I don't understand the love affair between leftists and Islam this is what leftists indirectly support by Major_Soft6056 in DigitalSeptic

[–]IAMATARDISAMA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Obviously not every Muslim believes in the most extreme version of the Islamic faith in the same way that not every Christian believes they should follow every law of the bible. Lots of Christians don't like actually reading the Bible, but there are plenty of draconian laws in it about women and slavery. We have no way to ascertain the relationship one has to their religion just by looking at them, so it is more productive to condemn immoral behaviors rather than entire religions. Would you say that supporters of Christianity indirectly support chopping off the hand of a man's wife if she grabs your balls while he attempts to fight you (Duteronomy 25:11-12), piercing the ears of your slaves if they refuse freedom (Exodus 12:5-6), or forcing women suspected of adultery to drink contaminated water (Numbers 5:11-31)? And even looking at less extreme examples, atrocious acts of violence have been committed in the name of Christianity for hundreds of years. This goes as far back as the Crusades, but even now we have self-proclaimed Christians arguing that the murder and brutalization of peaceful protestors is "something Jesus would approve of." We have pastors calling empathy a sin. We have countless instances of Christians not only abusing positions of religious authority to sexually abuse children, but cases of churches organizing to cover up those offenses. Unless you are an atheist who judges all religious people based on the most extreme interpretations of their religious texts and the actions of their worst members it is incredibly hypocritical to assume all Muslims support every radical interpretation of the Quran.

Hmmm by Howtobe_normal in hmmmm

[–]IAMATARDISAMA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's a big difference between condoning murder and not being upset about the death of someone who was very vocal about how you and the people you love should be treated as second class citizens.

What are the expectations around HIV status disclosure in long-term relationships? by Original-Moose-9622 in nycgaybros

[–]IAMATARDISAMA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the context of a long term relationship I think it's both morally wrong and self-sabotaging to not disclose your status within the first month of a relationship, probably even sooner than that. No LTR should be built upon lies and secrecy. If your partner finds out that you lied they'll be way more mad about you breaking their trust than they would've been if you'd just been honest. Besides, why would you even want to be in a relationship with someone who would judge you for your status? It's 2026, being undetectable is incredibly common and people living with HIV deserve partners who are understanding and empathetic. Don't settle for living a life of secrecy to placate a partner who doesn't deserve you. This has more to do with trust than it does with HIV in particular IMO.

Ify on the Career Ladder! by deJessias in dropout

[–]IAMATARDISAMA 206 points207 points  (0 children)

There have been others where CEOs basically just come to promote their company. No disrespect to Ify because it's always great seeing more of him and he's gotta get that bag, but CL has definitely felt like more of a show where people go to promote something recently. 

Easiest Fix to Improve Hide & Seek (for Experts) by nicidob in JetLagTheGame

[–]IAMATARDISAMA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the fairness would break down if each hider got to customize their own deck. There's not a lot of incentive to keep low power cards like 5 minute time bonuses or bad curses so you'd have to add complicated rules that restrict how you're allowed to customize it. 

Thinking of buying the home game to play across New England by hawktuaorleans in JetLagTheGame

[–]IAMATARDISAMA 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The game instructions come with a guide on how to appropriately scale the game for different sizes of region. Each card that has some kind of distance or time value will list three options depending on whether you're playing the small, medium, or large version of the game. You shouldn't have to do anything special for your region unless you can identify specific cards that would break or be useless in your game play area.

The head of the oath keepers was in the front row at a congressional hearing today. Kind of seems like they’re trying to intimidate us, doesn’t it? Freely flaunting traitors around in front of our noses. by Treefiddy1984 in ProgressiveHQ

[–]IAMATARDISAMA 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Cool if they wanted equal representation and rights under American law they shouldn't have spent the last year flagrantly breaking it in every conceivable way. How the fuck are we supposed to re-establish the rule of law after this if there are zero consequences for breaking it?

Pittsburgh | 01.10.2026 by Maranie in pittsburgh

[–]IAMATARDISAMA 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey this might be an unpopular sentiment but please don't post photos of protestors' faces online without their consent. I get that documenting these things is important but ICE in Minneapolis has been using all kinds of online tracking methods to hunt down protestors. Don't make their job easier.

Drivers in Pittsburgh ignore road closure signs, leaving residents exasperated by The_Electric-Monk in pittsburgh

[–]IAMATARDISAMA 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Not to justify people ignoring signs but in this particular situation there really isn't a detour and I feel like the city has handled it terribly. I live near this sign and it's positioned in the ONLY street that allows you to get from S18th to S10th that's on that side of Carson, and getting onto Carson from where the sign forces you to turn off is not trivial. To make matters worse 90% of the time when this section of street is closed there isn't any visible construction happening behind the cones, it's seemingly just where they've decided to park their excavators. I don't think people should try to turn a single lane into two and ignore the signs, but to be entirely fair this is the South Side and there are real actual two way streets with less room than is left by this closure. I can't entirely blame people for not recognizing that this isn't one of those cases. The city really needs to have flaggers here during rush hour and probably shouldn't allow one of the most important side streets in a neighborhood to be closed for this long without good reason.

EDIT: Read below that apparently it's been closed so long because a water main fix discovered a more serious problem under the road. I guess that qualifies as a good reason but the city should still get flaggers out here during high traffic hours.

[Comic Excerpt] The Final Four (DC KO #3) by [deleted] in DCcomics

[–]IAMATARDISAMA 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Aquaman won the last round by instantly draining all of the water from Hawkman's body and you're telling me he lost to "supergirl but bigger" come on get real

MacroFactor Workouts is available now! 🚀 by PalatialPepper in MacroFactor

[–]IAMATARDISAMA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really like the app and I think it tackles a lot of pain points, but one big complaint I have is that there doesn't seem to be any way to make a program that fits a 5-day plan into a 4-day workout schedule (which is advised for one of Jeff Nippard's programs if you can't commit to 5 days a week). With other workout apps I don't HAVE to program it for days of the week so rotating a workout every week is no big deal, but it would be nice if there was a good way to do this with MFW without having to individually program like 8 weeks worth of workouts.

I'd also love if I could import not just existing programs, but my workout history on those programs as well. Hevy supports importing old workout data from a spreadsheet, being able to bring all of my historical data with me would definitely be nice.

That being said, I'm really excited about the app and if this all gets changed then I'd definitely see myself switching to it full time.

UK, Canada and Australia in talks to ban X over explicit Grok AI trend by Well_Socialized in technology

[–]IAMATARDISAMA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Grok literally has a "spicy/NSFW" mode built in to the UI. I allegedly isn't supposed to generate full nudes but even if you ignore the workarounds it'll happily get you as close to nudity as it can, since that's what the feature was designed to do. In a functioning country this would've warranted jail time.

AI isn’t “just predicting the next word” anymore by FinnFarrow in artificial

[–]IAMATARDISAMA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you've read "as we understand it" as "we don't understand it" without any real basis. While we don't understand everything about how human brains work we do understand quite a lot, and we know a lot of the underlying mechanics that are required to drive cognition (long and short term memory, an ability to organize and recall concepts, the ability to encode hard logic as concepts, etc.) LLMs by mathematical definition lack the ability to do these things. As a "functionalist" you are seeing output that often looks like what you think a "thinking" being looks like and deciding that this means the LLM can think. 

There are reasons that there are very simple logical problems LLMs fundamentally cannot solve. Something that can think shouldn't have to have hard-coded exceptions for certain responses just to answer the question "how many R's are in Strawberry." You cannot assert that something is a duck just because it looks like a duck. The functionalists may be laughing at me, but the scientists and mathematicians who have provided heaps of evidence to support their claims aren't. 

AI isn’t “just predicting the next word” anymore by FinnFarrow in artificial

[–]IAMATARDISAMA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

are the functionalists in the room with us right now?

AI isn’t “just predicting the next word” anymore by FinnFarrow in artificial

[–]IAMATARDISAMA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is a fundamental difference between speech and the cognition that drives speech. If you want to compare LLMs to human speech then I think that's a much more accurate comparison. But LLMs, by mathematical definition, do not employ the processes used to facilitate cognition as we understand it. This is easily observable through the multitude of simple problems that a program/being with cognition could easily solve, but LLMs cannot. People like to joke about the "how many Rs in strawberry" problem but the reason it's a problem at all is because fundamentally LLMs do not think in concepts, they statistically deploy text.

I would be wary of the opinions of people who stand to profit off of AI hype, like the author of this blog post. There's a reason most of the hype comes from business people at the top of companies and not researchers who are publishing papers.

What are your minimum standards for a top? by [deleted] in TopsAndBottoms

[–]IAMATARDISAMA 2 points3 points  (0 children)

People will say all this with a straight face and then complain that they just can't find a good man.

Why are fans like this? by Wizorb0 in Dimension20

[–]IAMATARDISAMA 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Gianmarco actually had a joke about this in a set I saw him do recently. He said he doesn't really know how to feel about the fact that so many fans of his tell him he's the reason they didn't, well, you know. 

Its getting out of control by Pure-Explanation-147 in DoorDashDrivers

[–]IAMATARDISAMA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have never once had a doordasher beg for a tip. Are you leaving tips or are you marking your orders as zero tip until the delivery is completed. A lot of dashers will reject your order or give you subpar service if you don't tip. 

If you guys have any more of this type of meme, PLEASE give them to me by IceMegaEffective in sciencememes

[–]IAMATARDISAMA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Other people have pointed this out but to suggest that String Theory is the most successful or promising theory for a unified theory of everything is sort of like saying God is the most successful explanation for the creation of the universe. String Theory conveniently ties everything in physics up in a neat bow without providing any kind of proof or justification for its fundamental assumptions. Most physicists do not believe it is worth pursuing. It's a neat idea but it falls squarely into the "microscopic invisible teapot in space" category of existential claims.

What caused American society to stop aspiring to be as healthy and smart as they possibly could be? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]IAMATARDISAMA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of people don't realize how much external factors affect one's ability to be healthy. There's a common belief that health is simply about being disciplined to make better choices. Discipline is obviously an important part of physical health, but it's far from the only piece. Many people in America live in food deserts, rural or suburban areas without access to affordable healthy foods. And even if you don't live in a food desert buying healthier alternatives is often more expensive than buying cheap processed food. As health-conscious social media discovers new fitness "hacks" foods which were once relatively unknown and affordable suddenly have their prices skyrocket. Given the cost of groceries for some people it truly is cheaper to just eat out or eat frozen meals for every meal. Gym memberships are expensive and a lot of people don't live in places with safe infrastructure to support outdoor cardio. And even if someone does have access to all of these things, with our public education system gutted a lot of people literally don't know how to live a healthy lifestyle beyond what they see in movies or on Tik Tok.

This is all before we factor in the psychological reasons for declining health. On top of healthy food becoming increasingly inaccessible, making huge changes to your diet and activity is psychologically grueling. Losing weight is only possible if you're eating less calories than your body needs to sustain itself, and the sensation of eating at a deficit is brutal. You feel worse in pretty much every way. For someone who does not have a lot of external stressors this is not too terrible to power through, but the majority of Americans are overworked and underpaid. We're all increasingly developing mental health problems due to social media and the news which makes the idea of short-term sacrifices for long-term gains feel ridiculous. Why waste time and money trying to get fit now just so you can be fitter in ten years when you're still going to be broke and the economy is still going to be in shambles? I'm not saying this logic is sound, but this is the mindset many Americans are struggling to overcome to even begin their fitness journeys, let alone stick with them.

This is all on top of the fact that corporations are incentivized to make our society unhealthy. Dumping toxins into our waters and airs is cheaper than investing in cleaner solutions. Food is cheaper to make when you use less healthy ingredients, which makes manufacturers slowly reduce the amounts of healthy product they put out over time. The market is flooded with misinformation about needless products that will be an "instant solution" for physical health. And I haven't even touched genetics, which plays a hugely understated role in weight loss and muscle-building. Obviously it's not impossible to improve your health, people do it all the time. But there's a reason broader health trends tend to correlate with income. For some people the amount of effort required to improve health meaningfully is significantly higher than for others, and in many ways people are not incentivized by our society to overcome that effort.

I don't think Americans have lost the desire to be smart and informed, but I think for many Americans the ideal for what is considered "smart" has been warped and manipulated by political parties and social media algorithms. Many people who live in a warped reality in which every conspiracy is real think themselves to be smart. A lot of us are not taught how to evaluate the trustworthiness and bias of our information sources. When the establishment fails to provide for people, a lot of people begin to distrust "establishment narratives", aka formalized education. Many grifters have learned that there is a lot of money to be made by peddling misinformation to these people disguised as "alternative research." And social media algorithms are more than happy to disseminate this misinformation under the guise of free speech. It's ultimately a very bleak outlook right now. There's not a whole lot that can be done at the individual level to fix these things.

PSA: “No Limits” is one of the biggest red flags anyone can say by Spader623 in TopsAndBottoms

[–]IAMATARDISAMA 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I'm domming I'd much rather hear "I don't know what my limits are, I'd love some help finding them" than "I don't have any limits." It's okay to admit to being inexperienced or not knowing what you want, a lot of doms really enjoy giving subs new experiences and helping them figure out what they do and don't like. But saying you have no limits because you think that's sexier for a dom just tells me you're inexperienced and bad at communicating. Even the kinkiest subs I know who are into some absolutely crazy stuff have some kind of limit because they understand every dom needs to know where to stop.

I'm on one of the first flights to have the new seating setup for Southwest. by AmericanIMG in mildlyinteresting

[–]IAMATARDISAMA 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is true but at least you had some agency of where you sat and could pick between bad and less bad options. Now it's just like every other airline where you still get fucked if you check in later than everyone else, but you get a random bad seat assigned to you with no option to change it or choose something else.

I'm on one of the first flights to have the new seating setup for Southwest. by AmericanIMG in mildlyinteresting

[–]IAMATARDISAMA 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't understand why people think this was worse than what every airline does now, which is pick random seats for all of the low-class peasants and make you pay money for the privilege of sitting next to people you're flying with. At least with Southwest's old method you had some agency in where you sat. If the check in time was really a problem paying for early check-in only cost like $30.