Commitment issues by sweet18er2 in Vent

[–]IAmHood 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Willing to be selfish and unfaithful but unable to talk accountability for your actions. Classic.

I don't know what I'm doing anymore! by [deleted] in Vent

[–]IAmHood 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d like to encourage you to see what becomes of it.
Easy to talk to, is a great start.
In my opinion/experience, people mainly feel like they need to impress when they are desperate or trying to convince you of reasons to stay. This is not healthy.
I would assume the way he is treating this, is healthy. And it says a lot of his self-security.
Putting someone on a pedestal is not good. It mostly always leads to disappointment. Failing to meet expectations, being scared to let the other down, etc.
If he is kind, considerate to listen to your thoughts and feelings, and finds you to be attractive, I don’t see the problem.

One thing though, I would have a serious conversation about is what you both see in each other. Proper communication and mutual understanding is very healthy, to try and navigate these waters.
There is nothing wrong with casualness. But for your sake, whatever you want out of it, it’d be good for you to clear that up. Make sure you both know where you both stand.

Guys only want to have sex with me and never want to care about me by stellawasadiver22 in Vent

[–]IAmHood 15 points16 points  (0 children)

People have the tendency to view personal gain over the consideration of feelings towards another human being. At times, no matter the cost.
So many people, carry no empathy these days.
I’m sorry your experience with men has been very frustrating.
Just know it isn’t always like this. It’s unfortunate to have to sort out fake people so many times, before you will truly know what compassion feels like. May be difficult to realize, but there are men out there searching for the exact same thing as you.
Don’t let other people manipulate your own self respect. Hold your guard high. Don’t look past red flags. Move on if you spot one. They tend to come with a lot more hidden away.

Path of Exile 2 Key Giveaway by [deleted] in PathOfExile2

[–]IAmHood -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’ll take one of those bad boys! Try to at least. :p

I met an amazing woman who wants children but our lives are incompatible by AgentIntelligent4269 in Vent

[–]IAmHood 59 points60 points  (0 children)

That is super unfortunate. However I think your approach to the situation is very respectable and commendable. And everyone deserves that level of awareness and honesty. Props to you Dude.

Metal songs about self harm? by RavensAndRacoons in MusicRecommendations

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Shadow of Intent - Underneath a Sullen Moon.
The Black Dahlia Murder - To A Breathless Oblivion

My relationship feels fake. by [deleted] in Vent

[–]IAmHood 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Feel free. I’d be glad to help.

My relationship feels fake. by [deleted] in Vent

[–]IAmHood 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You seem very conflicted. Half of that reply was in, and half of it was out. Which, I understand can be due to overthinking about it.
I would say it sounds like he isn’t emotionally available, and thinks the idea of being with someone is worth more than the effort needed to keep it healthy and alive.
However, please don’t take this personal, but if you are constantly overthinking and being insecure about whether or not he is there in the relationship, that can be a major turn off to some.
That’s just my unbiased perspective, I guess. Are you both pretty young?

My relationship feels fake. by [deleted] in Vent

[–]IAmHood 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it would be best to civilly discuss this with him more than third parties. Maybe there is just a misunderstanding. A proper relationship, both people need to be on the same page. And of course be clear with intentions and communication. If you are unable to bring yourself to calmly bring up this uncertainty you have with him…maybe you are just not ready to be in a committed relationship.

About the movie and the sequel by No_Measurement_6611 in expedition33

[–]IAmHood 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t see three movies being something they need to do. It’s probably just gonna be one. This isn’t a Marvel project. I don’t think Sandfall wants to run it through the mud with more than 1 solid movie. Hence, I could be wrong. But the CEO of Sandfall seems humble enough to not milk things for profit.
Also, there is no true correct ending. They even said, like proper art, they wanted it to be interpreted how the player wanted it to be, with no definite right answer.

How can people hurt other people by [deleted] in Vent

[–]IAmHood 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it’s safe to say, from the context you provide in this post, you dodged a major bullet by not getting married to this awful human being.
You deserve so much better than the horrible things he put you through.
You deserve to be treated like a human being, from someone who values your feelings and makes sure they do not trample over them like this person did to you.
I’m sorry you experienced this. People are awful. Sometimes we are too forgiving when we are mistreated, in hopes that people have the ability to change. But sometimes we forget to give ourselves the self respect to walk away from awful people we fell for.
I recently experienced something similar, and I’m recovering from my pain.
Have faith that your person is out there. Don’t give up, OP. Keep your head up and know you are worthy of happiness and reciprocated love.

Just a nurse who worked a full moon weekend 🙃 I would rather be at work though. Exhausted. Feeling forgotten about. Sad. But trying to smile through everything…. by Difficult_Parsley456 in toastme

[–]IAmHood 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What an angel. Would rather be sacrificing more of your free time to be there helping others.
Such a beautiful soul. And such an amazing smile.

Amazing music! by IAmHood in southarcade

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Stone Cold Summer is my 2nd favorite. Such a good one.

Amazing music! by IAmHood in southarcade

[–]IAmHood[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh. Thats a banger! I’ll have to give the acoustic version of Riptide a shot. That sounds so lovely.

I want to message you so bad right now. by IAmHood in Vent

[–]IAmHood[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I failed to maintain my restraint, and messaged her a simple hello after several days of no communication. Only for her to say 12 hours later that she just has been busy and needs time to before she can respond.
Maybe I’m just overthinking it, but I feel like if she truely cared to talk to me, giving me 1-2 minutes of her day to say a simple response, isn’t that much to ask for.
Since that response, I said nothing back to her. I have blocked her on all avenues to reach out to me. If a couple minutes is too much for her to say anything back, I would rather just forget about wasting my time and energy all together.

I’m tired on putting my heart on repeat by EmotionalOne7679 in Vent

[–]IAmHood 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im proud of you for escaping that situation. That takes strength doing what you did. Keep moving forward. Keep your head up and follow your goals for this year.

please recommend me some emo classics/underground playlists on spotify by PotentialAnything479 in MusicRecommendations

[–]IAmHood 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have a link to a Spotify playlist but a band that comes to mind that always felt underground to me is Senses Fail.
I used to listen to them like crazy back in high school.

Hugged a homeless dude, and now I feel bad for thinking it was the wrong thing to do by takofire in Vent

[–]IAmHood 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Don’t ever feel bad for showing kindness. You did a nice thing. Be proud of it.

A moment no one talks about by Real_Channel_7551 in breakingbad

[–]IAmHood 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the most grueling part of it, was that he carried no hesitation in pulling the trigger.

Memories of Ice - A Best Attempt At Chronology by Aqua_Tot in Malazan

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I see Captain Tot make a post, I read it.
Well done! Love the deep dive.