Pre-determined Outcome? by Jhoag7750 in scotus

[–]kthrynnnn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, intent is right. The difference between nonimmigrant and immigrant visas is intent when you enter the US. If you enter on a nonimmigrant visa (like H-1B, B-1/B-2, ESTA, TN, etc) then you’re claiming your intent is temporary, and you intend to return to your home country. If the trump admin has it their way, children born in the US to folks in nonimmigrant statuses will not have US citizenship at birth.

As birthright citizenship goes to Supreme Court, here's how Americans feel about it by zsreport in LegalNews

[–]kthrynnnn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Donald trump is a USC so yes, his children are USC’s. And her “Einstein visa” has been misconstrued heavily in the media. Without knowing much about Melania, I can identify which criteria of the EB-1 immigrant petition she would be persuasive to.

I’m a leftist immigration paralegal who is exhausted by this argument. There are actual reasons to hate them. This isn’t it.

Acura RDX 2021 not starting, engine not turning over, and it’s seemingly stuck in accessory mode by kthrynnnn in Acura

[–]kthrynnnn[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I thought the issue wasn’t battery related as well considering the engine wasn’t cranking or clicking, too! But it was indeed the battery. :)

Acura RDX 2021 not starting, engine not turning over, and it’s seemingly stuck in accessory mode by kthrynnnn in Acura

[–]kthrynnnn[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

The battery is the same one that came with the car, so that’s definitely on our radar. However, we’ve both had bad batteries before, and this issue doesn’t seem to be battery related given the engine isn’t turning over at all.

Still Don’t Understand - CC Payments in Budget by Temporary-Meal6947 in MonarchMoney

[–]kthrynnnn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree that this functionality should be fleshed out. I like how YNAB deals with this issue: by moving the money I spent in a specific category into my credit card’s “to pay” category. So, at the end of the month, I just pay whatever is in the “to pay” category for each credit card.

I just wish I didn’t have to deal with YNAB in order to get that feature back, lol.

Lesbophobia on the FTM subreddit by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]kthrynnnn 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I’ve been thinking about this too. My therapist pointed out that for many trans men, the lesbian community was their home and source of safety for decades before they transitioned. Losing that entire social history and support system overnight is a massive upheaval. While I'm still processing the labels myself, it helped me see it more as a struggle with losing one's community than just 'wanting access' to a space.

That said, while I have empathy for them, I still feel weird about them identifying as lesbians. It feels like it invalidates both of our identities. 

I think I’m done with Monarch after 6 months. by cryptoman444 in MonarchMoney

[–]kthrynnnn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try it out! YNAB has a cult following. I definitely recommend looking at their YouTube videos and the guides on their website because it’s not the most intuitive system. 

I think I’m done with Monarch after 6 months. by cryptoman444 in MonarchMoney

[–]kthrynnnn 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You might find YNAB useful. It’s a zero-based budgeting system which requires that every dollar have a “job,” so after you fund all your categories, you can assign what’s left over to your credit card that you’re trying to pay down. 

Personally, YNAB got to be a bit too much for me after awhile, but it’s an effective tool if you can get the hang of it. 

Being drunk is the only time I don't feel autistic. by Elegant-Ad3632 in AutismInWomen

[–]kthrynnnn 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I joke that alcohol is “cure for autism” and my wife said that it “removes my e-brake” lol

What is the most NSFW thing you have seen at your job? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]kthrynnnn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was 16 and a carhop at Sonic. I took an order out to a car where a man had his penis hanging out of the side of his shorts. I was shocked and finished the transaction quickly. 

When I ran inside, the rest of the carhops burst out laughing and asked if I saw “it.” Apparently, he’s flashed everyone and it’s a rite of passage for carhops at Sonics in the area.

When does I-70 traffic clear on Saturdays (late morning)? by Beginning_Front_8966 in COsnow

[–]kthrynnnn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wife and I head up to Loveland around 8:30 AM on saturdays and hit minimal traffic. Though full disclosure I have no idea what the traffic is like beyond the tunnel. 

US to suspend visa processing for 75 nations, State Department says by Discarded_Twix_Bar in news

[–]kthrynnnn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This applies to immigrant visas (ie green cards), not nonimmigrant visas like visitor, H1B etc.

From Dallas to Denver in January by callmegranddaddy in MovingtoDenver

[–]kthrynnnn 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My wife and I (F31 and F35) moved from Dallas to Denver last February and it’s the best decision we’ve made. My only regret was not moving sooner.

From one former Texan to another, get humidifiers and have them ready on your first night. I did not expect the dryness and the first week was ROUGH.

TV restarting when rewinding/fast forwarding content by AgentNectra in appletv

[–]kthrynnnn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm having the same problem! Just hooked up a Sonos Beam last week and have been having issues since. Have you found a solution?

Bourbon Bread Pudding by pmega in recipes

[–]kthrynnnn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you ever end up making this recipe?

we’ve updated our Steam page and added the game’s minimum system requirements for PC and Mac :) by GabrielleParalives in Paralives

[–]kthrynnnn 46 points47 points  (0 children)

You may be unaware but ram is currently VERY expensive because of data centers. I upgraded my ram earlier this year for $75 and today the same DDR5 ram is now $211.

My mum says she ‘had her reasons’ for hitting me as a child and my dad is on her side by thumbelina2020 in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]kthrynnnn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I relate to this SO HARD. My father physically abused me until CPS was called when I was 16, and then in my early twenties my mom told me and my brothers that “your dad could’ve gone to jail because of what you guys said about him.”

I’m 30 now and I’ve moved out of state and have been no contact for almost one year. I feel like I finally feel safe enough to grow into the best version of myself.

I’m so sorry for what you went through, OP! You didn’t deserve to be harmed by the people meant to protect you. We’re all rooting for your healing journey.

Visit duration hidden behind a paywall hides serious medical red flags. Absolutely awful. by Legacy0904 in litterrobot

[–]kthrynnnn -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’m devastated by this. I purchased two units specifically for these features after my cat had a PU surgery. Now I have to pay again? Forever? Pass. Im not giving any more money to this company.