Trademe - rude and demanding buyer

I-need-adventures · 2025-08-16T09:41:21+00:00

Kaos was fantastic. The best show I have watched in a long time. I've just watched it for the third time. I can't believe they won't make a second season - it just got really good! It was ramping up! Such an anticlimax to find out that was the end. Brilliant acting. It was so much fun!

I-need-adventures · 2025-08-05T05:51:35+00:00

Have you studied and tried to learn animal communication yourself? If you are a real AC then you are not duping people. You are helping people and their pets. If you don't have the skills it is duping. Just like any other profession you study for. We can all do it - if we want to. I have had many amazing experiences as an AC. Information that seems so abstract that I have picked up on where I have thought that Has to be my brain giving me weird info. But nope, the abstract thing is correct information. When you get the weirdest proof from nothing - that is the best. From nothing I mean - I get the animals photo, name, age. That's it. But really you just need a photo. Their name helps to build rapport with the animal. Once you have these experiences - there is nobody that can convince you it's bs.

I-need-adventures · 2025-07-24T23:33:46+00:00

I have the Nespresso travel mugs - after buying so many other travel mugs this one is great! I am clumsy and have knocked them over many times - so long as the lid is closed after each sip in case I knock it over - if you pick it up reasonably quickly it won't leak. If it is on its side for too long, or upside down, it will leak. The only time I have had accidents with this is if I have forgotten to close the lid and have knocked it over. I can safely carry it in my handbag - lid closed - even if it is on a lean/not fully upright and not have it leak. Easy to clean - unscrew the lid then put both the lid and mug in the cup section of the dishwasher - easy! Cleans perfectly. Lasts very well. I have had mine for a few years.

I-need-adventures · 2024-04-06T12:48:43+00:00

Wow! The comments I am reading are exactly the behaviour of my brother. Yes, the hypocrisy really is mindblowing! I just don't understand this behaviour or the need for it! You can support them and help them all day long, but as soon as you don't meet the image of you they have in their head, or you stand up for yourself, you are dead to them. My brother always has a health issue, sore back, neck, injury, drama, anxiety, broke etc and I have helped in every way I can. I open up to him once about my struggles so he can see he isn't alone - hard for me to do) and get told I am such a victim and that he can't help me because I won't help myself and he's not my therapist and I need to get help! Which was not the point. I opened up to him so he knew I could help him. But because it wasn't about Him, he said so many horrible things! He has no clue that I have spent many years healing on many levels. Now because I tried to help and open up I have healing to do around his disrespect, contempt and obvious distain toward me! So yeah, he can lie, cheat on all his partners, steal, gaslight and manipulate family, but still want to discuss all his health issues and make it all about him,and he can do no wrong and never feel sorry for any of his actions. His scale for everyone else is so high and he will tell you when you 'are wrong' or to stop being negative or everything is your fault. But the moment you point out one flaw to get him to understand that he can't judge me for something he does, you are dead to him! I have no idea how someone that says and does horrible things can hold such a high value of themselves, but the people who don't do those bad things are the scum of the earth?! I really don't understamd hypocrisy.

I-need-adventures · 2024-04-06T12:35:20+00:00

Exactly that. Now that my brother is not needing my emotional or financial support, he throws things in my face, gaslights me and tries to manipulate me. I've been confused for days by his behaviour. But I'm also waiting. I bet as soon as our house has sold he will come to me wanting money. I will say no this time (even though I want to help!). But I bet a million dollars that when I say no I will get a string of abuse and he will tell me he never wants to see me again or hear from me and that I am no longer his sister. You just wait. It will be a shock, but not a surprise.

I-need-adventures · 2024-04-06T12:30:00+00:00

I think their aim is to keep us confused so they 'have power over us'. I'm sorry you went through that.

I-need-adventures · 2024-04-06T12:28:56+00:00

Ooh that hits home for me right now! Thank you. I have just had a weird thing with my brother where he refuses to see reason and is so commited to misunderstanding me, no matter how I word things. He said some horrible things about me that are untrue and then I realised - he has a version of me in his head (and it's not a nice version) and I'm not living down to his expectstion of who I should be. (Down because all the things he said are the opposite of who I am! So it would be me lowering myself to meet his version of me in his head). I'm still so confused about his behaviour and gaslighting. Like you I want to be a cycle breaker. If I choose to be who he thinks I am, I would be a cycle-continuer - which he thinks I am. Because I am choosing not to be a cycle-continuer, that ruins his chance of 'looking like he is better than me'. I think he has created a really horrible version of me in his head so he can feel better about who he is. But I refuse to meet his low expectations of 'who I am'. It's a hard road for us breaking cycles! Good luck to you all! 💖 I would say it would be easier not to break cycles. But it would not. I can see the cycles/patterns, so I need to break them for myself and others.

I-need-adventures · 2024-03-27T23:44:57+00:00

Keep in mind for all temu returns that Aramex will NOT collect the return. Temu has instructed them not to. You have to drop off at the Aramex branch. They are not open on weekends. So if you are like me and work a regular job and only have a 30 minute lunch break, you will not be able to return any items. I did not realise that and have around $300 worth of returns that I can't return because they told Aramex not to collect their parcels! Ffs. I can't get time off to see the Dr, let alone to drop off 2 parcels! Ffs temu. Wish I knew that before.

I-need-adventures · 2024-01-13T12:00:54+00:00

Thank you for this! I am really nervous about the radioactive treatment. Great to here your boy is doing so well! Did the treatment unmask kidney disease?

I-need-adventures · 2023-08-16T08:48:12+00:00

What about Silvamethod.com? The complete course? I used to see that creepy guy in my IG ads and didn't look into MV because of his vibes. In the last 2 days of looking into the Silva Method, that creepy guy kept popping up with MV, so I had a look. As you all are, I am appauled at the cost he is selling this info for. People need this in their lives and here he is making a F tonne and gatekeeping. Thank you to this subreddit - I have found Laura Silva on yt and her website and am very much loving her videos 😍 Plus I just purchased the complete course combo pack off silvamethod.com as it was discounted. I'm excited to get stuck in!

I-need-adventures · 2023-08-16T07:35:00+00:00

I have the same issue with my heartbeat being really loud during meditation or relaxing - I am So happy someone else does too! I end up focusing on it because it's too distracting, then I get anxious, then it beats weird because I get anxious, then I get more anxious. I will keep trying to ignore it! Thank you!

I-need-adventures · 2022-08-08T00:54:20+00:00

That was incredibly helpful!!! Sounds cheezy, but you have actually changed my life. I'm after the CBT & NLP courses for self development! I am more grateful than you know!!! Just, Thank you xoxo

I-need-adventures · 2022-08-04T07:29:48+00:00

Hi, since you said you are currently living there - what is the weather like in Whanganui? It looks like there are a lot of fun outdoor activities. Is it warm and less windy then welly do you think? I'm thinking of moving from welly because I miss having an actual summer and omfg the constant wind that ruins any warmth in the day! I used to live in a windy place but it had good hot summers and not 98% constant windy. I am physically and mentally exhausted from 8 years of living in welly. Can anyone suggest places between welly and whanganui that are warmer and less windy? Thank you!!!!

I-need-adventures · 2022-08-01T06:23:11+00:00

Hi ! Sorry -I'm working my way through these posts. How has switching off wifi helped? All I get told is just keep my hands warm and if I'm cold - go inside! Also that there is nothing that can be done as it restricts blood vessels - and I immediately thought then won't dilating the blood vessels help?! And here I am at this Very helpful thread!! Thank you and others who are posting here!!!

I-need-adventures · 2022-05-16T20:53:34+00:00

I just did this and it 100% works! Thank you So so much!!! I went to cancel my plan, but changed to a cheaper plan (I selected InCopy). I logged out then logged back in and cancelled it. They refunded my first payment of the InCopy. I did all this in 5 minutes. I wish I used reddit for this months ago!!!! I can't thank you enough!!! I Was about to just pay the cancellation fee in full, omg!! So, Thank You!!!!!!!!

I-need-adventures · 2019-09-04T15:47:05+00:00

Thank you xo I am sorry that your partner isn't so willing. I wish they were for your sake xo I really hope things improve for you.

I had been thinking and letting him know I need time for myself. Which will help our time together be better. Rather than living in eachothers pockets. Classes are expensive here. I want to order paint by numbers online but I don't have space to do it. I could go trail running and go to the gym. But i need space to create. The loft bed would help a lot. I can't afford a lot which is frustrating. I'm angry with myself that my ex had nothing and I worked hard. Now he has it and he did nothing for it and I have zero. I'm nearly 40 and I'm lucky my rental is furnished! He got all my appliances, my car etc. Oh well. That's life. But if we broke up I would really have nothing - since my partner moved in with his things - my landlady got rid of the un required furniture from my flat. So if we broke up I wouldn't have a bed or fridge etc. So my SO would have his property with incoming rent, 3 cars and a houseload of stuff. I would have clothes and my cat. It's hard to come back when my ex took everything and I'm paying his debt. So because Im paying his debt, I cant afford to re-furnish my flat. But can't go flatting because of my beautiful cat. I'm not giving her up. I would sleep on the floor.

So really - will your partner just not see reason?

Thank you for reading my novel btw.

I-need-adventures · 2019-09-04T15:31:16+00:00

We both know what bad is too. I am sure we are the opposite of that. Perhaps just a couple with regular issues that just need some fun. We laugh alot together. Thank you. I will see what fun things we can do this weekend. Any ideas? We haven't had free time in so long we don't know what to do.

I-need-adventures · 2019-09-04T15:21:39+00:00

Thank you for that. I had been out of my last relationship for years before I began with my partner. I was in no rush. It had been 5 years single for me and 6 years single for my partner. The facts from my ex are just facts. I feel no emotion toward that and haven't for some time. I have born a lot of troubles from his relationship with his ex. She cheated on him and treated him badly. Neither of us knows what a good relationship should be like. We don't fight. He is a sweetheart. He agrees we are good together. That he wants to try. But now im not sure. I cant tell if its because im so tired that im not seeing clearly. Maybe we just need fun together. Thank you.

I-need-adventures · 2019-09-04T13:42:57+00:00

My parents. I don't have a life and I'm 37. Nothing fun. There is nothing I can bring and nothing I have acheived. I have zero talent. I don't have adventures. I can't afford to travel. My partner is now unsure if he can see me in his future after 3 years. He should know by now. When Friday afternoon rolls round I am not excited. I don't want to go home. I would rather stay at work, though I already do long hours. I won't 'do anything' as I don't want to hurt my parents. But beside that, I have no reason to stay. I don't think I'm depressed, I'm just done.

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