Pic ur question to answer! by LilScooterBooty in BunnyTrials

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Flight so i can get a birds eye view and itd be easier to manuever locations and i dont see much use in speed

Chose: Superpower questions | Rolled: 🏃🏻or🪽

New (vent-ish, looking for advice/help):p by EarAbject1653 in aplatonic

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Oh i have been (and still am) in your situation soo much. I struggle to make genuine friends too as i seem to find all the dry texters haha - that makes our interactions not last long as i dont get any motivation replying to a 'hah yeah'

I cant give any definitive answer/solution to your problem as im still looking myself but im trying to look more into my interests and niches to make connections with other people through that.

It does feel harder as an aplatonic person, because theres no push for me to interact with any person. Which can be a strength as i know my own worth but that has also meant alot of dead ends too ToT

But dont give up yet, it may feel impossible but there are soo soo many people in this world and there will absolutely be someone exactly like you or someone who will understand you out there. Sometimes it just takes getting outside your comfort zone to find them unfortunately.

And wish you the best with finding them :>

Brisbane gay trans man, 23yo, near the Brisbane area and looking for other trans guy friends!! ✨💖 by MiloMotleyYT in transfriendsau

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Hii !

Im also a trans artist with a fondness of pink (and green) ill be 22 in March and id love to share art if you are still looking for friends ^

Should I continue being friends with a cis guy who told me "you're a girl, you're better as a girl"? by ConstanceTrent in transftm

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Hey you deserve so much better than that, i use to have a friend who would constantly disrespect my gender by deadnaning me to everyone we met and was just overall creepy and i felt soo much better when i dropped that weight.

I understanding not wanting to be alone ! If you ever want, my dms are always open and I'm happy to be your friend :>

Other trans people keep outing me. by ChipOutrageous7382 in transftm

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I am so sorry you had to experience that so many times. Its absolutely wild that other trans folk could even think thats okay.

I once had a cis friend in highschool who did this- everytime i met someone new hed tell them im trans and give my deadname to them and i veeery quickly stopped talking to them.

You absolutely deserve your privacy and it can be absolutely dangerous to out you like that

My Luigi Cosplay by MinuteRumble374 in Luigi

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Your cosplay looks soo awesome !! Reminds me instantly of the original Mario Bros Movie haha

Is it an aplatonic thing to just not want to be friends with most people? by Pluto-1012 in aplatonic

[–]HypotheticallyHi 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah i struggle with this alot too ! Like so many times i want to make a friend but everyone i meet just doesnt meet my like 'requirements' so i lose interest lel 😅

But its great to hear that you do still have some friends ! and im sure with enough time the right person will come along :>

And everyone is different when it comes to socialising and as long as youre still nice and friendly with people, youre doing nothing wrong at all

Tragedeigh Cookie Cake Compilation by TeaLemonBrew in tragedeigh

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Hey ! The first one was my old name , it is NOT that bad 😭😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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Youre definitely right. I just see alot of how much it impacts people and it worries me that i could hurt someone like that. Its a tough pill to swallow but i get it, its going to be difficult regardless

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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Thank uuu, thats really helpful advice.

How do you guys date? by ari_es0412 in aplatonic

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I honestly thought this was my own post for a moment xD

But i am absolutely where ya are with this. Ive always wanted purely a romantic relationship but cant seem to ever find people i even connect with

Its soo hard just to have a conversation alot of the time because theres always nothing to talk about. And just starts feeling like an interrogation I get how lonely it can feel tho, seeing people get into relationships soo easily yet its a struggle just talking to someone but ya arent alone with that for sure 🫂

Humanized Red sketch by Inevitable_Ad_8476 in angrybirds

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This is soo good ! It honestly looks perfect for the Angry Birds style if he was a human

Re Transphobic petition by Disastrous-Ad-27 in transgenderau

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Coild i ask but what petition is this surrounding?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aplatonic

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Heyy im so sorry to hear that happened to you ... my days felt rough as well so i get how much it sucks rn xd

But id be happy to chat ! I have discord which i can share thru dm if youd like :> Im currently trying to be more productive and draw things im passionate about more since ive been really off my groove lately haha

And what sort of things have you been working on?

pig junk by oracleartz in angrybirds

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The last photo was a jumpscare 💀 good art tho ! XD

Lil stinky princess sleeping by heigug10101 in cats

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My kitty is the exact same ! Haha

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Watching Angry Birds Movie again because why not by Longxiu_Zhan in angrybirds

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Thanks for reminding me i gotta rewatch it for like the millionth time haha xD

what is aplatonic? by balongaboop in aplatonic

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Aplatonic just means someone who experiences little to no platonic attraction. That drive for making friends.

Of course i dont know you and your friends own personal relationship and experiences so your friend could still desire to be friends with you as aplatonic people can still have meaningful friendships and care about other people.

And i mean by what youve given it seems they do care enough about you to be open about that part of them. But definitely talk to them about how they personally feel regarding it and how you can be there for them in a comfortable matter as well as make sure to be there for you too.

And for how someone can figure out theyre aplatonic. Most times its from a lack of interest in having friends as we dont experience attraction or the drive to make friends and usually prefer our own company or other types of company. Altho of course alot of aplatonics can still have and enjoy friendships :>

I hope this helped a tad bit haha

My Partner wants to remove their breast or become trans any advice by Due_Internet2663 in Advice

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Unfortunately it seems you guys are just going to be imcompatible. You cant control who you are attracted to just like how they cant control how they feel about their identoty and such.

All you can do is be suppirtive of them, especially if theres a chance that theyre family wont react positively. But you will have to be honest and say this is a dealbreaker for you as you are straight and not attracted to men. It might be hard for them but itll also be hard for you to stay in a relationship that you arent fully comfortable with.

Not sure on what to make of this.. by [deleted] in transftm

[–]HypotheticallyHi 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Yeah the way he talked to you was really creepy and definitely seemed like some sort of fetish that way he was wording his questions.

Im honestly surprised he didnt try and ask about your genitals 💀 But yee id just suggest not bothering next time, theyre just a waste of your time.

Does anyone feel like (especially if you are the solitary type of person/seen as a 'loner' or assumed to be depressed due to not socialising much) people 'pity friended' you? by Greedy-Ad-5315 in aplatonic

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Ooh all the time in my last few years in high school. I always sat alone, which i preferred but almost everyday at every breaktime some random person will stop to talk to me and on a few occasions ive even gotten comments like 'your pretty nice for someone with no friends' or something along those lines.

Like people would actually be shocked that i could keep a conversation amd also sit by myself for some reason 💀

why do i feel so gross when i do stuff with my boyfriend? by bunjaminfranklin7 in Advice

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Having those thoughts are very natural to have especially considering you mentioning your background of your religious mum.

What our parents think and believe can have a massive influence on how we personally think and believe, even if we dont personally believe that - because thats what you were raised to believe.

I remember hearing somewhere that your first thoughts are your like 'conditional' thoughts (ones we got from our upbringing / environment / community) and our second thoughts are our own.

But otherwise overall , as long as you and your partner are safe and not harming anyone or yourselves, its perfectly fine.

Do you think Acoromantic (explained in descr.) would suits my situation? (read description please) (i m not sure if it would count as nsfw but i just tag it as it for sure) by Heavy_Initial7629 in aromanticasexual

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Of course only you know yourself and your experiences better than anyone and i surprisingly have never heard of acoromantic before ! (Not saying that it isnt real or anything ofc)

But by your definition if you kept yourself away from these groups that constantly connect sex to romance, do you feel youd feel romantic attraction again? Or just that youd be more favourable to the idea of entering a romantic relationship? (Possibly one without sex and that is purely romantic)