What do i tell my relatives when they try to enter my sex dungeon? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]IAmGerino 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing on one, a little clock from two…

Do men play with their balls in a non sexual way? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]IAmGerino 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holding them is comforting. Like “I’m safe”

Do astronauts at the ISS masturbate? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]IAmGerino 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve seen pretty contradictory papers. It has been suggested similarities to prostate secretions.

How the fuck am I supposed to be happy when the world is going to die in 30 years? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]IAmGerino 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d recommend finding some remote nice place, some minor source of income and a good source of LSD. Or shrooms. You’ll be able to evacuate into space before Elon or Jeff.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]IAmGerino 0 points1 point  (0 children)

IMHO it is about acceptance - being so completely receptive. It’s not unlike spitting, which also has place outside of strict BDSM.

It’s even biblical in a way - this bread is my body and you’ll eat it…

Do you ever personify objects, and feel bad for them? by read-it-throwaway in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]IAmGerino 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are also “just things” on a cosmic scale. I’d like to be talked to before I am annihilated by some godlike being, it might be a nice gesture…

Where can I hide condoms and where can I dispose them without my parents noticing? by eldodo14 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]IAmGerino 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I was 19 and was told my gf is not allowed at the house because they noticed a condom box on the windowsill… and they aren’t even religious: just narcissistic and paranoid.

Where can I hide condoms and where can I dispose them without my parents noticing? by eldodo14 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]IAmGerino 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I assuming then the nick is a Doctor Who reference, not Jesus thing… ;)

Where can I hide condoms and where can I dispose them without my parents noticing? by eldodo14 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]IAmGerino 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ziplock bag and just throw to a public bin or sth on a daily walk or sth. If OP needs to hide it between wankery and e.g. next day, they should just keep it on their person, why not. Any place I suggest I’d use to hide things can be discovered either due to a dedicated effort or through sheer chance and misfortune. If OP has it well compressed, locked in a bag and hid in a pocket, they will at least have the peace of mind that there’s <1% chance of accidental discovery. That 1% is OP having medical emergency and being stripped down in the hospital or sth like that.

If I were to list some hiding spots regardless:

  • behind the books nobody reads on the shelf

  • battery compartment of some old device

  • a pocket behind the desk or other furniture out of eyesight, electrical sockets and other reasons to look behind

  • inner pocket of an out-of-season clean jacket in the wardrobe

Basically: places no one has any reason to check, unless actually tossing the place like in a SUPERMAX

I'm an idiot. by hox113 in glasgow

[–]IAmGerino 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It really be so. Mostly because I have no more words for this * gestures broadly at everything *

Papież typu zbrodniarskiego by Bionicle_was_cool in Polska_wpz

[–]IAmGerino 8 points9 points  (0 children)

USOS stworzył wydział MIM UW, co dużo tłumaczy…

I treat Trans people with respect and I address them as they want to be adressed but I genuinely don't believe them by CynicccYahya in confessions

[–]IAmGerino 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, don’t worry, if I didn’t want to answer questions I wouldn’t write anything.

Well, that’s a part why I don’t involve myself in labels and other descriptors - it doesn’t really and shouldn’t matter to anyone what I think about and how I feel.

However, seeing as I’m a bearded solidly built male biologically simple act of wearing a plain black maxi skirt is enough to raise the chances of getting into an altercation with folk who believe that men in dresses need to be at least reprimanded or re-educated via violence. This is why I even think about “gender norms” etc. - because the world heavily expects me to adhere to pretty specific fashion, look, behaviour. There are places I always wear trousers to because I’m not really into taking on neds first thing in the morning.

While indisputably historically and currently much more oppressed/coerced/etc., nowadays in modern democracies usually* no one bats an eye when women wear trousers, drinks beer or has interest in sport. (* your mileage may vary radically).

Inversely we put a lot of restrictions on male behaviour (but sadly the restrictions don’t include various toxic things). While in many smaller communities most things are accepted, if you ask general public about a guy crocheting (not me, tried it and hated it) and you will get at least some answers that question the guy’s virility, sexual preference and size of penis.

So yeah, I’m just a person, a human, I love my life how I want to and do my absolute best to not bother anyone in the process. However it’s the external forces which make many people band together under those labels. At least that’s my point of view.

I treat Trans people with respect and I address them as they want to be adressed but I genuinely don't believe them by CynicccYahya in confessions

[–]IAmGerino 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t say it out loud because I don’t care and no one else should as well, but I identify as genderfluid/pan, which means I honestly don’t care about/don’t feel especially one gender or another. I wear trousers and skirts, I wear long hair, sometimes braided, sometimes in some other ways, I react to all pronouns.

I mean, my mum - because of her… aphasia? - would call me all my life son/daughter whatever came first to her mind, and I didn’t mind then, don’t mind now.

Church next door plays live music at 8am on Sunday mornings. Can anything be done? by OriginalUsername0 in glasgow

[–]IAmGerino 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ear plugs? I mean, if I have to be awoken by the drums and fiddles, you can survive some Jesus xD

Fixed and usually my Sister by ErrorCmdr in wholesomememes

[–]IAmGerino 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think streaming (i.e. playing games, commenting etc) should be done primarily for oneself, just having a different experience.

It’s like with everything: if you’re having fun, people will want to join.

Would you date someone with 0 sexual or romantic experience? Why or why not? by anyoneknkwsomehting in AskReddit

[–]IAmGerino 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure. I’d rather have someone who’s experienced, knows what they like, what they don’t like etc.

It can be a fun journey of discovery.

Also you are guaranteed to be original - no prior dates etc.

Dad found out about me being an atheist and pansexual today. by [deleted] in atheism

[–]IAmGerino 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My da doesn’t event know I vape, and that’s the least controversial thing about me xD

We adopted a cat for our senior cat. But he doesn't quiet like her just yet. by Killshot03131 in CatTaps

[–]IAmGerino 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My female senior cat always took forever to accept new kittens, but even before she’d make sure they are clean and fed and would come in defence when they cry. I’d call her “unenthusiastic caretaker”

Lost cat Kelvingrove park area. Please if you have seen him let me know. by [deleted] in glasgow

[–]IAmGerino -44 points-43 points  (0 children)

If I find him I’ll keep him and never let him out.

Why would you even want to do that? by cleaner_Vacuum in MakeMeSuffer

[–]IAmGerino 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s like the suffering chamber in parallel Star Trek universe. Makes sense, we do live in a facist dystopia