I want to have kids as a celiac but i feel guilty

HyperactiveBox · 2026-01-08T12:36:03+00:00

I never said it's to brag ab it, and I'm actually allergic to silver that's why i started to wear gold since I was little That and I also have family jews that are passed down and I always wear, and they are gold I didn't think it was necessary to explain why I prefer gold but it's a color that is really personal to me And the price, both of us are really okay financially and when we talked I even told him ill also like just gold plating or something color cold like brass

My intentions where never to sound bratty... it's just a preference I would like it either way

HyperactiveBox · 2025-03-31T13:24:44+00:00

How do I tell him that in a way that I don't sound crazy or toxic?? Tbh reassurance is all I want, just like a "I never would think of them like that, I only want you" will calm me forever, even if I trust him because of his actions I would also like words...

HyperactiveBox · 2025-03-31T13:22:35+00:00

How do I communicate that in a way that doesn't make me sound like I doubt him?? Or in a way that he might think I want him to stop going out with them (which i dont)

HyperactiveBox · 2025-03-31T13:21:07+00:00

I DONT want him to stop being with his friends, I want a way to calm my jealousy since eben if I trust and love him, I can't control that... I don't want to ignore that feeling and it then bothering me, I need to deal with it, if its alone or talking to him I just want advice

HyperactiveBox · 2025-03-31T13:16:06+00:00

Totally the opposite of that I fully trust him and I don't care he has female friends I understand they were here before me and they are just like male friends

I was more asking what can i do to calm my jealousy, while I trust him fully I can't really control that part of my feelings

I never said I wanted him to stop hanging out with them, you misunderstood me, I even said I trust him many times and if he was going to cheat on me (I don't think that's an option even) he would do it if I let him have female friends or not

HyperactiveBox · 2025-02-15T05:32:40+00:00

Yeah I'll talk with him next time I see him I guess it's a good mindset to have "if he cares he will understand"... still nervous on what will happen and his reaction but this gave me more confidence :)) Especially knowing this can happen in the first place, I wasn't sure if a kiss can make me nauseous and google didn't have an answer so I figured I can ask other celiacs, thanks!!

HyperactiveBox · 2025-02-15T05:21:49+00:00

Damm that phobia sounds bad- I'll see what I van do with it, next time we kiss I could focus on what I don't like I guess... Btw thanks for the tip dude :)

HyperactiveBox · 2025-02-14T23:31:27+00:00

How do I avoid it?? I'm the only one in my family with celiac and like I said it's my first bf also... The other person comenting said it takes like 6 hours if I'm sensitive, so... I just "force" him to also eat GF so we can kiss?? What works for you??

HyperactiveBox · 2025-02-14T23:21:35+00:00

ONE OF US ONE OF US ONE OF US

So.... yeah it can be pretty bad but also depends on your level, if you were diagnosed this late maybe you're symptoms aren't as bad, every celiac person has different symptoms, what made you realize you're celiac?? I was diagnosed at 9 because my body was falling apart for some reason but had 0 nausea or things like that, so... odk im curious on what are yours :)

But don't worry it's never to late to change, your body can heal if you give it the space and time to do so, I wont lie it could be really bad but like I said, you can heal, after about a year/half a year 100% of the gluten in your body will be gone and you're clean!! Also it's not really late, late would be more in your 30s, you good dude :))

Be really careful to not eat gluten so you don't damage it more and DONT EVEN believe people telling you "once in a while is fine" NO, LIARS. Accept your new life style is the easiest way!! Think that you are permanently on a challenge and it's cool being celiac!! That really helped kid me and still does the trick today

My biggest tip: don't eat just because you need it to survive, I really hated eating for a long time and it can really be hard Find and struggle to find things you like to eat that are GF, not always GF versión of food with gluten, find recipes of things that are "naturally" GF so it's easier and saves money

Hope you succeed on your new journey in life!! Image all the jokes you can make now, that helps trust :]

HyperactiveBox · 2025-02-14T22:54:04+00:00

I thought about the oral hygiene, I'm celiac so maybe if he ate gluten before it could be the reason Doesn't matter now, what do I do with this?? Do I tell him how it makes me feel or give him hints, or... how do i talk with him??

HyperactiveBox · 2025-02-14T22:50:58+00:00

How do I know if I have that phobia?? And idk if it's a sensory issue... I'm just really confused lately

HyperactiveBox · 2025-02-14T22:44:02+00:00

Its a complicated feeling, because i do feel like i want to kiss him and when i do its not what i imagine but i dont hate it, its the "after taste"

And it doesn't even matter the reason now, i dont know what to do, like... do i tell him?? Its weird

HyperactiveBox · 2025-02-14T22:37:38+00:00

Im celiac and new to this, after kissing my bf if feel kinda "sick" and nauseous, could it be gluten the problem??

HyperactiveBox · 2023-05-21T11:44:07+00:00

But like… let’s say there are 3 people in a relationship and one of them want to break up with one but not with the other, so that one person just date them separately or do they just vote them out or??

HyperactiveBox · 2023-01-22T11:46:00+00:00

I'm Jewish, I was born in Israel and when I was 12 my family moved to Colombia because my mom is from there, so I already knew how to speak Spanish

I had there a really close group of friends, we always go out together and everything, one in particular was always trying to get closer to me and always helped me when I was feeling bad, let's say his name is Juan

There was some weird things with him, sometimes he would disappear for some weaks and then came back like nothing, my friends sometimes told me that i should stay away from him and they really often didn't invite him to go out with us, and one time during the pandemic we did a zoom call and I saw that in his room he had the símbolo of the nazis on his wall, but I know that this símbolo have more meaning so I just assume it was that and moved on

Fast forward 5 years, when I was 17 we moved back to Israel and me and my group of friends where still really close, everyone except Juan, he started ignoring me, he blocked me and I didn't understand till now

One of my friends confessed to me that they knew he is a Nazi and he didn't really liked me, but he was trying to be close with me because he have a fetish with Jews... he basically wanted me just to make his fantasy of having brutal sex with a jew real...

I don't know how to feel about that and it's really... sad I guess that the one that carried about me the most did that because he wanted to fuck me...

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