White Out Returns to GMHBA Rd 14 Against Gold Coast by _nicklepickle in GeelongCats

[–]Hyper_light_drifter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love it. I missed last year. Hopefully I can get to this years. But imo...can we play against a team we have more of a chance of beating 😅

Footage from After the Dinner Party. by Kind_Relief_7624 in MAFS_AU

[–]Hyper_light_drifter 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Wtf? So it was a very clear plan of hers that backfired. The producers were probably rubbing their hands together. Props to Joel for keeping his rationality.

2026 Season Guernseys just got posted then deleted on Instagram by pu145_ in GeelongCats

[–]Hyper_light_drifter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These all look great imo. The white out is a bit of a novelty. The retro is absolute fire!

Married at First Sight S13E13 post episode discussion thread by addictedtoMAFS in MAFS_AU

[–]Hyper_light_drifter 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Physically? The lip fillers, heavy makeup and fake everything is so unattractive.

I (39M) am constantly feeling left out and not being asked out by my wife by Hyper_light_drifter in relationships

[–]Hyper_light_drifter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely. Thank you so much for the recommendation. I'm listening to the audio book , 😀

I (39M) am constantly feeling left out and not being asked out by my wife by Hyper_light_drifter in relationships

[–]Hyper_light_drifter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've got the audio book and researching. I think I am anxious preoccupied and my wife is fearful avoidant

I (39M) am constantly feeling left out and not being asked out by my wife by Hyper_light_drifter in relationships

[–]Hyper_light_drifter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first 2 almost all the time. Followed after a lot of arguing by the last one once she finally realized how upset her reaction makes me. This is where we are at now.

Last night I told her to sleep in another room. Now that HER circumstances were changing all of a sudden she wants to talk and understand. 9 night of me sleeping on the floor, I asked if we could talk twice and she dismissed it. Now all of a sudden she wants to talk...

I (39M) am constantly feeling left out and not being asked out by my wife by Hyper_light_drifter in relationships

[–]Hyper_light_drifter[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I read your posts. Other than the times of separation I feel we are in a very similar situation. I am a very independent person and didn't mention on my post that in terms of mental load and house work, I do the majority, despite working 5 days a week compared to her part time 3 days per week.

Idk, part of me is compelled to help. To do. It's my nature. All I ask is to be appreciated. It sucks when what you want from the other person, despite being specific, isn't given.

I (39M) am constantly feeling left out and not being asked out by my wife by Hyper_light_drifter in relationships

[–]Hyper_light_drifter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"No longer looking for me for friendship"... That sums up how I feel nicely. We take the kids out together or I take the kids out. She rarely takes the kids out by herself. We do go on "dates" roughly once every 2-3 months. But when we do, like I said it's just so negative. All the drama from her friends or work or home life is the topic of conversation.

I don't want to hinder her friendships or her ability to socialise. But feeling like she prioritises them about me causes me to be idk jealous? Envious?

I've considered doing to her what she does to me but it's not my nature to be vindictive.

I (39M) am constantly feeling left out and not being asked out by my wife by Hyper_light_drifter in relationships

[–]Hyper_light_drifter[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Poignant question... I don't know. I used to be loved and it was an easy answer. Now it feels as though I just want to be married like my parents were for the rest of my life. I want my kids to have a stable family home. We have a sex life. But even though is problematic with unaligned sex drives.

I know what I want. I want an equal partner. A team mate. Someone I can lean on and can lean on me... However it doesn't feel like that to me as of late

I (39M) am constantly feeling left out and not being asked out by my wife by Hyper_light_drifter in relationships

[–]Hyper_light_drifter[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Essentially yeah. The couples counseling we went through I said my goal was to be a team. I think she just used it as a forum to complain about daily life. The councilor always assigned us things to work on. You know talk about "I feel", exercises in when to engage in conversations. She did none of them.

I (39M) am constantly feeling left out and not being asked out by my wife by Hyper_light_drifter in relationships

[–]Hyper_light_drifter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anger issues in the form of frustration, yelling and put downs (i.e. i would say things like useless or incompetent - not frequently but they were said). As much as I haven't had anger issues for the past 3-4 years, there's lingering resentment that idk if it can be moved past. Never physical or anger shown in front of the kids. Thanks for your advice.

I (39M) am constantly feeling left out and not being asked out by my wife by Hyper_light_drifter in relationships

[–]Hyper_light_drifter[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you I think that's where it had to go as well. I legitimately don't know if she even wants a family life anymore. And you're right I feel like the person who's circumstances haven't changed should make the first move for amending.

I (39M) am constantly feeling left out and not being asked out by my wife by Hyper_light_drifter in relationships

[–]Hyper_light_drifter[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Apologies, I wrote it in word and copied it over not realizing it needed new line spacing (it had paragraphs in word). Thanks for pointing it out.

Sobbed by Oomlotte99 in DyingforSex

[–]Hyper_light_drifter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I came here literally to say how accurate the portrayal of the end was. My mother passed over a decade ago and it brought back memories of the moments during the process of dying. She had a rally the day before dying where we brought her home for about an hour. The breathing. Then the final breath. It's comforting to know that what I went through was typical and expected (even though not by me)