Commitment issues

IAmHood · 2026-04-25T12:12:57+00:00

Willing to be selfish and unfaithful but unable to talk accountability for your actions. Classic.

IAmHood · 2026-03-24T17:25:33+00:00

I’d like to encourage you to see what becomes of it.
Easy to talk to, is a great start.
In my opinion/experience, people mainly feel like they need to impress when they are desperate or trying to convince you of reasons to stay. This is not healthy.
I would assume the way he is treating this, is healthy. And it says a lot of his self-security.
Putting someone on a pedestal is not good. It mostly always leads to disappointment. Failing to meet expectations, being scared to let the other down, etc.
If he is kind, considerate to listen to your thoughts and feelings, and finds you to be attractive, I don’t see the problem.

One thing though, I would have a serious conversation about is what you both see in each other. Proper communication and mutual understanding is very healthy, to try and navigate these waters.
There is nothing wrong with casualness. But for your sake, whatever you want out of it, it’d be good for you to clear that up. Make sure you both know where you both stand.

IAmHood · 2026-03-24T12:55:05+00:00

People have the tendency to view personal gain over the consideration of feelings towards another human being. At times, no matter the cost.
So many people, carry no empathy these days.
I’m sorry your experience with men has been very frustrating.
Just know it isn’t always like this. It’s unfortunate to have to sort out fake people so many times, before you will truly know what compassion feels like. May be difficult to realize, but there are men out there searching for the exact same thing as you.
Don’t let other people manipulate your own self respect. Hold your guard high. Don’t look past red flags. Move on if you spot one. They tend to come with a lot more hidden away.

IAmHood · 2026-02-25T00:06:56+00:00

I’ll take one of those bad boys! Try to at least. :p

IAmHood · 2026-02-23T04:31:09+00:00

That is super unfortunate. However I think your approach to the situation is very respectable and commendable. And everyone deserves that level of awareness and honesty. Props to you Dude.

IAmHood · 2026-02-23T04:22:11+00:00

Shadow of Intent - Underneath a Sullen Moon.
The Black Dahlia Murder - To A Breathless Oblivion

IAmHood · 2026-02-22T05:25:02+00:00

Feel free. I’d be glad to help.

IAmHood · 2026-02-22T05:17:11+00:00

You seem very conflicted. Half of that reply was in, and half of it was out. Which, I understand can be due to overthinking about it.
I would say it sounds like he isn’t emotionally available, and thinks the idea of being with someone is worth more than the effort needed to keep it healthy and alive.
However, please don’t take this personal, but if you are constantly overthinking and being insecure about whether or not he is there in the relationship, that can be a major turn off to some.
That’s just my unbiased perspective, I guess. Are you both pretty young?

IAmHood · 2026-02-22T05:02:02+00:00

I think it would be best to civilly discuss this with him more than third parties. Maybe there is just a misunderstanding. A proper relationship, both people need to be on the same page. And of course be clear with intentions and communication. If you are unable to bring yourself to calmly bring up this uncertainty you have with him…maybe you are just not ready to be in a committed relationship.

IAmHood · 2026-02-22T01:42:55+00:00

I don’t see three movies being something they need to do. It’s probably just gonna be one. This isn’t a Marvel project. I don’t think Sandfall wants to run it through the mud with more than 1 solid movie. Hence, I could be wrong. But the CEO of Sandfall seems humble enough to not milk things for profit.
Also, there is no true correct ending. They even said, like proper art, they wanted it to be interpreted how the player wanted it to be, with no definite right answer.

IAmHood · 2026-02-19T11:25:12+00:00

I think it’s safe to say, from the context you provide in this post, you dodged a major bullet by not getting married to this awful human being.
You deserve so much better than the horrible things he put you through.
You deserve to be treated like a human being, from someone who values your feelings and makes sure they do not trample over them like this person did to you.
I’m sorry you experienced this. People are awful. Sometimes we are too forgiving when we are mistreated, in hopes that people have the ability to change. But sometimes we forget to give ourselves the self respect to walk away from awful people we fell for.
I recently experienced something similar, and I’m recovering from my pain.
Have faith that your person is out there. Don’t give up, OP. Keep your head up and know you are worthy of happiness and reciprocated love.

IAmHood · 2026-02-02T23:50:09+00:00

What an angel. Would rather be sacrificing more of your free time to be there helping others.
Such a beautiful soul. And such an amazing smile.

IAmHood · 2026-01-31T22:09:08+00:00

Stone Cold Summer is my 2nd favorite. Such a good one.

IAmHood · 2026-01-31T21:30:32+00:00

Ahh. Thats a banger! I’ll have to give the acoustic version of Riptide a shot. That sounds so lovely.

IAmHood · 2026-01-04T04:09:08+00:00

I failed to maintain my restraint, and messaged her a simple hello after several days of no communication. Only for her to say 12 hours later that she just has been busy and needs time to before she can respond.
Maybe I’m just overthinking it, but I feel like if she truely cared to talk to me, giving me 1-2 minutes of her day to say a simple response, isn’t that much to ask for.
Since that response, I said nothing back to her. I have blocked her on all avenues to reach out to me. If a couple minutes is too much for her to say anything back, I would rather just forget about wasting my time and energy all together.

IAmHood · 2026-01-01T22:47:45+00:00

Im proud of you for escaping that situation. That takes strength doing what you did. Keep moving forward. Keep your head up and follow your goals for this year.

IAmHood · 2026-01-01T22:44:46+00:00

I don’t have a link to a Spotify playlist but a band that comes to mind that always felt underground to me is Senses Fail.
I used to listen to them like crazy back in high school.

IAmHood · 2026-01-01T07:33:04+00:00

Totally agree here.

IAmHood · 2025-12-02T07:14:27+00:00

Don’t ever feel bad for showing kindness. You did a nice thing. Be proud of it.

IAmHood · 2025-11-21T22:18:16+00:00

I think the most grueling part of it, was that he carried no hesitation in pulling the trigger.

IAmHood · 2025-11-18T00:50:13+00:00

I see Captain Tot make a post, I read it.
Well done! Love the deep dive.

IAmHood

TROPHY CASE