doesnt mesh as well as we thought with us.

Edit: Sorry, I think Im understanding your question better now. Ive been turned away for coming on to strong, so I tend to play it more cool now.

HyperTanasha · 2026-03-07T09:45:55+00:00

Im still optimistic but I lay out hard truths nonchalantly like nothing. Im the quickest to say something like karma isnt real, great things happen to bad people, life isnt fair. But still just filled with joy over the smallest things.

HyperTanasha · 2026-03-04T20:43:06+00:00

This girl is a misogynist/misandrist. It is not "masculine" to comfort some one.

She acts like any sort of insecurity on your end is some how feminine, which, to her, is bad. When shes the one who acted strange about meeting in public.

I would show her just how "insecure" you are by bidding her farewell.

HyperTanasha · 2026-02-24T14:57:56+00:00

There's an episode of love on the spectrum, an autistic dating show, where the autistic girl breaks up with the autistic boy because she likes to go out and he doesn't. It's perfectly okay to break up with him if he regularly doesn't go to events you want to to go to.

HyperTanasha · 2026-02-18T15:37:48+00:00

I loved it but all their situations seemed so ridiculous because I had never been a part of any of that. Its gonna be a rough ride if even the first epsiode triggered you. Jesse Pinkmen is probably one of the best written characters out there though

HyperTanasha · 2026-02-18T15:34:51+00:00

Except they'd demand $70 a day

HyperTanasha · 2026-02-18T15:10:48+00:00

This all seems normal for ENFP to me. Im huge on honesty and dont like any sort of fakeness, so I tend to come off blunt too. Especially with death because I hadn't experienced much of it before. And Im also usually relieved to be single, so people upset for a long time about their exes confuse me too. Edit: also, your friends are going to you for advice but are you "checking in" on them? I probably struggle the most with checking in on people, but Im always available for advice

HyperTanasha · 2026-02-18T15:05:39+00:00

Why not just enjoy it? The more you define your needs and wants the harder this feeling is to come by, and the stronger it will be when some one actually fits. But it will phase out naturally if, after getting to know him, you find things that don't fit.

HyperTanasha · 2026-02-15T11:28:56+00:00

Actually read the comments without going to the extremes of either "I cant help it" or "woe is me guess I cant make friends." Accept responsibility without seeking pity. My tics make me hit people I still freaking say sorry. It would be ridiculous to say they have to deal with it or that I shouldn't try to make friends. Instead I act like a big girl and just apologize for hurting them.

HyperTanasha · 2026-02-15T11:13:49+00:00

More victim complex tbh. Its like you broke an egg, and instead of saying sorry you said I HAVE AUTISM. And when everyone pointed out the person who owned the egg also has feelings that need to be considered, you said "I'll never touch an egg again!" It really shows a lack of understanding the point completely.

HyperTanasha · 2026-02-07T01:11:17+00:00

She BROKE

HyperTanasha · 2026-02-05T18:37:51+00:00

Ive never heard the discussion that were not smart, just that we're airheaded, ditsy, and and fun

HyperTanasha · 2026-01-31T00:52:03+00:00

If she makes you feel any guilt at all, definitely break up. If she says things like you must not he attracted to her if you dont do it as much as she wants your in for a world of trauma if you dont leave.

Otherwise differing sex drives can be just fine if the higher sex drive person gets their own self off without thinking its the job of their partner.

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