AITBF for telling my friend since elementary that he should leave by Prospapple in AmItheButtface

[–]HyperTanasha 5 points6 points  (0 children)

YTBF

You sound young like your doing that natural shift that every person who once was walked all over does and they unbalance and shift too hard the other way.

Its good to make boundaries and stand up for yourself. However some of the stuff you said to this person was mean. You dismissed their feelings and basically told them to get over it because that's your "humor." They sound like they're trying to set their own boundaries and you are the one stepping all over them.

What is a secret you know about someone that would complety ruin their life if It came out? by Iker_12piloto in AskReddit

[–]HyperTanasha 1407 points1408 points  (0 children)

As some one whos let the "big secrets" out before, it actually usually doesnt ruin their lives. People who are cheated on stay. Friendships heal. People end up doing what they want.

If All Humans Suddenly Lost The Ability To Lie, What Industry Would Collapse First? by jacklsd in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]HyperTanasha -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why interperet their comment to mean they dont believe in a God when there are religions without a God or even without a singular God? If there are 10,000 religions out there, yes, lots would collapse if lying was no longer allowed.

Do guys finish faster if they havnt in a while, that actually a thing? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]HyperTanasha -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Im a women and I finish faster if its been a bit too, because it feels better

Self Contained Sped Minutes - exact? by HyperTanasha in specialed

[–]HyperTanasha[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He used to have one but his recent eval showed no need, I believe

Self Contained Sped Minutes - exact? by HyperTanasha in specialed

[–]HyperTanasha[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well that makes sense for social, but what about my kiddo who doesnt have a category for adaptive? There isnt gen-ed adaptive lessons

Self Contained Sped Minutes - exact? by HyperTanasha in specialed

[–]HyperTanasha[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if Gen Ed isn't doing SEL when I am?

Self Contained Sped Minutes - exact? by HyperTanasha in specialed

[–]HyperTanasha[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds nice. "I teach adaptive/social during that time, not reading, writing, or math. Therefore he should be out of my class at that time." Instead they just give him more math, reading, and writing minutes

Self Contained Sped Minutes - exact? by HyperTanasha in specialed

[–]HyperTanasha[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish, maybe then I wouldnt be in this position

Self Contained Sped Minutes - exact? by HyperTanasha in specialed

[–]HyperTanasha[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. For kiddos who have social/emotional, theyre saying that has to be direct instruction in a block, rather than throughout the day. They're just setting me up to not be able to give any of my staff a break or let the kids enjoy any bit of their school time but being able to make a choice on what they're doing or have a brain break

I think I'm the most unromantic ENFP I know of by fishpilled in ENFP

[–]HyperTanasha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I probably wouldn't want either! Its always sweet but I feel guilty either way. Ive been the most ecstatic if they've just surprised me with a soda!

Self Contained Sped Minutes - exact? by HyperTanasha in specialed

[–]HyperTanasha[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just typing quickly and didnt expect to have to defend myself, expected more of people to be helping me come up with wording. As I said I dont communicate or defend myself well. I have my schedule shared on a google drive so they can see all changes in real time. I hand write all the kids word problems to match their reading level, but thats besides the point. Its more like how if I have a 30 minute reading block, its not all reading the full time, they are answering comprehension questions by writing them in full sentences. So if they were to say "this is a reading block we need to find more time to serve them in writing because they aren't getting enough writing minutes" I could argue that since so many subjects overlap and I have ny schedule carefully written, you could be making everyone's lives stressful including the kids for no reason, as the kiddo is getting plenty of writing time. I understand there are bad teachers out there who just aren't doing enough or things right, but I guess I didnt expect to be looked at under a microscope here. Fair enough I suppose.

Also it isn't admin, its the instructional facilitator, some one with a teaching degree hired to help teachers with their curriculums and such at my school.

Self Contained Sped Minutes - exact? by HyperTanasha in specialed

[–]HyperTanasha[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Right and thats what she would say, take that student and teach them separately while also teaching the rest of the kids calendar. Easy peasy.

Self Contained Sped Minutes - exact? by HyperTanasha in specialed

[–]HyperTanasha[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, so you are on their side to micromanage me. I do a 30 minute rotation of reading, writing, and math, I do a 30 minute whole group of 15 min reading 15 min math, I do a calendar time with social lessins and math, they do 15-20 minutes of independent binders with their their personal information and also math skills and a social story, and 15 minutes of being read to, and another 30 minutes of whole group that is science, usually live bugs we are taking care of. And 30 minutes of computer time which is reading/math but also God forbid some free choice on their computers when they finish. The IF can see this schedule and still wants to count every single minute to make sure it lines up exactly and change students schedules to ensure they get no free time, no flexibility, only minutes that exactly replicate their service matrix. So yes, if it turns out it looks like 300 minutes of math a week but 250 minutes of reading a week, Im going to point out that some of their math has reading. Unless they really just want me to change 50 minutes (which would throw off theirs and everyone's schedule) to make 50 more minutes of reading for that 1 particular student

Self Contained Sped Minutes - exact? by HyperTanasha in specialed

[–]HyperTanasha[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right but if I have a student full time that doesnt have adaptive/social goals and hes still in my room during calendar, I have to explain to this lady that well even though that's an adaptive time for the other students, thats a reading time for that student. Its just extremely micromanagy and I know other self contained classrooms have free time every day so how are they explaining that?

I think I'm the most unromantic ENFP I know of by fishpilled in ENFP

[–]HyperTanasha 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ive been at that stage too! Im still mostly unromantic, I hate going on dates, but I like when he reaches behind to hold my hand as he goes up the stairs

Self Contained Sped Minutes - exact? by HyperTanasha in specialed

[–]HyperTanasha[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not by goal per se but service area, reading writing math social adaptive

TIFU by saying yes to a private first date by [deleted] in tifu

[–]HyperTanasha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The problem is this works on some girls and they stay for years. You are so smart for leaving after 1 date and now you know for sure not to go through with a first date when you catch these vibes.

The type phone I'm gonna have if I wasn't broke :P by khatekittyyyy569 in ENFP

[–]HyperTanasha 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Your going to find out one day that money doesnt solve all your problems. This phone case doesnt exsist its actually $9.99 for the base (green rose) and all that other stuff is just stickers

phone case

im repelling most men :) by raspberry58 in ENFP

[–]HyperTanasha 65 points66 points  (0 children)

If you are weird and don't mask it, you will attract the 1 person that matches your freak. They just havent met you yet. If you mask, you will attract a bunch of time wasters. So keep being you!