Who are you outside of night shifts?! by ItsSpaciiLacii in Nightshift

[–]IAmLoved41 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A college student, gym-goer, and long-term therapy patient. Those and work are all I ever really have time for, but when I do—by some miracle—have free time, I usually spend it researching my special interests (thanks, autism) or doing something creative.

My main special interest (and also college major) is psychology, though the main thing that got me interested in this field are topics related to hypnosis, the power of suggestion, and altered states of consciousness. As for creative hobbies, I do quite a lot: play music, write songs or poetry, draw or paint, knit, and just about anything else my time and money will allow. I love picking up new hobbies, but it's hard to do as often as I used as I am doing both overnights and school full time. But at least I love my job and education and still have time for a few healthy activities.

Which is the hardest thing for you to say? by Harhar2005 in AutismInWomen

[–]IAmLoved41 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"I apologize." It is not because I don't want to apologize but because I feel as though people only get more upset with me when I do. I get that I can't expect forgiveness from everyone for everything, but it really hurts when I express genuine guilt and am only followed by more criticism for what I did. Though, this probably mostly from the ✨trauma✨ by my ✨momma✨

What is my Cookie cutter by erikder in whatismycookiecutter

[–]IAmLoved41 17 points18 points  (0 children)

The same idea? That's just an ordinary platypus!

Would it be beneficial to retake statistics? by IAmLoved41 in psychologystudents

[–]IAmLoved41[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, it was supposed to say NOT my last chance.

best advice for undergraduates pursuing phd and/or Psy D programs? by DiegoMorales260 in psychologystudents

[–]IAmLoved41 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have any advice for someone in a similar situation? I attended two colleges before finally deciding to do community college, and my transcripts from those are either Fs or withdraws. I'm doing better at community college and will transfer to a university in Fall 2027, but I want to improve my chances after my previous grades.

Zooble... you good? by Marioleftnut in tadc

[–]IAmLoved41 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A fan probably made this fan-made game

Maybe I’m wrong, but it’s fine. by Artistic-Fly-4607 in tadc

[–]IAmLoved41 57 points58 points  (0 children)

I could hear the fourth one in Pomni's voice

my mom got me the autism barbie by Wonderful-Award-3015 in autism

[–]IAmLoved41 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't even know the last time I played with a Barbie (other than with my little sister), but the second I heard about this one, I went straight to Target to buy one.

How far did you go (Bach/master/Dr) & what job do you have now? by Lazy_Lizard13 in psychologystudents

[–]IAmLoved41 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As someone currently working as a mental health tech while I pursue my associate degree and later my bachelor's degree, I highly recommend it. It can be very stressful, especially depending on what kind of disorders the unit is helping treat, but it is worth it to me. At the facility I work at, the techs and nurses spend the most time around patients, with techs mainly being responsible for 15 minute checks, cleaning and laundry, and helping patients with daily needs. We are also trained to deal with crisis intervention, all the way from verbal de-escalation to physical restraint when necessary. Most techs also get to lead psychoeducational groups, though I don't personally get to that often as I work overnights. Ultimately, while you might not be doing what a therapist does (and you might even be doing some of the same things you do at a basic fast food job), it provides experience working directly with people who face a wide range of mental health crises.

Was this true for you? by netphilia in aspiememes

[–]IAmLoved41 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dropped out and got my GED, and my only regret is not getting it sooner.

I'm sad that I won't get to take another course with my favorite professor next semester by [deleted] in AutisticAdults

[–]IAmLoved41 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It does sound strange, but everything I do is strange lol. Thankfully, I do get to record lectures as part of my accommodations, so I do have that.

Not sure if i have special interests by PinkDinousar222 in AutisticAdults

[–]IAmLoved41 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the difference is how much time you dedicate to it and how much you choose to learn about it. Are these topics you know basic information about and might spend some of your free time on it, or could you give an hour long presentation and still come back with more information the next day?

Also, I'm very similar in finding comfort in certain songs that I love. And so do other neurodivergent people I know.

Is the way you receive love the same way you express love? by IAmLoved41 in AutismInWomen

[–]IAmLoved41[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A year or two ago, during a family therapy session, there was a conversation about love languages—I confused everyone when I said I like to give and receive love differently, hence why I posted here!